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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/25/2006 3:59:06 AM | | No porn is very very unhealthy for relationships! The only exception to porn is home made porn of my partner and I together! | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/26/2006 12:44:15 PM | | What is so fantastic about porn ? If you both like it, then great. If she doesn't, and you have a healthy relationship with her......... what is the fucking point ? | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/26/2006 12:46:06 PM | | No way!!!! It's distructive and kills true feelings and emotions that turn sex into love making. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/26/2006 3:38:48 PM | | It's wrong to the person you're in a relationship with but not always. Some women also enjoy porn when you're not there. Some women enjoy porn when you are there. It's stimulating for both of you, but watch out if your partner gets jealous because she thinks you like looking at them instead of her. Porn is not really good, but it's a means of stimulation. If you don't have anybody and keep feeling that need for someone and it's making you depressed, you have to use porn to keep you stimulated. Males tend to need stimulation and if they can't find it with someone, they'll get it another way. Porn isn't the only option, there are other forms that men prefer, it could be girls in videogames, comics, whatever their mind can think of. A lot of men look at Barbie, so what. You can dress her how you want, do what you want, you can create the girl you want and try to find her in real life. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/26/2006 5:16:20 PM |
i wouldn't want my man to watch porn if he were with me, I'd feel that I'm not doin my job to FULLY satisfy him if he still felt the need to watch porn. I would be offended, especially if he did it all the time.
If ya don't like porn then ya don't like porn, no problem.
But it has NOTHING to do with how well you're doin you're job satisfying him. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/26/2006 5:37:54 PM |
If ya don't like porn then ya don't like porn, no problem.
But it has NOTHING to do with how well you're doin you're job satisfying him.
Some people just can't seem to get the idea that it is all just fantasy.Sexual detachment is NOT necessarily a bad thing for guys.It comes naturally. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/26/2006 8:47:35 PM | " Some people just can't seem to get the idea that it is all just fantasy.".
It's a fantasy that for many people becomes real and they live it to the point that the real thing
is never enough. They see things they think are normal and demand them from their partners
and when partners refuse some of that stuff, it becomes a relationship problem that eventually will lead to a break up. It's a vicious circle. Porn addiction is just like any other addiction,
it can destroy person;s life.. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/27/2006 9:30:53 AM | OOOoow porn is such a good thing in a relationship... i learnt alot of things.. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/27/2006 10:09:34 AM | | it depends on the woman......I knwo I would not go for porn | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/27/2006 2:44:41 PM | | well if we both were lookin but why is there a need this girl i just met works in a porn shop she said she likes the anime porn the cartoon stuff she said they had it on at work and she was watching and was getting turned on by it | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/28/2006 7:48:45 AM |
It's a fantasy that for many people becomes real and they live it to the point that the real thing
is never enough. They see things they think are normal and demand them from their partners
and when partners refuse some of that stuff, it becomes a relationship problem that eventually will lead to a break up. It's a vicious circle. Porn addiction is just like any other addiction,
it can destroy person;s life..
Anything can do that.Gambling, soap operas, even church if it is allowed to become an obsession.A study was done on the so called porn addiction phenomenon.Basically, it's no different from any other form of addicition.A porn addicited person has an addictive personality in general.If it wasn't porn it would be something else.
To say porn is an evil that causes people to become addicted and ruin relationships is that same as saying gambling,fishing (I've known marriages to be broken up over hunting and fishing)or anything else that takes precedence over the relationship's fundamentals.People who get all bent over pornography seem to have this idea that because the sex act is involved,it's somehow hardwired to that person's soul and therefore viewing of pornography is somehow more of an attack of the spirit than anything else.This view is primarily held by women, although I have seen some men on this thread that seem to hold that view.Generally alot of women don't understand the idea that for most men, sexual detachment, or a certain amount of it is perfectly normal.In short, a man's porn viewing habits has absolutely NO RELATION to his degree of sexual satisfaction in his relationship.
People who allow porn or anything else to ruin a relationship simply have a predisposition to become obsessive with things.I've seen it first hand in people.I've seen people have some kind of conversion, usually religious but not necessarily, and they give up porn or booze or drugs and they end up trading one obsession/addiction for another.Many times they're more of a pain in the butt after their so called conversion.Just my experience anyway.
Porn can either be a harmless past time to laugh at, as my wife and I do, or it can be the ruination of a person.Just like alcohol or marijuana, a person can relax, indulge in moderation, or they can become an addict.The latter already has that potential within.The vehicle of addiction is really of no consequence. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/21/2006 6:18:39 PM | A person has to stand up for what they want..if their partner tries to force anything on them..its time to rethink the relationship...that goes for anything | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/21/2006 6:39:21 PM | I agree with swtnsssy....who cares ?? And it does add spice in a relationship !! It's a harmless way to live out those fantasies ( not that I have fantasies or anything...lol ) I'm speaking hypothetically of course !!.... | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/21/2006 8:51:58 PM | | Porn has it's good and bad points, it goes way back in our civilization to the first drawings thousands of years ago...The Kama Sutra was considered porn by most society's but yet to the Indian culture, it was a guide book to better love making...And who is to say what is the norm in a healthy sexual relationship? Certain positions or toys or whatever yanks your crank as long as both people are into it, it's good...And if someone is unwilling to try new things, man or woman, they should consider the fact that their significant other may decide to find that sort of satisfaction elsewhere...Same as if a woman doesn't cook for her man, and he finds a woman that does...And as far as it not being love making, well hell, sometimes you just like to have hot monkey sex, not just the slow, all night long stuff (which I prefer mostly)...And besides, with porn, you could learn alot about sex that you never knew existed, and it may look fun or exciting, to where things before were just so, so...I would say most guys, want their women to be a lady in public, but a little more trashy in bed, a little more adventuresome...But, that's my 2ยข | |
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kymish
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Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 619 | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 9/22/2006 9:37:46 AM |
i wouldn't want my man to watch porn if he were with me, I'd feel that I'm not doin my job to FULLY satisfy him if he still felt the need to watch porn. I would be offended, especially if he did it all the time.
What about when he masturbates? | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 9/22/2006 11:58:10 AM | I video tape my partners and sell the videos online for 35 cents each.  | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 9/22/2006 12:22:22 PM | Porn in a relationship makes it spicy!!
Occasional not all the time tho..
Judy | |
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SUGR
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Joined: 7/14/2006
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 9/22/2006 12:25:32 PM | i firmly believe its all NORMAL!!! plus your partner
and you can get a heads up no new things to try!!!
give it a go i say! | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 9/22/2006 12:29:26 PM | I think porn is deviant....seeing a naked woman going at it with someone...stop and think...that woman or girl is someone's daughter...the guy is someone's son...I wonder what it would feel like to think...that could be my daughter doing that.
If my man has to look at strange women doing all kinds of stuff...just to feel good about making love to me...then he can get lost! | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 9/22/2006 2:51:21 PM | Its up to the individuals involved. If two people are in agreement about it one way or the other, what does it matter?
Personally, I think its a definite way to spice up the bedroom.....bring on the porn!!! | |
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