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Posted: 2/25/2008 5:53:59 PM | the expression is actually..
"you're not looking at the mantlepiece when you're stoking the fire !!"
for what it's worth !! lol  | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 6:00:27 PM | Legs bore me. They're purely for walking around on. Not that some women don't have nice legs, but I don't sexualise it much. Cleavage, though... *sigh*.
As for more general types, since we don't just see women as just parts, remember? I like all types. Quiet, fun, cute, strong. I don't like loud women. I'm not a loud person myself, so it doesn't appeal to me. I don't like vapid, either. I like substance. If I can't talk to you I can't be bothered dating you.
In actual fact I realised something recently. The type of girl that I like is the type of girl that would like someone like me. Does that make any sense? The type of girl that finds me funny and attractive and intelligent and sweet... she's the type of girl that I'd go for.
She also doesn't exist, but the principle is there. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 6:22:48 PM | if "I" have to answer the question of what attracts me..
its easily EYES.
you can tell SOooooooo much from the eyes.
aye..the eyes have it for me  | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 6:46:09 PM | Hey Shrecky......., try not to be so pedantic in your life . | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 6:49:54 PM | I hope someone will one day be attracted to me as a package...
i have to say due to some genitic anomolly i am blessed/cursed with ample cleavage..
no matter how i dress they are there.. being in brissie naturally the heat etc pre determine the kind of tops. dresses i wear show my boobs no matter what.
I have had so many conversations with men who look at my boobs for an answer. My weapons of mass destraction are not always conjusive to intellegent conversation.
i had never heard of ' all tit no wit.". god thats a fallacy i know my w ait and intellect out way, and out way my cup size by a country mile... .
from asking my male mates it seems it is all different some are boob men some are bums some legs some smiles some hair.. try being a confident raven haired big breasted girl in a pub w drinking boys! OMG.
you cant fake chemistry. its all about that in the end.. showing tits and legs cant fake out chemistry...
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Posted: 2/25/2008 7:50:06 PM | | All this hype over tits, legs, eyes ... I prefer personality, sense of humour, and a certain spontaneity ... | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 9:39:29 PM | and that is the mix the elusive chemistry..
take a pinch of blue blood and an itty bit bit of red indian bone.. mix it all to gether .. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 9:58:19 PM | Of the 2, i like legs. Of everything, gimme eyes
But its like its like having the Mona Lisa painting (using this painting as it is first well known to come to mind), sure, its nice to have, but i want to talk to it, and as funny as talking to legs may seem, it would become kind of boring, being all one sided and all.
There is no 1 thing that makes me go for someone though, theres got to be a great person with lots of different things about them, behind those features that got me to turn my head in the first place in order to keep my interest. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 10:45:29 PM | Well female is a start,getting hard to tell these days(maybe i'm going to the wrong places).Decisions decisions,cleavage is nice for those of you who have. Legs,i do like legs,nice butt is good except when she stops and you don't.Luv a nice smile and of cause a sense of humour is great.I think a beautifull mind tops it all.
Damn it,ok,i'm a boob man.Don't think i've dated a girl under a C cup.
Cruel making a man decide,can't we have it all. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 10:47:38 PM | Mmmm...
I'm attracted to elegance, strength and confidence. Doesn't really bother me if they're bigger, but it does bother me if they look like they've got an eating disorder (too skinny). As for cleavage, buttocks, legs etc. I'm not so fussed so long as they look proportionate.
Mind you, someone who's got the facial expression of someone who's 'there' gets me every time. Can't stand people who look like they're not home, or are chronically distracted when you look them in the eye. A woman who can look me straight in the eye, deliver her terms and in certain instances won't waiver in her opinions is immediately attractive to me. Mind you, the ability to listen to your opinion and respect it is also a plus.
I also like women who know how to dress. I know, I'm a little odd, but I do like women who can dress for an occassion in a way that portrays their personality. Seems to communicate a sense of self to me. You can't express yourself outwardly if you don't know what you're like. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 10:49:51 PM | I'm not a fan of large breasts either. Especially when they're pushed up together and squashed out.
Small is nice.....Like a Cameron Diaz type of build......
The eyes would have to be high on the list though.
But it must also be the brain I guess......I can look at Jessica Simpson, and know she's good looking, but does nothing for me, especially when she said "Is this chicken, what I have, or is this fish? I know it's tuna, but it… it says "Chicken of the Sea". "...... | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 1:13:31 AM |
Funny you should start this forum cause I would be interested in hearing what the guys think on this one too, however only this morning another poster on POF put me onto a forum in the "Ask a Guy" section called "What does showing Cleavage mean ?" or something like that.
I posted something last year on the subject of cleavage and I got attacked mercilessly :)
What goes in the mind of a woman who goes out in public with her breasts virtually hanging out of her top? Does she want to be voted in as the next Pope? LOL. I don't think so. If she was hooked up to a lie detector machine I'm sure that the green light would come on if she admitted that she wanted to get some action. Either that or one of her objectives would be to get a boost to her ego by knocking back any advances from guys. Now, sit back and watch what kind of attacks these kind of comments will attract. But at least I have the courage to speak my mind when I say all this. | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 1:14:23 AM | | mmm im with you - cant help having the family heirlooms....and as you say....doesnt matter what you dress em in...cant hide em!!! same deal but im a blonde and you bet theres nothing you can do but walk in all confidence and just smile....coz we cant disguise them!! | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 1:18:33 AM |
The eyes would have to be high on the list though
Big sigh of relief from this camp. What with a flat chest and bandy legs I was begining to think I was buggered!!
