| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 2/27/2008 12:37:46 PM | Lee i think i dated your ex....this guy actually thought I would be happy that he has several toys already...umm no....ugh makes me ill just thinking about it
what's funnier is i sell lingerie and sex toys. I own a small company that sells them...why the hell would i want to use someone elses...icky!
OP...with my work I know ALOT of men love the fleshlight line of toys...I think no one talks about it because for men its seen as a shortcoming in thier sex life...and you guys are very careful with that topic. Its the same scenario with porn...its fine to be looking at it and see really sexy stuff...get turned on...but only as a supplement to a real sex life....its sort of lame if its instead of a sex life right?
Women are seen as using toys as an addition to thier sex lives...even if they are single. Plus we dont care if our friends think we arent having sex with lots of hot random people. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 12:52:49 PM | | Snow*Angel: That picture does NOT belong to you. Kindly delete all of LoriMac's pictures from your profile. You should be ashamed to put on someone else's face and pretend it's yours... but since you apparently aren't, it requires a total stranger to call you out and shame you in public. | |
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Posted: 4/30/2008 5:50:53 PM | | Whats wrong with this? I heard the aneros is something all men should own. I hope you all know male sex toys are not anything new. During the world wars there was a tool used to massage the prostate and relieve pelvic congestion (extreme horniess). | |
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Posted: 5/2/2008 10:06:16 AM | | anything that has to do with the words 'man' and "sex"in the same sentence,most females would condsider you to be a pervert,not just the toys | |
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Posted: 5/2/2008 10:56:38 AM | In my experience, And with my profound love of toys...
I have been able to "open" up a couple of my exes to the idea that "Lots of these can work for you too!". I even have my regular "Adult store" manager on my Facebook. I'm not sure if I should feel proud or... A little tenacious! 
However...When they finally get over the idea of them being wrong, And making them less of a man, They probably enjoy them as much as I do. Perhaps more!
My picks for guys though, At the risk of sounding -ultra- whorey'... Would be anal plugs, Anal beads,****rings, Mini attatching vibrators ( Go for "Playboys" make... They dont use the watch batteries that die in less than 3 minutes . Anyways it's kinda like... A -comfortable- band wrapping around the balls, One thats about an inch wide that slides down to the base of the****.And has a little vibrator attatched to it on the top in the same soft gummy stuff which directly hits the clit and vibrates, Aswell as gives off enough vibration to stimulate their prostate. They're not going to last long.. But enjoy it do they ever!) , Little "Egg" vibrators that are inserted inside the woman and with adjustable speeds, Not only is the sensation wild for both parties, But the direct stimulation of the womans g-spot makes their vaginal walls contract and essentially squeeze the man. Sex swings are good and fine aswell, But dont buy the cheap ones (Read: less than $200) I figured the $140 one would suffice just fine.. But they're cheaply made and offer no comfort support and you can hardly walk the next day... And if the man goes in the swing, He will most CERTAINLY sprain "himself" and be in a SHIT-load of pain!!!!
Though, You dont have to buy lots of sex toys to have a ridiculously good time.
The best I've come across is a good lube. "ID Fluid", As well.. A little more expensive, goes a long way, doesnt have any "taste" or greasy or sticky feeling. And probaby the best hand job your partner will ever endure.
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Posted: 5/2/2008 1:27:59 PM | take this in the spirit its meant i think youre really cute and ill be your sex toy any time you want!!! | |
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Posted: 5/2/2008 4:24:12 PM | I read somewhere as men pass 40 their monthly budget for self pleasure sex toy increases at a inverse proportional rate to salary ... funny that. Certainly not something I would do, but whatever.
Interesting most women here say ... yeah, yeah do it, man. Good thing I don't listen too much to women, suggesting what I want. I can hear the conversation now ... OK, now slide that on, add some of this, release the pressure value .... NOW STICK the fork in the toaster. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:54:54 AM | I would love too find a girl too use some toys on me. , as long as we are both haveing fun its all good. I never used any toys B4 and I am having a hard time finding willing girls in my area. | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/12/2009 3:06:03 PM | I agree that men are also closed minded on the issue of 'sex toys', and most women are as well. If they see that a man has a toy, he's usually labeled a perv. But yet they have one or two toys of their own. I believe both the man and the woman both have a right to have a toy to aid them.
As a man who uses the pocket pu$$y I would recommend everyman getting one, they fit in the palm of your hand -well you can google it- It comes with it's own oil but you can also use KY and it feels just like the real thing -seriously- the real thing
They even have them molded from real porn stars pussies. Stars like
Tera Patric
Audrey Bitoni
Inari Vachs
Mindy Vega
Belle Barbie
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Posted: 1/12/2009 3:28:45 PM |
Why is it acceptable for women to have sex toys, but not men?
I have recently bought a couple (a couple of sex toys, not 'a couple'), and its strange the reaction i get from my good mates when i tell them, compared to when i hear women talking about them openly......
Is it just that sex toys for men are seen as 'pervy' whereas sex toys for the lady folk are labeled as 'an aid'?
