| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/26/2008 11:39:08 AM | Awwwww, you mean the ladies are able to tell that you're shallow?
That must be rough for you. How dare they not be wanted as an object or even worse, when you lower your "standards" they STILL don't want to be wanted just as a body. The nerve of some women. Don't worry, after this forum post I'm sure the ladies will be lining up for you, lol. Those lucky ladies. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/26/2008 11:57:19 AM | Just as an example, your profile reads you are 38. Then, in the "About Me" section, you say that is incorrect. OK, BUT YOU DONT SAY WHAT YOUR CORRECT AGE IS ???? I think this is a ploy used by players, so you can adjust up or down depneding on which "sucker" you reel in. Just how freakin' old are you?
Secondly, I think you are assuming that "unattractive" people are desparate and find it hard to belive they are not begging for that second date so they can jump your bones.
Just try honesty. It really does work.
Look at me..I am an independantly wealthy, international superstar but, as you see, very humble.  | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/26/2008 12:02:26 PM | ..because i'm a humble open-minded person....alot of people will eat a skunk before they go out with someone "clearly beneath them"
i learnt a lesson on humility today!! look down on mankind and criticize... I wonder why you even care to date! A lot of woman would be happier to never meet you.
Do you even like yourself? what do you see when you look in the mirror? I'm sure it's a skunk's butt
one thing I'm glad. There are men out there who won't take that kind of crap even from their fellow men... this is what's worth my time | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/26/2008 12:05:54 PM |
Don't worry, after this forum post I'm sure the ladies will be lining up for you, lol. Those lucky ladies.
LOL... yes I agree... but it's only so they can slap him upside the head,, | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/26/2008 12:37:04 PM | Don't worry, after this forum post I'm sure the ladies will be lining up for you, lol. Those lucky ladies. LOL... yes I agree... but it's only so they can slap him upside the head,,
he's already brain damage, hopefully he doesn't get a few bats on the head or run over... we would feel sorry for the mighty little skunk named 'bergslim' | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 7:20:55 AM | Hey man, I've been a little less than thrilled with my overall experience (or lack their of) on P.O.F. but I have received some helpful feedback from a few of my fellow members, so I'll gladly share some with you now.
First, one word, pictures. The likelyhood is very high that the reason why many women have not responded to your messages is because your profile has no photo. Even one pic is better than no pix at all, but I've been told that the more the better. Best to have three at a minimum.
Also, I've been reminded that this site is obviously free, and although most of us use it because of that, it's also a huge downside. The logic being that anytime you let everyone in, there's going to be a sizeable chunk of well, let's call them 'undesireables'. Basically, people (in our case women) who put up a profile but have little or no intention of actually making, and following thru on, a connection with someone else. In other words, people have issues - we all do. Many of these women come on here and put themselves out there merely to see what kind and how many responses they will get. But, as I said earlier, they have no intention of ever actually responding, much less meeting in person for a real date. In a way, I think it must be sort of an ego thing, purely meant to boost their self-esteem.
Anyway, it made some sense to me and perhaps it will to you as well. It just helped me realize, that it's probably not even about me at all and that I should back up off myself and give myself a break. You should probably do the same, but you should definitely get some pix up on your profile man. Definitely.
Good luck. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 7:47:41 AM | I'm confused....
you find hot girls attractive
they have no interest in you...
you find a few less attractive women to contact and ask out...
they have no interest in you
and you are wondering about being mad at them for rejecting you?
Now has it occured to you that YOU are not attractive?
Maybe you should be mad at your momma for mating with your daddy...
obviously they gave you some icky physical characteristics
and someone dropped the ball on giving you manners and class
My answer is yes....be mad....you are at a huge disadvantage being a short, hostile, black man with poor social skills and no perception of reality. (also according to your profile you cant manage to use a drop down menu, have a crappy job, probably make lil or no money, have big dreams without the ability to achieve) I feel bad for you.
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Posted: 2/27/2008 11:48:14 AM | Snow Angel- oooh! Burned, big time! 
(However, don't diss short people, I'm one and I can't help it).
Otherwise, I'm LMAO! | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 3:13:18 PM | OP:
Correct grammar, a grasp of the English language as well as honesty, a little bit of light hearted flirting, combined with honesting & not lying about your age.... may work.
What does :"their not suppose to reject me?" Mean?
Should it be: "THEY are not supposED to reject me?
