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 happyrebel

Joined: 11/8/2007
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 8:40:49 PM
How could I have forgotten to mention the hands? Gotta love the large, strong hands with calluses.......and long fingers with clean nails

HR
 megalo9

Joined: 2/6/2008
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Posted: 2/20/2008 8:52:04 PM
Face. Ass. Face. Ass. Eyes. Lips. Hair. Hips. Ass. Eyes. Scent. Lips. Lips. Lips. Eyes. Eyes. Eyes.
 esad

Joined: 4/8/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 3:49:08 AM
Did you ever have something put a song in your head that then will not go away ?
This thread did it for me . AND i always hated the damned song, so it seemed only fair to share


First I Look at the Purse
by J. Geils
Some fellas look at the eyes
Some fellas look at the nose
Some fellas look at the size
Some fellas look at the clothes
I don't care if her eyes are red
I don't care if her nose is long
I don't care if she's underfed
I don't care if her clothes are worn
First I look at the purse!
Some fellas like the smiles they wear
Some fellas like the legs that's all
Some fellas like the style of their hair
Want their waist to be small.
I don't care if their legs are thin
I don't care if their teeth are big
I don't care if their hair's a wig
Why waste time lookin' at the waistline?
First I look at the purse!
A woman can be fat as can be,
kisses sweet as honey
But that don't mean a thing to me
If you ain't got no money
If the purse is fat....that's where it's at.
Some fellas like the way they walk
The way they swing and sway
Some fellas like the way they talk
Dig the things they say.
I don't care if they wobble like a...
or talk with a lisp
I still think I'm a good lover
if the dollar bills are crisp
First I look at the purse!
First I look at the purse!
First I look at the purse!
First I look at the purse!
I don't care if you got yourself a wrap
all I want is your pretty green cash
Bought me a suit, bought me a car
Want me to look like a hollywood star
Money, (Money!) I want money (Money!)
Baby, ain't no "why", baby (Money!)
I need money!
First I look at the purse!
First I look at the purse!
First I look at the purse!
First I look at the purse!
 Katzsprr

Joined: 4/26/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 6:31:41 AM
For me it is truly the eyes and smile but I have to admit one of the biggest things that I notice is the nose... That may sound funny but I just can not seem to get into a really big nose just like some people can not seem to get into something I have.... I guess I will never date Pinacchio....

A mans dark hair mmmmmmmm eyes mmmmm smile...... intelligence mmmmm the way he walks up and not away Right on!!!!!! Oh the list goes on and on lmfao!!!!!!!
 Crystal_1

Joined: 12/17/2006
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Posted: 2/21/2008 6:47:56 AM
The eyes, eyes, eyes! The eyes can say so much about a person. Are they soft,warm and friendly or cold and distancing?
 mike81s

Joined: 2/10/2008
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Posted: 2/21/2008 7:57:33 AM
Wow, nice survey, It seems most people look at the eyes first. And no body looks at boobs or a$$ anymore. Well hard to believe.
 chaos_star

Joined: 2/12/2008
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Posted: 2/21/2008 8:20:25 AM
Her eyes, smile and laugh. Those are what draws me into to someone. Unless I am behind her and she's in jeans. Damn I love a good jean a$$
 Just_2_b_me

Joined: 6/22/2006
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Posted: 2/21/2008 9:16:08 AM
The overall big picture to start, is she HWP, healthy & toned, Tiny & Petite or Tall & Statuesque, long pretty hair, or short hair.
Then move on to specifics, Ass & Legs, cute/attractive facial features or not, the Eyes, the Smile, back to the hair, does it compliment her features or not, fake color or not, (something about seeing a blonde woman turn around and having dark brown or black eyebrows just throws me off)

For me it really is about the whole package, and how all of her features and assets combine to create the overall picture that I then find attractive.

Here is an analogy for you : A woman is like a meal,.

Fast Food = nice butt, or nice breasts or attractive features. Really just one or two separate things you see as attractive.
Restaurant meal = A combination of two or more things that you find attractive.
Gourmet = The overall package, everything comes together in just the right way to compliment each other and add up to a level that could not be achieved by any specific feature on their own.

 Epica

Joined: 12/31/2006
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Posted: 2/21/2008 9:33:38 AM
Arms. Funnily enough since I rely heavily on reading lips, but it's the arms that get my attention at first glance.
 happyrebel

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 10:23:48 AM
just 2 b me writes:
fake color or not, (something about seeing a blonde woman turn around and having dark brown or black eyebrows just throws me off)


Umm...I hate to tell you this...but most women in your age range have to color their hair to hide the grays/silvers. Most true blonds will have very light eyebrows and may choose to darken them to highlight their eyes more-same with their lashes. But I will give you that the bleached blond with black eyebrows can be a dead give away.
Why does it matter if its their NATURAL color or not? If it looks good on them, why would that be a problem? I think its a wonderful thing that our hair can be any color we so choose

HR
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
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Posted: 2/21/2008 10:36:58 AM
I like the overall shape of an attractive women from the top of her head to the shape of her toes.
 IslandGuy222

Joined: 2/13/2008
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Posted: 2/21/2008 10:52:17 AM
Hummm,

I'm a pretty basic guy -- the first thing i notice is a womans face... then of course I cannot help but check out her body, I love boobs - all shapes, all sizes.