Good thing I have eyes in my head then really!! | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 1:26:24 AM | For me , its nice hair , and a cheeky smile..
next on the list is tight buttocks ( run forest run lol ) and shapely legs.. not a big b00b man myself , i have a preference to "sporty" chicks , but i am open minded , if the right one comes along , and we click.. well there ya go
Oh and personality blah blah blah , just to make ya's feel better
But the real answer is up the top.. personality is a given.. they might look hot , but it doesnt mean they have the light on upstairs , or the dimmer switch set properly | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 1:45:42 AM | lol have to laugh and agree with you gjay,
having no say in my breast size, i have had to live with the fact that i just live and love the girls. they are what they are.. i know i turn a few heads and thats not necessary a good thing iether.. i do nothing at all to enhance them but do what i can to minimise it after all .. it seems lots of men arent boob boys .. well at least the few ive read here which i doubt is a true indication..
i guess walk a mile in someones shoes or bra.
havein had small boobs and now through genes not surgery have more than a handful i can tell you there is a difference.. if it wasnt the case and men really did on the hole prefer small there would be no push up padded numbers.. no plastic surgery. no plastic silicon chicken fillets to make em bigger..
but as i said before its all a package.. personally the perfect man physically if he aint got the smarts is just a poster boy.. nothing more..
so i guess its the same for some of the men too..
well lets hope.
and for sure some beople dream beyond there means... champaigne tastes on a beer income...
x mmm | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 2:09:51 AM | | OK, lets see, I recon just make the most of what you have. If you have killer legs, go the shorter shirt, or that little black dress, and stockings. If you breasts are your best assets, then get one of those fancy push up braziers and show a little cleavage. Make the guys beg. But remember, don't over do it. The last thing you want is to start getting asked if you work on the streets, lol. Please go easy on the make-up. There is a fine line between classy and cheap. Pubs and Clubs are not my scene. But I have been there enough to be able to comment. I guess all guys are different but I would like to think I can tell the difference between classy and just plain sleazy. I guess I always feel like the more attractive they are the further out of my league they are. You know, the old beggars can't be choosers. I am out-gunned by all these young men out for a good time, who seem to hang around the attractive ladies like flies on dog do do. Rest assured, I was only ever there to meet people. I get the impression the places I went to were just pickup joints.. Nobody was looking for a long term anything. It was all about the passion and the lust of the night. They are all just looking for someone to be with for the night. I am sure if I could get up the courage to go and talk to a lady, then I could get on well. But they probably all think I snob them because I don't talk and hide in the corner, or on the dance floor.. I am sure if you have seen me at one of those rsvp things you will know what I mean. I get the feeling that lots of people are single by choice! | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 2:10:26 AM | Well for someone who doesn't see to well anymore, I have to say beauty really is only skin deep.
For me it's something more undefinable...but nevertheless very real for me. Her voice...filled with warmth, passion and tenderness. And her touch...that first touch..the tingle, the fire, the connection ....it really can be magic....just close your eyes and feel it. | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 2:20:40 AM | ..............The loud ones.................*sigh* maybe one day I will learn.......
But definately nice eyes, everything else is a bonus, preferably able to string a sentence together (even if sober). I see a lot of pretty girls getting about but their heads are full of sawdust, give me an everyday someone, rough around the edges, and not perfect, someone whose head is not in the clouds, and able to switch on the charm as the need arises...................too much to ask for? | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 2:46:47 AM | well , well, well, what an interesting topic..... unfortunately..(ive been reading forums to find out how this dating interaction between men/woman works and have concluded...sighs
I mose well take up knitting...  I suck at knitting..looks like crocheting..
Had a laugh at a few posts here... but daydreamer..... gotta disagree. I got nice butt... well I did. but did not get nice legs... and i got lucky legs.. skinny little things. and huge kneecaps..so strike 1.
Im used to men always looking me in da eyes cause my chest welll.... hmmmmm and I dont pad either.. strike 2
so... now after all da forums ive been reading.. Im going to go and take up bingo... and watch paint dry.. sighs gawd I hope I win the frozen chook this week..
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Posted: 2/26/2008 3:07:33 AM | soulmate
like i said some people have champaigne tastes on a beer income...lol
i got big tits small waist no bum and long red hair.. i stike out too is that 3 strikes or 4
.. is the frozen chook a twin pack ? i will teach ya to knit... if you can show me bingo
at least you can laugh at your self.. that is a great quality over rides bra size any day..
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Posted: 2/26/2008 3:07:35 AM | When I hear self-appraisals that are tending toward self-deprecation, I can't help thinking that many people are too hard on themselves. And this seems particularly prevalent in women.
We can't, all of us, have everything: the killer legs, superb rack or butt to die for, but most have one, or some of these, or other attributes.
Attraction is a subjective thing, and there ain't no pins nor cans that can mitigate an unappealing personality (at least not for long :) ).
Apologies if my use of body-part slang offends. I don't use them out of disrespect-more out of irreverence (which I like). | |
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