I don't recall ever seeing some mandate that declared it was unacceptable for a man to own/have/use a sex toy. At most, it's more an ego thing, a perception thing, and a stigma thing that would see a man not want to have one in his possession. As Msg #7 alluded to, she's more of the "stigma" end by saying that men who would own such things would be "losers" so this is where most men are likely headed as well for reasons why they don't own one, or several...the stigma attached.
I've also noticed that there's several comments aimed at "you have hands why need appliances" kinda thinking...but I disagree. Sure I have junk that conveniently stands at attention when needed, and 2 perfectly good hands by which to use to pleasure myself...but why keep using hands if you can buy a toy or device that does the same thing, only better?
I have a Fleshlight (the Clear Ice sleeve/bumps) and I couldn't be happier with my purchase. I'm another who will testify that this toy feels so close to the real thing you'd hardly notice the difference. In my mind, this was the best money I had spent in decades. Actually, I purchased 2, and gave one to a friend as a Christmas gift last year. You'd think I gave the guy a Ferrari by his reaction lmao.
Sex toys for men have come a long way, and I couldn't be happier about that either. In an industry almost exclusive to women only at one time, we now see men levelling the playing field and with only ONE device such as this. It's not like I keep my toy out in plain sight on my coffee table...but if someone asks me about one, or asks me about self-love, I always talk about my toy. I have no shame in owning one, or using one. To me, it's about damn time the industry made a toy for men that was worth buying. Some have said there are****rings too, and so on...but anyone else notice that they also come with stimulus "for her pleasure"? Or condoms with the ad stating clearly "Ribbed, for her pleasure"? Well toys like the Fleshlight or similar are designed just for HIM and no one else. It's about damn time.
Sadly the Fleshlight does come with side effects that weren't explained to me, and I had to discover them for myself. Now that I have used the toy, I was to discover that it is now next to impossible (if not completely impossible) for me to use my hands any longer. My junk is now jaded and upon detection of "just hands" it goes into hiding until the Fleshlight comes out. That wasn't made clear to me in the brochure...
They should add that side effect "WARNING: Use of the Fleshlight may lead to jaded junk".
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Posted: 1/12/2009 3:31:45 PM | i think its pretty cool when guys have tthere own toys.
i want to get my bf a nice ass plug at some point. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2009 3:50:55 PM | Just as long as your "junk" isn't jaded for women Big Daddy!!
I bought my ex the Fleshlight......we named her Debbie!
I also don't get why some of these girls have an issue with a man using a toy to pleasure himself.....just flat out hypocritical. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2009 3:54:09 PM | | I have not used mine enough yet (it was just bought) so I hope I don't get jaded. That would totally suck. And I still don't understand why women have issues with it. I thought it would be a turn on to have a woman watch us. I mean we like watching a woman getting off on her own. Maybe it's just a man thing.. I don't know | |
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Posted: 1/12/2009 3:57:32 PM | prostate stimulation can definitely be a major source of pleasure for a man, if they're open-minded enough to give it a chance. aneros works especially well. and for those who say they would never consider it, i ask you this:
why would you NOT want to be able to experience multiple, non-ejaculatory orgasms, and intense, full-body orgasms that can last anywhere from 20 - 30 seconds to several minutes?
yes, i have experienced this. no, it doesn't mean i want to go out and fvck some guy.
i can only imagine this type of orgasm is the closest a man will ever get (short of some miracle of technology allowing mind-swaps between men & women) to experiencing the pleasure that a woman goes through when having an intense clitoral or g-spot orgasm.
all i know is that it's GOOOOOOOOOOOOD!  | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/12/2009 4:12:28 PM | | Ok, if I got a stretching machine that made me all bendy and supple, would that machine be considered a sex toy? | |
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Posted: 1/12/2009 4:19:39 PM | | I have one of those fleshlight type thingies, but it's just a tube of jiggly rubber like stuff that feels really good to put your penis in if you're so inclined. Problem is, it feels too good to come, usually, and doesn't have the right action for me to acheive the big O. Just something to use if I want it to feel more "real" I guess. I think I've used it maybe twice in 2 and a half years. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2009 4:25:10 PM | I never tried the flashlight, I have the pocket pu$$y. It's looks more real, and my friends have told me it feels more real then the flashlight.
I have the Tera Patrick .. Damn she's hott with a very pretty kitty  | |
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Posted: 1/12/2009 4:29:44 PM | Hey bigdaddyjinx ... Why dont ya break out the J-E-L-L-O hun ...  ... O wait Im sorry your not equiped with room for that hun ...  ...
I guess evolution gave men the "shaft" millions of years before women with s@x toys and jello came along ... ...
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Posted: 1/12/2009 5:55:22 PM | ROFL@Micki
No way darlin'...my junk may be jaded for hands, but never for women. The Fleshlight is nifty and all, but still no replacement for the real thing. Now if I could teach it to talk, and do chores, or hold a full time job............
Angl - I'm still snickering about the JELLO comment. Come to think of it, my Fleshlight does kinda "jiggle like Jello"...hmm...
More research will be required.
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Posted: 1/12/2009 6:02:53 PM |
BDJ:No way darlin'...my junk may be jaded for hands, but never for women. The Fleshlight is nifty and all, but still no replacement for the real thing. Now if I could teach it to talk, and do chores, or hold a full time job............
We women have been saying that same thing about our BOBs for years!!
well.....we don't need it to talk!! | |
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