| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/22/2008 6:31:50 PM | Where do I fill out a job application?
I remember one of my favorite Penthouse Forum stories when I was around 13 or 14 involved a teen-age boy who keeps annoying his older sister and her friends in their backyard pool. The girls finally get a hold of him and strip him of his shorts and then take turns playing with him til he cums.....wow, what a great teen-age fantasy that was. Always made me wish I had an older sister. | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/23/2008 7:01:26 AM | There's always something to learn.
Googling CFNM returned pages of hits, looked like all porn sites. I never heard of this before, and never knew male stripping had risen to the point of producing it's own generic term.
Didn't really see anything to indicate how long or how big it's been, but it seems to be big and long now!
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/24/2008 1:45:45 AM | | whatever floats your boat....but I wouldn't do it. Another way to put it would be DFSM..dominant females/submisive man. At least thats my take. | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/24/2008 5:12:05 AM | I've been to one of those parties, and THIS
Personally I think this is terrible. If there are thing such as CMNF parties, it could be construed as a gang bang. is just not true at all. It seems as if an awful lot of people on this site are opposed to a healthy expression of sexuality between consenting adults.
The party I attended was in a BDSM realm, in which the ladies present were dommes, and the nude males were the submissive servers. It was all just good clean fun among a group of people without sexual hangups or judgements.
I highly recommend it...I'd have one of those parties myself if I thought I'd be able to get enough ladies interested  | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/24/2008 7:46:44 AM |
I've been to one of those parties, and THIS
Personally I think this is terrible. If there are thing such as CMNF parties, it could be construed as a gang bang.
is just not true at all. It seems as if an awful lot of people on this site are opposed to a healthy expression of sexuality between consenting adults.
I am not opposed to a healthy expression of sexuality between consenting adults. I had simply stated that if there are C M N F... clothed MALE, naked FEMALE (opposite of what the OP had said) that it COULD be construed as a gang bang.... not that there is anything wrong with a gang bang if that is what all parties are into.
I also said "personally, I think this is terrible"... not meaning that everyone should think the way I do. I (note... I... not everyone) do not choose to use a member of the opposite sex as a study guide with a roomful of other women. When I wanted to learn about the male anatomy, I took my time exploring the body of my partner. Like it has been mentioned in many different threads, each one of us in an individual... what may turn one on does not work with another, so why waste my time exploring the body of a man I will not be able to enjoy fully?
The party I attended was in a BDSM realm, in which the ladies present were dommes, and the nude males were the submissive servers. It was all just good clean fun among a group of people without sexual hangups or judgements.
The party you attended was not a true CFNM party if there was more than one male. The kind of parties the OP is referring to is many females and ONE male. Different from what you describe.
To each their own and I have always applauded those that are comfortable to explore their sexuality completely. I do have some experience in an alternative lifestyle with an ex partner...swinging/swapping and thoroughly enjoyed each experience... but like I mentioned before, I don't like to touch and watch if I can't play. Just a PERSONAL preference. | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/24/2008 2:20:11 PM | My apologies to laughinglibra for reacting so strongly and, apparently, inappropriately. I truly am sorry for jumping the gun that way, guess I was just having a bad day...and no chocolate to be seen anywhere!!
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/24/2008 3:23:15 PM | Another porno industry construct, like this whole "cougar bar" concept of older women chasing after younger men. Will the women involved be wearing pigtails, frilly socks, and high heels for their clothing?
If one woman wanted to let her fingers do the walking in the context of an otherwise normal relationship, well, sure - I'm happy to share. A group in a "party" situation? That seems, uhh, skanky to me ... | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/24/2008 3:46:01 PM | To Poly 1der....
Thank you for your kindness and to be honest.... there was no chocolate in my house either!!   | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/24/2008 4:31:02 PM | | Not my cup of tea. I prefer skin on skin in my play, and if its chaste play then I know beforehand and trust me, there is only one person I would do this for. | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/24/2008 4:38:14 PM | These parties or scenerios are reality . It is mostly about control and humiliation in many cases...and sometimes the male involved is a true exhabitionist.
