| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/28/2008 4:51:38 PM | She never lied to you. The signs were there all time.
Someone as vile as this drops signs all time. Just think back, and next time you find a woman with the same attitude, run away! | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/28/2008 7:21:51 PM | | not all women are like that, she should of at least got your side of the story before kicking you out, i would also say her daughter sounds like she was jealous of u an she should grow up, | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/29/2008 9:55:52 AM | | This post should be name why did this women steal/sell all of my stuff. It has nothing to do with love. Please be more careful the next time. You should take her to court..... | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/29/2008 10:25:32 AM | OP, i'm so sorry this happened to u =(
i think not most women, not most men, not most people are bad. but we are all flawed.
some of us are vulnerable by nature~ and we have to learn a hard lesson in order to prevent an even harder lesson down the road. ..
i have been a full time student in the school of life lately LOL and i'm learning finally.
don't let this change WHO you are, just HOW you are. its your nature to believe that people are good~ but you have to look out for the 'some' that are not. you just have to put your well being first and be sure that others EARN your trust =) don't jump in~ take your time. lots of tme ;)
i think i understand, cuz i'm a fellow cancerian ! and also a hrtovgld =)
best of luck to you ~ start fresh! | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/29/2008 2:10:01 PM | """Thread: Why do women lie about Love??? """
I don't know maybe for the same reasons they all breathe, eat, move, have boobs. Is that seriously your question? Since the way you ask questions also reflects on the way you percieve messages, maybe she wasn't lieing to you but your communication skills were lacking and you. Before getting into another relationship "and having this happen" work on yourself, stay in school, exercise, read good books, become civilized, DON'T GENERALIZE ABOUT PEOPLE, i guess is what I'm really saying. Then you will be able to get women who won't be liars, they cost extra. | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/29/2008 3:13:41 PM | | dang....... not all gals are like that, you just didn't see what was coming to you. You were unaware of what the expectations would have been. Sorry this had to happen to you. Hopefully better luck later for you........ now it's the time for you to heal up and pray things will be better for you next time. | |
|
| |
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 4/30/2008 8:34:27 AM | | Not all women indeed! Some women are just like that, so are some! Someday you'll find your woman with a heart of gold! | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 4/30/2008 9:44:04 AM | My friend, I can understand how you would direct this toward women, because it was a woman who did this to you. But, a woman is basically, in my view, give or take, just a human being with a spirit just like a man with some differences because of biology. You talked to a woman who has some major issues, she is a woman from hell. There are men from hell, I am sure. Frankly, I've learned to be cautious when dealing with the opposite sex. You talked to her for a long time, so it is so much easier for her to put up some facade. On computer, people can engage in all kinds of B.S. It is not my style to put on a facade on-line or off-line. It's not the way I was raised, and it is not the way I care to be, but we weren't all raised by the same parents with the same values. Even if you hypothetically cheated on her, it is very bad to sell someone's stuff. I thought I had a bad experience with someone from last year, but the person had some good intentions, and I never had to go through this.
I am so sorry, partner, that this happened, but I think two people talking on-line should meet not too long after chatting. | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 4/30/2008 9:56:03 AM | and later, I decided to move in with her.
note you decided to move in with her - - -
was this an agreed upon aspect or just what you wanted - - - -
and you did not simply come and meet for a few days but moved to her state for weeks. - - -
and then decided to move in with her - - - -
a bit fast and strange to me - - - - - -
and you went to meet her and brought all of your stuff - - at the same time - - - - -
strange - - - -
and you were ready to spend the rest of your life with - - a woman that you had never meet.
and why email for years - - - - - before meeting - - - - - really a bit strange - - - - -
as for others comments about she can not sell your stuff - - I do not know about this - but did you show up with moving van when you came to meet her the first time - - - sounds like it - - - I have a feeling that she simply wanted you out of her life and this was the only way - - - restraining order - - - and all - - - - and did not want to see you and more - - even for you to come back and get your stuff, - - - - - and face you again - - - so she sold the stuff - - - - - Showing up with a lot of stuff for the first meet is a bit strange - - to show up moving near by is a bit strange for a woman that you have never meet - - - - -
I think a lot more is going on here than you are saying. - - - -
Jim P. | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 4/30/2008 4:05:29 PM | living together with someone, especially when you physically knew her for a few weeks or more, is insane. Talking on the internet for however you want, isn't knowing someone totally. You have to be around them. Plus she has kids?
