| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/15/2007 12:01:42 PM | | Anyone seen this group, xxxchurch.com?They claim to be a "Christian porn site".Yesterday they put billboards all over some places in some major cities prompting men to take a Valentine's Day anti porn pledge as a gift to their mates.Personally I thought it was pretty lame. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/16/2007 6:44:00 PM | | well be honest porn makes a relationship erotic something new and different if you ask me esspecially if the relationship is serious | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/16/2007 7:28:15 PM | | Everyone do as they wish, if you like porn all the power to you. Most people porn adds to a relationship. If someone in your partnership is offended about it, you need to ask why? What are they insecure about? The thought of people getting off watching porn, who cares, as long as he/she fulfills the appetite at home. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/16/2007 8:04:03 PM | | Porn is stupid. Why waste time on that? Your relationship cant be that serious if you are interested in looking at others. | |
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Joined: 6/8/2005
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/16/2007 8:17:07 PM | Porn is a substituion for something else that may be missing. I would not suggest porn in a relationship..
I have never need porn to enhance a relationship. I've been good enough without it for me and don't think its ever been needed for her. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/16/2007 8:31:44 PM | As long as my needs aren't being neglected and he doesn't repeat what the porn stars say, I'm completely cool with it. The ex lent me his adult key password so I could do my thing. It was all good!  | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/16/2007 9:35:18 PM | | POrn in a relationship....good tool!! I dont understand why people are so insecure in a relationship, that they or their partner couldnt enjoy it? | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/20/2007 11:02:35 AM |
As long as the relationship is healthy, who cares?
I agree.One thing I'll never see eye to eye with is the folks who say it's bad for everybody when there are clearly couples who enjoy it and lo and behold,they're relationship is solid,stable and healthy.The biggest problems stem from couples where one,usually the woman,but sometimes it's the man,has a problem with it and the other doesn't.It's no different from any other issue that mismatches a couple.Couples break up over sports or daytime soap operas but you don't see debates on the morality of sports and daytime soaps. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/20/2007 12:12:28 PM | | No problems with porn. If I'm away for a few weeks or months I'd much prefer his fantasies to include fictional characters and people he'd never meet. For fun I make porn with him so he can have everything like I am there. I don't care for it myself, except for our home videos, but if it gives him what he needs when I cannot due to distance, then I have no issue. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/20/2007 12:39:19 PM | | Who cares! atleast he/she satisfies you completely, who cares.... | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/19/2007 8:58:20 AM | | Heck i love porn, would rather we watched it together though. :D | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/19/2007 9:01:02 AM | Hey if both of you are watching and enjoying it together how is it wrong?  | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/19/2007 9:21:25 AM | I think sharing erotic stories together is no different from reading a romance novel in a way - when I was married I liked to make my partner feel like a porn star. The danger comes if you lose the boundary between fantasy and reality and you start to forget you're actually people in a relationship first. It can turn sex into an addiction if you're not wary.
If the porn starts to become the thing that triggers sexual desire for you as a couple that may be a problem too because it means you're adjusting what triggers your sexual responses - you may find yourself unable to have sex with each other without the porn as a stimulus and this starts a rotting process between the two of you.
There's also a gateway between porn and abusive behaviour, too. There are some things I find totally disgusting that some porn outlets treat as normal sexual behaviour. I watched one porn video about 30 years ago and it was so mindless and inhuman I've never watched another. I think erotica is a better alternative and if you really are working as a couple you can share intense fantasies and there's no need to watch another porn movie ever! | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/19/2007 11:46:37 AM | | The operative word that I see common to most anti porn posts,is NEED."If you NEED porn,then your relationship is suffering some deeper problem.." or some such.I agree.If porn is considered a necessity and not something used as an occasional form of entertainment,then there is a problem. Porn is no different from any other "vice" form of entertainment such as gambling or drinking.It should be an indulgence,NOT a compulsion. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/19/2007 12:16:47 PM | I would have to say that corn in a relationship is good, its healthy for you. Keeps you regular. You can pop it when watching movies, put extra butter........go easy on the salt.
Just becareful with those hard things that stick to your tongue. And try not to eat the unpopped kernels, they could chip a tooth..
Oh.......sorry.....Its PORN in a relationship....my bad. | |
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U-nMe
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Joined: 4/11/2007
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/19/2007 12:23:24 PM | Nothing wrong with porn in the relationship as long as its recreational occassionally. Something very wrong if it is part of a routine and it is sort by any mean.
I think following Jenna Jameson and her troup to many shows for long weekend conventions is not healthy. (I know peeps who are doing this) | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/19/2007 1:00:50 PM | I don't think I could handle anyone I was with looking at porn just because of my feelings about it. When I think of porn I think of the poor pathetic souls who are making money from trying to re-create the excitement of sex. I always think they're drugged-up and drunk and live sad, weird lives. It icks me out and I can't get past it. I'm sure some of it would make me laugh outloud at watching some of the people strutting around thinking they are hot stuff so I wouldn't be a good viewing partner.
I don't think I'd be interested in someone who didn't look at the porn "industry" the same way. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/19/2007 1:02:38 PM | Nothing wrong using other "tools" to enhance/spice things up with your partner!
Enjoy................. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/23/2007 9:02:52 PM | you have got to be kidding me...porn when yer with somebody....jeeeeessssuuus....thats lame...never did care for it myself....actually...only time i idulged myself in it was when I as young man hittin peuberty...then it didnt do a darn thing for me but piss me off cuz HE was gettin what I wanted | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/10/2007 4:40:42 AM | | Better than him asking for a threesome. Why be so uptight about porn? | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/10/2007 4:42:37 AM | I think it would be wrong, You are in a serious relationship, why would you need porn?
Too me that would be rude and disrespectful too your partner, in some cases it could crush your partners heart, if they caught you looking at porn. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/10/2007 7:12:02 AM | When in a relationship, you can't always be together 24/7. Sometimes, well, you just get horny whether you're male or female. I'd want my partner to look at porn than look at another woman, and I'd rather watch porn than think of cheating. To me, that's ICK. Porn is fine UNLESS they are watching bestiality or anyone under the legal age of consent.
Porn is fantasy, and there is nothing wrong with fantasy. To me, it's normal. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/10/2007 7:31:58 AM | I think the scariest thing about porno is that we're so saturated with it... and so many pretty young woman are being used to make a quick buck. I think that we're paying the price of the taboo and that it is indeed something that should be discussed within the relationship. Perhaps best to discuss it before the relationship goes to far. I wouldn't want to stumble another or be stumbled by what another happily allows in their life. If we only had nude beaches and nudity in the park and had grown up with it in this country then by puberty we wouldn't have so many poor souls spending so much of their hard earned cash to support some slime ball with a camera. Not that their all slime balls... but you know the whole  and all that taboo making people feel like cause their fascinated by the many different shapes of female breasts... I know I am... especially the kind that look like  | |
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