Not everything different is immoral or just a fantasy. It is just different... | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/24/2008 9:51:13 PM |
It is mostly about control and humiliation in many cases...and sometimes the male involved is a true exhabitionist. I was just going to say that!!! LOL I think would enjoy a CFNM senerio. A group setting would be alot of fun, especially if it was a male who enjoyed the humilition aspect of it. I think thats what would intrest me the most LOL But even in a one on one setting CFNM is very appealing  | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 3/10/2008 4:43:45 PM | Actually have been on a few of these sites. Kind of interesting.... What would a woman or women have a guy do if they had total control of the guy?
Actually sent a message to the guy running it to ask which fantasy women liked the most. He responded that most of the members were guys.... Kind of a let down....
Then again I have some submissive fantasies........ | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 3/11/2008 10:20:02 AM | | The only way I'd ever get caught in that situation is if the women involved needed to induce vomiting. | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 1/20/2009 4:52:58 PM | I posted a comment on CFNM under a different thread. (See http://forums.plentyoffish.com/3653737datingPostpage2.aspx)
I was wondering what the women thought of the detailed CFNM party I described in that post. I would especially like to hear what "poly_1der" and "Supermaggie" have to say about it.
While CFNM might be considered a version of BDSM, I see CFNM as involving no physical pain (except a minimum amount, perhaps) or trading of bodily fluids. | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 1/20/2009 5:00:18 PM | | Definitely not for me.... if I'm gonna play with a naked male.. he best be for my pleasure only... Damn, does that make me selfish? LOL | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 1/29/2009 7:34:13 PM | | This almost sounds like a male fantasy...and yet it doesnt. I think this concept is confusing to the male mind!! | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 1/29/2009 7:56:28 PM | You have got to be kidding. This is happening?
What age are these females putting these parties on? What age is the guy? Is this a college thing...lol
Sorry, just prefer "one guy, no clothes" -"and just me, no clothes." | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 1/29/2009 8:09:19 PM | Sounds like your average bridal shower in New Orleans.
Yeah, I've tended bar for WAY too long.  | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 1/30/2009 12:14:33 AM | How much beer do you consume prior to this?
What happens when another dude shows up twice your size? Uhh not taller eh
If you could do this your my hero.
Advice....don't do it on a cold night.
I got my drawers pulled down once at a party. I'm not ashamed of what I have but jeez. My wifes bf always says ya know I've seen the goods. Could u teach my hubby how to trim.....yikes
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 1/30/2009 12:36:28 AM | | Sounds pretty stupid to me. I don't even understand it. If a woman wants to play & investigate a man's body I'm sure there are lots & lots of guys who would volunteer. Why the organized party. I must be missing something. | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 1/30/2009 1:42:25 AM | Fun or not? Not. Maybe fun for the guy. I agree that it sounds more like an exhibitionist's fantasy or possibly someone who likes mild humiliation.
Wait, do I get to poke at it with a stick? That might be kinda fun...Nah. Never mind. | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 1/30/2009 9:51:42 AM |
The male is there as a prop for the use of the women..
I enjoy using men as furniture. Foot stools, coffee tables, coat racks, chairs, etc. The list is endless. They must keep their eyes to the ground at all times. It gives new meaning to the term c0cktail party. | |
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| CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 1/30/2009 9:56:12 AM | | This sounds silly to me, but I understand where it comes from. It is a slight form of dom/sub where the male has less power, since she is clothed and he is naked and vulnerable. Also, they stem from the fact that women have frequently complained that men, being 'naturally' more sexually aggressive, can't wait to strip of the woman's clothing while the male, being the power hungry gender that he is, leaves it up to him when his clothes come off. If a woman was into this, I might attend for sh**ts and giggles, but not like I am running to go try one out. | |
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