| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 10/30/2005 11:24:25 AM | | I vote "porn in a relationship" as well, as in, pornlike relationship! | |
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| Porn in a relationship (SirMidnight)
Posted: 5/9/2006 7:13:59 PM | | Sadly, I have tried sexy outfits, and according to him he doesn't have fantasies. From what his mom and dad tell me, he's "just being a man, and men like looking at naked women". I've tried talking to him, and he gets pissed off or feels hurt that I don't think I'm enough for him.. when he's not really giving me much to go on. I've got a stronger sex drive than him.. but he likes masturbating at least once everyday instead of having sex. Then again, we are talking about someone with a "personality disorder", so go figure. Thanks for the advice.. | |
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| Porn in a relationship (taurus516)
Posted: 5/9/2006 7:18:45 PM | | I know.. and I am insecure about my body.. but I am VERY secure as to how to please him, lol. I know what I'm doing there.. it's just he seems to prefer taking care of himself. I know his back hurts alot because of his job.. and I've offered positions that doesn't put too much strain on his back, but he still doesn't want to have sex. Specifically he says he's still attracted to me, but he doesn't feel like having sex like we use to. Maybe he's being lazy? If I ever tell him I'm not in the mood he gets pissed and expects me to still go through with it. I feel it's one sided with him.. only when HE wants it. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/9/2006 7:33:21 PM | My relationship with my ex was for 13 years, we use to love to read forums togther from Play boy and penthouse what a turn on...I guess the biggest thing with me was I did not care if we watched Porno it was good once in while...However, I did not want it to be the only thing that my boyfriend was turned on by....I wanted me to be number one in turning him on...
And that once in a while.
If you had to use that for the tool of your sex life.........well that would be sad. | |
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| Porn in a relationship (taurus516)
Posted: 5/10/2006 8:36:46 AM |
Specifically he says he's still attracted to me, but he doesn't feel like having sex like we use to. Maybe he's being lazy?
I've heard of a condition, where a man who has some difficulty in getting or maintaining an erection will prefer masturbation or oral sex to intercourse.I have a friend who suffers from diabetes and cannot get a complete erection.He prefers to masturbate as he says he can have an orgasm without an erection. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/10/2006 8:55:53 AM | Porn pisses me off because the more insanely jealous guys I've dated had a habit of leaving porn in obvious places. The one that did it the worst was extremely paranoid about "finishing the job"....the job being me off course so he would leave porn all over the place in case he didn't :finish the job" it would look as though might not be "finishing the job" all the time either.
Some people are really stupid.
And yes, I'm a bitter ass female and I don't need to be reminded.
I had boyfriends that just happened to come across porn and start looking at it, or watching it...in front of me....that's totally different. If that's the case, who cares.
but if there's porn laying around to be found or pictures of one certain porn star, like over the bed.....that shit aint even worth starting an argument over but it's a clear indication of what kind of person you're dealing with. | |
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Hezron
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Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 582 | |
| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/10/2006 9:04:04 AM | Organisms having sexual relations=evil viewing...keep away from children ect
Organisms murdering each other...killing each other in rage=good family entertainment.
Society is indeed ill. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/10/2006 11:02:14 AM | I write porn.
So if they have a problem with it, they're going to have a big problem with me.  | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/10/2006 2:50:56 PM | it can be fun to watch porn together, sometimes for comedic relief and sometimes to add a little variety to the sex!
if your partner wants to watch porn all the time , or prefers porn to actual hands on (no pun intended ,well maybe pun intended!) action then I would probably have a little problem with that, otherwise, have at it! Women are lucky now too , a lot of porn is written with them in mind so there is actually some kind of plot involved (besides the whole "I'm the plumber here to snake your pipes deal) , although I don't think any of us watch porn for the plots.... | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/10/2006 4:07:16 PM | Does not bother me a bit, I have watched it with my man of the mo...it spices up our sex lives cause I know he comes back to me.... | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/11/2006 6:37:07 AM | @rgraham666,
I'm a cameraman.I would love to read some of your stuff.Is most of the porn in Canada done in Toronto?I wrote a script recently and would like your critique.I shot porn back in the 70's. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/11/2006 7:09:06 AM | taurus? No screen writing, yet. All my stuff is strictly 'on paper'.