I'm also one that clicks into how a woman smells - don't confuse this with perfume... but it can be a slight hint of perfume - but mostly it's her natural smell - when you get in close ...the smell of a woman's skin can drive me bonkers... (that is if it's an attactive smell)

...but from a looking distance - face and Boobs ... or Butt... depending if she's coming or going.
 .Marc

Joined: 2/11/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 10:53:53 AM
The eyes. If the eyes make a "spark" ... I'm defenseless.
 nike46

Joined: 9/4/2006
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Posted: 2/21/2008 11:12:13 AM
from the front it would be the eyes, skin, lips................now from the back her hair length, the butt, or the hips, as man we go on the mission to find panty lines, and only after we have found them our mission is completed. it's like scoring a touchdown.
 Just_2_b_me

Joined: 6/22/2006
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Posted: 2/21/2008 11:12:13 AM
HappyReb ^^^

LOL … I understand the coloring to hide the grey/silver, that is not what I was talking about.


most women in your age range

(You mean OUR age range as we appear to be the same age 46)

It’s the unnatural or conflicting hair colors that are well … just not natural looking, I don’t know any other way to put it.

Looking at your profile pics, Your hair matches you in that it appears natural, it matches & compliments your features and is very attractive.
Whether or not you add a little color to hide the silver/grey is inconsequential, your hair is natural looking and thus I find it attractive.

Blonde hair with black eyebrows isn’t natural looking and thus doesn’t fit into the overall picture in a natural way, does that make sense ?

The “Obviously” fake hair colors do not appear natural to me, thus I do not find them attractive, if I can’t tell it’s not her natural color, and it matches her features and looks natural on her then all is good.
 happyrebel

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 11:38:48 AM
(You mean OUR age range as we appear to be the same age 46)

just 2 b me......Yeah, we're the same age, hence I know alot about hair coloring Thanks for the compliment though-it means I'm doing a good job.

Yes I agree that its easy to tell with the black eyebrows/blonde hair combo. Of course, there are other ways to tell.....if they don't shave everywhere...but not at first glance.
If one keeps it shaved/waxed, there's no way to tell a natural hair color.

I think the exception to the eyebrows not matching the hair would be for the men and women that allow the silver/gray to grow yet their eyebrows remain black or dark(their natural hair color).

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 prettiepower

Joined: 8/21/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 12:19:28 PM
My first "glance" is with my "inner eyes" . . .

I like to "feel" the attractiveness of a man first.

What my physical eye likes to see; smiling eyes, sexy mouth, nice skin and strong, clean hands.
 powerhouse88

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 3:07:02 PM
I look at a womens ass its almost second nature i dont realize im doing it. After that its about the air they put off arround them how they carry themselves how they respond to others. Im a sucker for a woman who is alway upbeat and never down on life.
 ~*SweetAsASin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005
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Posted: 2/21/2008 3:19:49 PM
i look at the face first if im attracted then i take in the whole package
 sock monkey

Joined: 5/18/2006
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Posted: 2/21/2008 3:26:00 PM
idt I look at any particular part. I look at it.... as a whole.

after which, certain parts begin to stand out.










or not!!
 writerlychik

Joined: 1/30/2008
Msg: 46
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Posted: 2/21/2008 8:02:46 PM
Has to be the face... the eyes, the nose (too big/crooked/hooked/bulbous--blech), the lips (sensuous/thin/Fred Flintstone-like), teeth, chin & jaw line, facial hair ( = yay!), hair, THEN the body...

Oh, and the hands... yep, definitely notice the hands. Don't want no girly hands on a man, only strong, manly hands (and clean fingernails please!)
 Crystal_1

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Posted: 2/22/2008 5:49:15 AM
Michael,

That's probably because some boobs are silicone, wherease, the eyes are au naturel.
 Blueskies123

Joined: 11/3/2006
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Posted: 2/22/2008 6:10:19 AM
Face, eyes, shoulders, smile and then the rest...in that order.
 LuVyOuL

Joined: 2/19/2008
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Posted: 2/22/2008 6:22:36 AM
face... then if he is I check the rest of the inventory... lol...
 mike81s

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Posted: 2/22/2008 4:38:27 PM
OK. I think the face and its belongings (lips, smile,...) is the winner here.

We should try to have a nice smile on our face from now on.
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