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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/16/2007 8:24:20 AM | | The question being, "Is it wrong you're all the porn he needs?" If this man is dedicated to you and only you, then you are all he needs. I can say from past experience, that if a man does not get the intimate pleasures from his soul-mate, wife, girl friend...he just might step out and find a mistress on the side. I am a man, divorced, and I am a sex freak. I love porn especially when it's my girl and me alone in the house or we spend a 3 day weekend at a hotel. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/16/2007 9:03:35 AM | | I think porn in a relationship CAN be fun! It's like another toy, often couples bring toys into their relationship, well I consider porn like another toy.....I don't NEED porn but it is alot of fun to watch together and makes for some variety as well.......Open mindedness is one key to spicing up a relationship. Making your own porn is alot of fun too!!! Not something for all the time but once in a while it can be very exciting, just like everything else, if you do it all the time it does get boring!!! | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/16/2007 9:17:38 AM | | I don't care for my man to look at any woman let alone naked women but that's just bc I'm insecure so I mainly keep my concerns to myself. | |
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Posted: 11/20/2007 6:48:46 PM | | I much rather make my own with her ;) But yes, its perfectly normal, Sue Johansen had a great explaination for this, which I think was along the lines of "We know how to get ourselves off better then anyone else, so we enjoy doing it". So the porn is simply a means to help it along. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/20/2007 6:55:32 PM | | It can add spice, as a few other posters said. As long as he's not ignoring me to go watch alone. | |
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Posted: 11/20/2007 6:59:18 PM | | Porn is like any other facet of a relationship. Minimally, or moderately it can be fun, and add spice. However, in excess it poses several problems. Like anything else all things in moderation. Balance, balance, balance. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/20/2007 8:07:55 PM | What's your defintion of PORN..?
Everyone's version is different
Knowing what mine is
i still intend to look and enjoy..
In a relatiosnhip
Out of one and till im 90
My Porn?
is military aircrafts lol
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/20/2007 8:39:17 PM | | I didn't read all the posts... but I'm all for porn... I enjoy it myself... and I would much much much rather my man watch porn and satisfy himself when I'm not around as opposed to satisfying his need with another woman... I like to think I'd do everything I can to satisfy my man... but we obviously wouldn't be together 24/7 and I can gaurantee that even though I'm in a relationship I will still satisfy myself at times too... it's completely natural :) JMO!! | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/20/2007 9:53:39 PM | | In a serious relationship.. guess it depends how your other half feels about it . Dont want then to feel less sexy or attractive. Just ask. or hide it well.....jk | |
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Posted: 11/21/2007 6:21:27 AM | | I think it depends on the context. For some couples, looking at porn may be totally acceptable, but for others, it might not be. I think it is something that should be openly discussed by the couple and they should decide, according to their own conscience, whether they want to make it part of their sex life. | |
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Posted: 11/21/2007 7:31:11 AM | | I haven't read all the other posts (since there is 29 pages lol) but I must say that in my opinion there is nothing wrong with porn in a healthy relationship. Watching it together can really help to spice things up. I wouldn't want to watch it all the time but once is a while is nice. The only time I'd have a problem with it is IF my man needed porn to get excited around me or made comments (comparisons) of them to me, but other than that no problem. You have to be secure in your relationships. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2008 2:09:48 PM | | Porn in a relationship is just fine with me. I quite enjoy it. I'm pretty sure any I guy I date would enjoy it too. And it's fun to enjoy it together. | |
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| Porn in a relationship
Posted: 10/13/2009 1:21:02 AM | It depends on how you feel about it. A lot of religious people will probably be against it, your religion might call it wrong too. Porn is usually something that single guys may look at a lot. Most of the time a girlfriend will ask a guy "so where do you keep them?" It's kind of embarrassing. However, sometimes a girl might want to see your "magazine and video collection," and like them. Many of "those" videos are used to help couples more than break them apart. The tapes have disclaimers specifically saying they are for consenting adults only and to help stimulate them. Sometimes if a video is on the couple ignores it anyway while they're "busy." If both partners don't mind porn it shouldn't cause problems. It's also a healthier alternative to things like drugs that are supposed to help your sex drive and testosterone stuff.  | |
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Posted: 10/13/2009 2:00:56 AM | | I haven't read the other posts, but I'd say that most porn is actually a barrier to intimacy. So I guess if you want intimacy with your SO, then ditch the porn and concentrate on them, on using your imagination whilst with them rather than pre-concieved images that are presented to you. I rarely use porn when I'm single now, although I have done a lot in the past. I enjoy where my imagination can take me more than watching stuff that doesn't go the way I want it to. | |
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Posted: 10/13/2009 2:13:00 PM | I can see both sides of the argument, although to say that porn is a barrier of intimacy is not exactly true. As other have said, it can form a bridge between the two partners in regards to fantasies, but what about the other benefit in terms of balancing sex drives.
If one partner wants to get it on, but the other one doesn't, pressing the issue can really hurt a relationship. Wacking off...bringing out bob...porn...whatever, can just as easily be seen as a way of relieving the relationship roadblock that these sex drive inconsistencies can lead to. | |
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