DNT38
| Joined: 1/11/2005 Msg: 51 | |
| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 4:23:34 PM | I've got several new messages and cant get to them GRRRRR Who made the POF gods angry???? lol | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 4:39:21 PM | Thank god everyone else lost their messages....I thought I commited some kind of breach!!!
As for the porn, I don't think there is anything wrong with it as long as it is welcomed by both parties in the relationship. My ex tried to hide his porn stash away from me because he was embarassed and thought I would be upset.......I just asked him what about about the pictures turned him on and I tried to make that happen in the bedroom.......worked pretty well I think!
Too many women are threatened by porn - can't understand why | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 5:03:54 PM | I fricken dig porn...
Its kool...you should be able to watch it with your partner, however i do sometimes feel like he's comparing me...but then he probably feels im comparing him! Which im not...  | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 5:37:08 PM | | suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuure LAuren that's what ya want him to believe! lolol jk | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 5:51:08 PM | lol...
Well i might subconsiously! but i would never ever say anything to make a guy feel inadequate! I'm sure he compares me anyway!  | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 5:56:17 PM | if your both into it who cares.... communication ppl !
Edit: looks down at await... uh... how can I follow you if i'm on top ? lmao | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 5:56:46 PM | naw I know what you mean, your not watching it so you can ignore it lol......
wanna watch it with me? lol  | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 6:00:26 PM | I'm lost now cuz Lauren is lost
but anyways...lauren, very beautiful btw | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 6:48:34 PM | | I see nothing wrong with porn in a relationship but I would probably be a little self conscious if I caught my man watching it a lot because I would be afraid I wasn't giving him enough. As for watching it together, Hell yeah, I'm all for that. Porn is good also if you're away from your partner & they're not there to satisfy you, I'd rather my man be jacking it to some porn then finding another woman. | |
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dva05
| Joined: 5/22/2005 Msg: 63 | |
| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 6:48:39 PM | | who cares, watch porn, go to a strip club just dont have sex with anyone else and we are great | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 6:56:37 PM | lol if people dont care why post a message....
N its not about getting creative... i dig porn so i'll watch it lol, whether my sex life is good or not...  | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 6:59:14 PM | Oh oh... here I go getting myself in trouble...
I believe that pornagraphy is an empire for a reason. Most people use pornography in relationships for exploration of the sex life. When was the last time you dressed up in a costume to please your partner ?? When was your last fantasy? Ladies.. im sure you can agree that exploration of ones self can require exploration of different roads. Its not that either partner isnt doing their job...its about loving someone enough to let them be themselves in the bedroom. Use it as a toy...like one would with other things.....a tease maybe :) Four play is all about having fun and being free
As long as nobody is being hurt by it, I believe everything has its place. | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 7:07:42 PM | No not at all
I dont think its cheating in any shape or form... | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 7:40:31 PM | an individual prefernce is not disgusting shrimp! nobody here asked you to look at porn! | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 8:03:56 PM | | agreed...wow..ova reaction 10 fold...No one looks like a whore....free expression is what the world is about...Dont repress people if you have opinons SHRIMP | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 8:10:45 PM | | holy wrong side of the bed, nitpickin, freakless, homebody, sheltered, in the dark, boring, selfless ...um post yea...I could go on and on but I'm not gonna stoop as low as one individual in here... | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 8:18:36 PM | something confuses me in your profile there...SHRIMP..... You say you are "looking for a kind honest man who wants to live a Godlylife"......
hmmmmm
yet in your headline, you say..."honest, kind, godfearing man"
AM I MISSING SOMETHING HERE?
And an honest, kind man who lives a godlylife isn't by one definition, it is by many. He created us to live our own lives by our own chosing....don't get me started in here, you will lose....if you don't like it find another forums to beeeatch in please, your jammin my frequencies ! | |
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| Porn in a relationship Posted: 5/27/2005 8:52:43 PM | | i think that as long as you have a healthy relationship porn is great! | |
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