| what if you knew a man who was using a woman to profit himself
Posted: 2/27/2008 6:01:16 PM | | I agree with all of you. i hope things work for the best and its my utmost desire to stay out of the whole situation. She wouldn't believe it anyway. i've seen his profile here saying ALL KIND OF THINGS THAT WERE NOT TRUE.... but you are all right. She should know, and probably will in time, but its not for me to tell her. If she finds out about that, i'm sure she'll find out all the rest of the terrible things he's done. He's just a bad apple in the basket, but that doesn't make them all bad. He's the kind of person, everyone tries to stay clear of......but don't know it until its too late. Now I know why people take things as only "MAYBE THE TRUTH" UNTIL THEY BUILD A REAL TRUSTING REALISTIC RELATIONSHIP. Maybe we should all think about how people are sometimes....we wish they were all good, but sometimes people are mean and distruthful. | |
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| what if you knew a man who was using a woman to profit himself
Posted: 2/28/2008 2:47:22 PM | Oh heck I didn't say that, Dancecard was logged in as me....again.
Basically I would like to say if this woman is a friend of yours, just be there for her. She knows she's being used. She knows ....YOU know !... she's being used. Tell her she's dating beneath her standards. Ask her why ? Comfort her and tell her you'll be there for her as any good friend would be. Tell you're disappointed in her and that you worry about her.
Don't talk about the man....talk about HER ! There's something deep in her soul, that's allowing this man to take advantage of her. Get it out. Talk about it.
I know this, because it's exactly what my best friend did for me. | |
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| what if you knew a man who was using a woman to profit himself
Posted: 2/28/2008 4:23:58 PM | | By the woman RESCUING this man, she is showing compassion for someone that she loves. She has probably dated many men, and this guy has the ability to make her feel good on an emotional level. He must not have any baggage. Gee, if I could find a guy who could PUT ME FIRSTand worship the ground I walk on .... well, who knows? I might make a decision to help someone get back on their feet, after bankruptcy, or whatever. He is lucky to find someone who cares enough to take on some of his burdens. Maybe FINANCIAL burdens are nothing for her to consider.... as long as he treats her special, and his NUMBER ONE in life. | |
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| what if you knew a man who was using a woman to profit himself
Posted: 2/28/2008 6:58:58 PM | Went 2 school recently w/a guy like that.
Sumtimes the woman in ? would want 2 know . . Sumtimes the woman already knows .
Do U bring it 2 her attention? is maybe what U r asking . . however, many women r duped by triksters, like the guy U r talking about . .
:) I luv it the Steve Wilkos way . .
if U say it & get it off your chest, it can't weigh U down . .then it becomes their/her issue 2 deal with . .
so do U want 2 keep it on U or not . . ?
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| what if you knew a man who was using a woman to profit himself
Posted: 3/5/2008 8:01:46 AM | Sounds like to me you are the one who LOST....he has his own life to live and if you would do that yourself then you wouldnt be on here running him down....
just think ....do you think anyone will go out with you again if they see what you have ben putting on the net....DONT THINK SO....cause if you break up with him then he will have to put up with what you are putting out on him...HUMMMMMMMM
THINK ABOUT IT !!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| what if you knew a man who was using a woman to profit himself
Posted: 3/5/2008 9:17:54 AM | | im not him but i know him and SHE isnt telling the WHOLE story.....she isnt the ANGEL she claims to but...she found out something before he did is all thats about....but for her harassment my friend is having to move ...so i hope all you that thinks she is the perfect person...BEWARE | |
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| what if you knew a man who was using a woman to profit himself
Posted: 3/5/2008 10:51:36 AM | She knows...she thinks she can only get his love if she buys it. so, she's comfortable with buying it...until she finds out she bought nothing.
Deep down, they all know. They wouldn't use a person that way...unless of course they would, in which case, they see nothing wrong with being used themselves. Chances are, they've used others in the past, so maybe its karma :) | |
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| what if you knew a man who was using a woman to profit himself
Posted: 3/5/2008 11:02:50 AM | with the way the world is sometime people want to be loved or have someone in there so bad that they do not see past the circle that they are in . she might be in love with , but he is not with that is a mean game to play , but there are alot man and women out there that do that. i know i would want to know , so that i would have somewhat of a wall up. it does not feel good to be the person getting hurt. because there to mean people out in this world now, so help a firend out and b e a friend even if you hurt there feeling.sometime you have to be told the truth about things and my way on thinking about this matter is if it hurts then is the right thing to do if is is easy then you are wrong. nothing is harder then telling someone they are being played for a fool. i was in a relationship with a guy for a total of 15yrs and i had a f riend sit me down and let me know what was going and i can tell you know .that we are not together and he is with the person he was with behind my back and i am sure that he is doing the same thing to her, so what comes around goes around and if you step up to help one you will be paid back somehow and feel good about yourself.  | |
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| what if you knew a man who was using a woman to profit himself
Posted: 3/5/2008 5:38:09 PM | Any person using another for monetary gain, or a lifestyle is a despicable and heartless monster in my books. Using the vunerability of a person is abuse. Yep your friend may well be funding this man, but I am sure deep down, all she wants is love and someone with whom she could have a life to share things with.
A person who wittingly knows that they are just using another is no better that Hitler in my books.
I hope your friend finds someone who will give her love and respect, not abuse and pain. | |
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