Don't know if my work would be suitable for movies anyway. I tend to spend a lot of time on building character and the situation. So it's not really suitable for filmed porn.
And after observing the average 'actor' in filmed porn, I doubt they'd catch the nuances anyway.
If you want to read my work, Google my handle rgraham666. The second last entry on the first page will get you to the work I've published on line. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/11/2006 7:55:12 AM | I dont see anything wrong with it. Sit back relax and enjoy the show ....pass the popcorn please  | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/2/2006 12:15:48 AM | Porn in a "Relationship". What an oxymoron...
Porn is a handy recipe. No real response required. No real relationship required. No real emotion required. How handy for the person who wants to achieve control.
K; get mad at me...
Oh, did I mention - that people in porn get paid FOR it? | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:30:48 AM | | I loath porn. I think its pathetic to see anyone over 25 needing porn. I'd rather spend all my time making love than watching someone else...now written erotica is a different story....i write erotic stories for my boyfriend all the time....he dosen't need porn....he has me...;) | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/2/2006 4:03:18 AM | | I'm not involved with anyone and don't look at porn. I would not become seriously involved with someone that would refuse to stop looking at porn. Sex between two people is a beautiful thing, but porn makes my skin crawl and chills my soul to the bone. It reduces humans to the level of dogs in heat. I am convinced that porn is at least a part of what has caused the slow death of the family. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/2/2006 4:14:52 AM |
My ex hated porn ... HATED, porn. But she loved making it w/ me. Go figure
Not a lot to figure out with this. Two people together that are close having sex is the greatest thing on earth. Watching others have sex is just creepy. If a man wants to get me out of the mood for sex, all he has to do is put some of that garbage on, and I will turn into the coldest fish on earth!!! Sex is meant to be something shared by two people that care about each other(Yes I know it doesn't always work out that way, but that is the ideal). Call me a prude all you want, but I will never see sex as a spectator sport if I live to be 100 billion years old. Didn't like it when I was young, don't like it now, and never will. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/2/2006 6:32:46 AM |
...now written erotica is a different story
This is merely the difference in the way men's and women's brains work.Men are more visually oriented, women are more internal.Basically it's the same thing. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/2/2006 11:22:31 AM | | Who cares. girls that think guys that watch porn are doin it because they dont fully "satisfy" them are lost. do they honestly think everytime a guy jacks off hes thinking of them? HELL NO. an just cuz they jack off doesnt mean the women arent doin there job either. I know lots of guys that watch porn that are faithful and definately in love with there girl. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/2/2006 11:24:36 AM | me and my gf watch it together
we've even recorded a few scenes of her own, using her webcam | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/2/2006 11:32:27 AM | | Thanks Katie, you are one woman with a very pragmatic and realistic view on it. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/6/2006 7:19:20 PM | It depends on the porn. There's good porn, and there's bad porn. There's the crappy "pump it in and out until *he* comes" porn, and there's the kind where it's actually sensual and sexy. I prefer the latter and would hope my woman would too. It can be very stimulating, even inspiring sometimes. And I would hope my woman is mature and self-assured enough not to get complexes over me being aroused by a woman on screen, the same way I'm not jealous of her getting warm and slippery over some well-hung hunk on screen. She's with me because she wants to be, not for lack of better options. (Now if only I could find her!)
I say, not only is it normal, it's actually an nice addition to a couple's sex life *if* the production quality is there.
-Kevin  | |
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legwon
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Joined: 1/27/2006
Msg: 600 | |
| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/6/2006 8:26:19 PM | ive been in a few relationships where she either rented or brought over a movie.. lol. shocked the hell outta me.
i have only had 1 that REALLY didnt like it... actually she despised even thinking of me watching it... yet she would go and watch it herself.. lol ... get that one.
other than that its been pretty well down the middle, for wanting it in the relationship.
as stated earlier, variety is the spice of life. | |
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