Women and men do this. You need to be a TON more wiser next time. You chose this person so part of it is on you. Living together in general to me is crazy; This didnt' happen over night. | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 5/1/2008 2:12:05 AM | | I don't understand why a man or a woman lies about love. I believe some people are just so insecure or bitter that they only feel important and powerful when they hurt someone else. Sadly it happens too often. My advice is to do as I've learned to do- take your time, look before you leap- e-mails and phone conversations can be deceiving because many people out there are well trained in the art of lying. I learned the hard way more than once, and it was always someone I had known for a long time. Thus I now search elsewhere such as Plenty of Fish. Just don't give up. There are many true hearts out there as well- just harder to find. | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 5/1/2008 2:14:32 AM | | H.O.G. I would like to hear her side of things. I'm sure her account is vastly different than your own. If what you say is true, then you are well rid of her. If you're going to invest your emotions in people like that, then you'll lose every time. Go find someone deserving of your love. | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 5/1/2008 3:26:00 AM | Sounds to me like you got scammed, taken in, bamboozled. I feel for you for that. But, At the same time it also looks like you might of let it happen. If you had been talking to her for years then all a once you two meet and move in together. Something sounds a little shady here. Did she ever send you hints that she really didn't want you there? Sometimes us men ain't to good with hints? | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 5/1/2008 3:37:22 AM | HrtOGold wrote: Why do women do this???
Simply put, you can't make generalizations about all women because
of the experiences with just one -- or even a few -- twits.
Apolinary
| |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 5/1/2008 3:48:39 AM | | Everyone is missing one point....in law enforcement, you can't get a restraining order against someone without just cause. The order was issued so what did the OP do? I don't think we've heard the entire story. | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 5/1/2008 3:49:39 AM | | I don't know what it is . I went a woman WHO . I really liked . she said " i just want to be freinds " that hurt me . I WAS freinds with a girl who said that . and NOW , she is married . that 1 reason why I want a relationship . I like to sit a nd watch tv . and cuddle . WHY do you woman THINK ALL guys think of it as sex . | |
|
| |
| |
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 5/1/2008 6:47:41 PM | For me it almost sounds like maybe he could have missed a hint that she wasn't interested in meeting. Maybe she didn't mind talking to him but he took it the wrong way and pushed himself into her life. Maybe not even meaning to. One thing led to another and she got spooked. The selling off of his stuff was wrong but at the same time if i am right and she took it the way it sounds like she did maybe she was just trying to get him out. Maybe she felt like the only way to get him out was doing it the hard way? Just a guess? There are some guys and gals out there that don't know when to leave. Even if your plain spoken and hit them in the head with it. They still don't get it. As i said, Not pointing any fingers or putting blame on anyone. Just a guess. | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 5/1/2008 9:24:39 PM | Why do women do this? Is this kind of thing a pattern in your life? I don't know any "women who do this."
You are the one who trusted someone who, no matter how long you EMAILED with her, you didn' t KNOW. Anyone can be anyone they want via email. You cannot get to know who someone truly is via email!
For instance, did you know she was a halfwit who would believe her daughter blindly no matter how many times she'd lied to her? Did you know she was a thief who would rob you blind?
The only recourse you have at this point is to find out who she sold the stuff to and report it as stolen property. If that can't be done, sue her in small claims court to at least recoup whatever money the stuff was worth.
Unfortunately you will never recover the sentimental value of the stuff. Please tell me you won't do another "long distance" realationship...to KNOW someone, you have to spend real time with them, in person! | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 5/2/2008 3:40:57 AM | | well i dont understand why women say to one min u they love u then they say dont no more its very i hard for us blokes to understand women out there now just wot money and company and they will get it of two different blokes and play with their minds and hearts. my ex was just the same sort of thing we dont speak she changed her no and now there is no contact so thats it | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 5/2/2008 7:22:31 AM | I think that when it comes to lie about being love, both men & women lie for the same reasons usually insecurity like for example they are with someone but are not sure what they feel about them, they might say 'I love you' so that the other person wont leave them or some people think that they can learn to fall in love so they say thinking that it will become true eventually
But ofcourse some people just say it to get what they want and It seems that this similarly was the case , My thoughts go to you but that woman was a one off and people like that are all the same wether they are men or women and really to be honest it sounds like her leaving was a good thing because people like that dont deserve to be in relationships. | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 5/2/2008 8:02:59 AM | WOW ... I would defently take her to court ... No way should someone get away with that ... I hope you find someone who is for real and luvs you for who you are ...
 | |
|
| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 5/2/2008 8:21:11 AM | First off ........are you sure she sold your things? If so....make a list and sue. Unfortunaltely given that they belonged to your mother you will never be get compensated for the sentimental value. This woman, however needs to know she cant get away with selling someone else's posessions, if indeed she has.. She needed to allow you a certain amount of time to get your things out.
So tell me.............are you taking any responsibility in all this..........
Did it not seem strange to be e-mailing with someone for years with out meeting? And then after 2 weeks of knowing her you moved in. I dont care how long you e-mail someone.......the getting to know them starts with a face to face.
And then to just have a restraining order against you.....for what???? Because she suspected you of cheating?
Anyway........what you had wasnt love....................go file for your stuff.....I bet she has it............. | |
|
Home
login 