Falls off the chair laughing...
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/27/2008 3:36:45 PM | So because you have lowered yourself to date someone you consider ugly and undateable ,then automatically they must be attracted to you and throwing themselves at you feet.Oh jeeze man get over yourself already.  | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 3:41:06 PM | Re: Spiraldive...
Fall back onto your chair, pal....since when is "honesting" a word?
another hit and run from
The Vocabulary Weasel | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 3/1/2008 5:34:45 PM | | Ok messege me and I will go on a date with you and I will let YOU turn me down. Than your ego will be boosted backup . I have never heard of anything so messed up! | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 3/1/2008 6:00:57 PM | | Don't worry OP. If you keep looking you'll eventually find someone so repulsive that there's no possible way she'll reject you. You just to have faith and not give up in your search. That certain special loser is out there somewhere. Good luck! | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 3/1/2008 6:19:55 PM |
OP Why don't you just go date yourself? What a perfect solution!
Methinks that's already happening.
Or, it will after this thread.
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Posted: 3/1/2008 8:04:32 PM | Whos drunk,,
that has got to be the best yet..
Because the next post will be about how he rejected himself...
as the each walk away feeling superior and rejected at the same time...what a win-win | |
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| they're not supposed...
Posted: 3/2/2008 12:15:28 AM | hey,gang, can we cut the OP a little slack here?
1)we all use POF to immediately get perfect dates all the time...
2)we all assign arbitrary evaluation of others based on a couple photos and a few paragraphs...
3)we all expect everybody to act in accordance with our wishes
4) we all sanctimoniously react in an arrogant and ignorant fashion when we don't get our own way...
we just didn't bother to tell HIM... | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 3/2/2008 12:29:36 PM | I will not reject you thats wronng .unless your meen!LoL love to take a ride up some saturday morn and meet poeple are so judge mental. hey worse comes toworse we be friends right. Ill be back on line around six. c-ya xoxo! | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 3/2/2008 12:35:17 PM | So your big plan was to lower the bar, go out with women that you are not physically attracted to, expecting that they are so stupid they do not notice this, and then get your shorts in a twist because they know that you have condescended to go out with them and they don't want to be the Plan B you settled for?
Yeah, let me get my teeny, tiny violin out. Why don't you try actually writing to people whose profiles you like, who seem intelligent, witty, kind, etc., start to fall for their personality and then when you meet them even if you might not ordinarily be attracted to them you will be because you fell for their brain.
Since we have no pic of you we can't tell if they are pleasantly surprised when they meet you or if they too find that you are not what usually appeals to them. Maybe they gave you a chance and you didn't ring their bell and they don't want to go on another date when they ultimately know it is going nowhere.
Or, maybe when someone talks the way that you do, that you are doing the poor ugly skanks a favor by going out with them, that you have an unattractive personality that they are not interested in spending any more time with. Just a thought. | |
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Posted: 6/2/2008 4:51:48 PM | How about a ladies point of view here? I went out with one of you in this forum. We agreed to meet at a certain restaurant and then HE didn't lie that type of food. Being a nice person I agreed to go elsewhere- to McDonalds. After a $6 meal we went to see where he lived and he was all over me. Not grossly but like he deserved kisses and more. I was agreeable to a few kisses, to see if there were any sparks. I said I wanted friendship first to see if we would be okay further. NOT his plan.
SO here is the female advise. Be friendly and do several things together. If you agree to meet at an Italian place- like Italian or say so before. It is a bit embarrassing to go to a place you go often and then get up and leave!
Don't neck on the first date. That gives the idea that that is all you want. Be honest. If you on't like a persons pic thn don't waste their time! I for one have not accepted a date since. OH! And be honest about yourself. If a person says they like to travel, dance, hike, and antique shop- you won't match if you are wheel chair bound.
Pics are great but HONESTY id the main thing. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 6/2/2008 4:57:37 PM | I used to know a guy at work who thought the same way. When his hot, coked up crazy girlfriend was too much to handle, he would grace some less flashy, studious type, who he was not attracted to with his attention, and write me random emails throughout the day to tell me all about it just so I knew how charitable he was being.
That guy was kind of a jacka$$.
You might be too. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 6/2/2008 6:13:36 PM | Well, you can all stop the lynching, he has deleted his profile. I'm sure he'll reappear under another name though, so watch out girls!
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