| Guys what attracts you
Posted: 2/26/2008 3:17:28 AM | Legs, as they don't lie. As for boisterous, I would prefer the quiet underdog who doesn't get all the attention. But still has the confidence to hold a good conversation. As for meeting girls in bars I find it hard, to meet a girl with much in common, apart drinking and dancing like **stards (Which I love)
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Posted: 2/26/2008 3:26:55 AM | Yerrr and I can sleep on my front too..lol..
Well Im only considering bingo.. my son made me take him when he was young... wasnt so bad...
How do you get 90 old woman to all say f**k at once?
yell BINGO
Its all good I dont mind... men like me as a mate..lol.
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Posted: 2/26/2008 4:07:12 AM | I was one of the first to reply to this post and just took it as a bit of fun flirtatious banter between the sexes, and in so doing I refrained from commenting about the obvious such as intelligence and personality.
I can't speak for the other guys on here but i think this was just a little exercise in letting our imaginations run wild for a while, so I'm hoping the women can take that into account and realise most of us have our feet firmly planted on the ground. | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 4:14:31 AM | ^^^I prefered your first reply!!
You cant beat a nice butt! | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 4:20:54 AM | lol dream i liked your reply also. i was just saying i got the nice butt but not nice legs as your post said..lol
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Posted: 2/26/2008 4:49:31 AM |
...with a flat chest and bandy legs I was beginning to think I was buggered.
Whooaaa!! What a thrilling image that conjures up! Thanks... | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 5:06:18 AM | ^^^^^to above post..yerr and hillys got a great sense of humour too. because ironically... (ive seen her pics..) she aint flatchested... and she got great eyes.. i cant speak for the legs though...
>>>only way hilly would b buggered is if she dropped da soap... shes alll good.
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Posted: 2/26/2008 5:14:06 AM | | What more is there to say...women, nice butts and dropped soap. | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 5:19:11 AM |
HUMAN ESPRESSO....
how cool are you!!
my thoughts exactly bravo.
x mmm | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 5:22:02 AM | Nothing screams unattracitve as a hot body and a dull mind
x mmm | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 3:01:01 PM | What do I find attractive in a woman? Firm breasts with perky nipples  | |
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Posted: 2/26/2008 4:51:04 PM | Well i must be weird
Yes its titillating to see cleavage and legs but personally its the smile and eyes that get me they are something that wont change ever would never choose a woman on her boobs or legs cant have a relationship with either of those lmao
They come in to play later when you are friends and lets face it the body is a beautiful thing no matter what the shape or size but the mind and soul rocks
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Posted: 2/26/2008 8:41:45 PM | This is so simple. There is no reason for all this rocket science.
All you need is to be comfortable in being you. If that is so it radiates outwards like a tidal wave of happiness.
Do you really want some one who is more interested in your boob and ass than being attracted to the whole you?
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Posted: 2/27/2008 2:22:11 AM | | I generally don't go to clubs or bars. But someone who looked well presented (in professional or elegant clothing), who was not drunk, and who could carry on a decent and intelligent conversation would get my interest. | |
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Naamah
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| Guys what attracts you
Posted: 2/27/2008 3:18:24 AM |
I was one of the first to reply to this post and just took it as a bit of fun flirtatious banter between the sexes, and in so doing I refrained from commenting about the obvious such as intelligence and personality.
I can't speak for the other guys on here but i think this was just a little exercise in letting our imaginations run wild for a while, so I'm hoping the women can take that into account and realise most of us have our feet firmly planted on the ground.
Don't stress Daydreamer. Although some have chosen to evolve the topic further along the lines of what matters in a partner, the original OP question was as simple as asking what do guys prefer a little peek of. I don't think for a minute that expressing a preference for cleavage or legs would or should be translated to mean that a guy ignores all else and chooses a partner solely based on either of those two criteria. They are two entirely different topics of conversation.
When I read through some of the later posts, my thoughts were that some of the responses seem to indicate that these days men don't seem to feel they are allowed to just admit to a simple physical preference without adding a qualifier that makes it more politically correct. When did good old fashioned harmless flirtaton, appreciation of the female form, and enjoying a quick perve in a pub or club become so socially unacceptable? A decent guy just knows not to take appreciation of the view to the extent of leering and assuming too much. And hey, most women can easily recognise the difference between appreciative looks and leering without needing it pointed out to them.
Personally, when I go out I wear sack cloths and hope to meet a guy with a good imagination. He is gonna need it, cos he is gonna have to imagine I have boobs, nice legs and a good butt. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 3:21:36 AM | This has been an eye opener. From the answers so far it seems (in many cases at least) the cleavage and butts and legs get the attention, but the rest gets the interest?
I really liked the post about a woman who knows how to portray her personality outwardly, because she knows who she is inwardly.
EDIT: LOL Naamah | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 4:23:49 AM | Phew thanks Naamah, I was beginning to worry that being playful wasn't acceptable
behaviour on a dating site. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 4:35:13 AM | Yeah, cleavage & cute buns are just window dressing. It's what you find when you step through the door that either captivates you.. or otherwise...
Smart is sexy
witty is sexy
an honest, easy smile is sexy
gutsy is sexy
success in whatever the field of endeavor is sexy
get-up-n-go is sexy
Hapless lounge-lizards and lemon-sucking, angry women give me the creeps. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 5:01:42 AM | well i can answer that bit about why men feel that they shouldnt admit to simple physical preferences..... because they get made to feel shallow etc etc... its not until men realise that it is vocal minority making them feel that way, that they might venture out again..
orrrrrrrr they get to the stage ..and I'm speaking from personal experience...where they no longer care what the political correct police think... damned if you do, damned if you dont..
when did the world get so transfixed on what people say? As a good catholic boy, I was always told to assess (yes i know it's judge but assess is more sensitive) people on what they do and not on what they say..
yet these days you say a word and you're a chauvinist or sexest or some other damn thing..lol....honestly its ridiculous... ive given up talking to some people because they're obsessed with pigeon-holing people ..etc etc...yeh i'm whingeing...what the heck...label me...LOL...I couldnt care less...which gets me back to what I said when i first came on here....people who post in the forum have to be very careful with what they say or theyll never get a date... | |
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| Guys what attracts you
Posted: 2/27/2008 5:34:01 AM |
its not until men realise that it is vocal minority making them feel that way, that they might venture out again
Well there's been no indignant outrage expressed by any female posters so far that I've seen...and the OP is female...so perhaps that vocal minority are leaving this one alone? | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 5:40:15 AM | Not that I'm likely to be in a club, but what's wrong with that 'shy girl in the corner?'
It seems to me that the loud and boisterous girl showing all that cleavage is a perfect decoy for all the other guys.
Oh, I get it . . this was a trick question.  | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 5:41:51 AM | | Its obvious that everyone has different tastes.So the question is,do you want the kinda guy who likes his girl to show her tits off? | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 6:09:28 AM | naamah... they're not leaving it alone.. they are waiting for a more opportune time to blast...LOL...on a serious note, this is a different environment than real life...you probably find that there are a number of women who want to express their indignation but dont want to be recorded forever for posterity in a forum
all i know is that the smart money is staying well clear of this topic...hehe.. and good on em..keep your eye on the prize and stay clear of unnecessary controversary..
btw naamah i got blasted recently in this forum because i've been pretty sloppy filling out the profile data in my profile....it was in that "import"thread...she questioned my honesty and said i was only after a cheap thrill...geezzzzzz...she had me summed up from a 2 minute profile and a post about importing a bride.. since then i've bought a safety helmet | |
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