| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/12/2009 6:11:47 PM | Ok here's my funny story... since my guy Dk is NOT on pof...he'll never know. LOL
So...awhile back I thought it would be fun to explore having sex w/a butt plug...in ME. THought it would be neat to see if it changed what intercourse felt like (as in, made things even tighter)
So I bought a "beginner" one...quite small, jelly-like thing. Only...then I chickened out in actually using it.
Meanwhile, Dk likes a little butt play on him. YEs, this was new to me...but I"m game. So little by little I started incorporating that into our time together. I kept asking him about things like butt plugs, strap-ons, etc...and he was adamant that NO, a finger was all he wanted...nothing else.
So one night I bravely brought it to his house, along w/some lube. GOt it out and said "well, I was thinking, maybe we coudl try this tonight".
Things progress....we are having sex...then I am giving him a BJ near the 'end'...then he says "hey, let's try the butt plug". I"m thinking, "but we already fvcked...I"m blowing you now, but ok". So I say something to that effect.
He says "no, I mean on ME".
Bahahahahhahaaaaa....
When I unwrapped it, he thought it was for him... Apparently when he saw how small and non-scary it was, he figured what the hell, give it a shot. It's just a little bit longer and wider than a finger, really...(but wide at the end so it doesn't "fall in")
SO...yep, I lubed it up, and plugged him up, and went back to sucking away.
And...the final opinion? Butt plugs rock when you are getting a BJ if you already like a little butt play.
So I told him he could keep it and I'd buy myself another. LOL Early Christmas present. His first real toy! 
Hey, I'm all for sex toys for men...the more fun the merrier, right? I dont' use my hand, I don't expect him to if he doesn't want to... And the plug? If it enhances the experience for him, that's great!
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/12/2009 6:28:14 PM | I dont think there is anything wrong with a man having sex toys. Actually take them out and lets use them together. Its what I say.  | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/12/2009 6:50:48 PM | | Yes Moondance you did say it outloud. But I do agree with you. If both parties agree why not. Nothing to be ashamed of. After all we are sexual beings. | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/13/2009 4:25:55 AM |
Anyone that owns sex toys is on the desperate side plain and simple. Either they can't get laid and need to basically buy a toy the same as paying for sex in order to get off which is sad. Also the fact that a sexual aid was used to treat a medical condition for women who had psychosis tells you right there that women that use them probably have issues! Also I've heard women on this site before ask "why do men get upset if a woman wants to use a toy?" Women like this are nothing but trouble makers obviously as why would any woman need to use a toy or prefer it over the real thing? Why settle for 2nd best when you have the real thing in front of you? And even if you're single(men and women) , why waste your money on some toy when you can just finger yourself or jack off for free? I bet if a guy had a woman he was dating and then went out and bought a blow up doll to have sex with it would bother her. Its people with that type of mindset that cause problems in relationships and actually have no right being in a relationship. These are the same people that ask themselves "why can't I can't a relationship going?" D'uh its because you try to insult your boyfriend or girlfriend by using a toy there brainiac! Of course any man or woman would be upset if their partner wanted to use a toy, as what is the purpose of that if you have the real thing available as I mentioned? Instead of worrying about what toy to buy or use, why not try to find out what you and your partner can do to enjoy one another's own bodies more. The ignorance on this site is amazing | |
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Posted: 1/13/2009 4:42:34 AM | | I dont see what the problem is it wouldnt bother me if a man had sex toys as long as it wasnt instead of sleeping with me. Women can come just as easily as men we are just lazy. I think women are expected to wait till someone they love comes along and use toys if frustrated whereas men are expected to pull someone if their horny. I dont agree with the post that people who use sex toys are sad Ive not met a man who could make you come 6 or 7 times in a row whereas a toy can | |
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Posted: 1/13/2009 4:47:22 AM | | Deuteronomium, your either a moron or really good with your member. I doubt the latter one is the case. Obviously someone has been lying to you about your performance. Good luck with that. Wake up and smell the coffee!!! | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/13/2009 4:56:17 AM | I love toys... Hers, mine, whatever - If it works for you... (Strap it on and be gentle... To start with!)  | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/13/2009 6:11:45 AM |
Deuteronomium, your either a moron or really good with your member. I doubt the latter one is the case. Obviously someone has been lying to you about your performance. Good luck with that. Wake up and smell the coffee!!!
Wow ...sounds like a hit a sore spot with rain311 lol. Like I said before, not every guy does a wham bam thank you ma'am. A guy that knows how to use his pipe wouldn't need to have his woman use a toy. I'm sorry if no men are attracted to you and don't want to have sex with you unless they were drunk or high and you need to use a toy, but don't come on here and blame others just because you are jaded and can't get laid or men aren't attracted to you. Every woman I shagged or talked to said they prefer the real thing way more , so if you don't because you can't get the real thing, then that's your problem not anyone else's! | |
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Posted: 1/13/2009 8:32:51 AM | sure.......we prefer the real thing......
but when the real thing isn't around.....what's the problem with using a toy?
Do u have a fear a woman will find out she can get herself off better than u can do it for her?
and toys in a relationship.......it's called fun. Spicing things up!
Any man that is so close minded about toys......has hangups this woman doesn't care to deal with.
and to say such needless things as "men aren't attracted to us.....and we can't get laid unless the man is drunk or high"......
Grow up!
Seems your the one with the problem.....not any person that enjoys a toy now and then. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2009 10:58:30 AM | Deuteronomium msg 56 ...
Anyone that has a problem with toys is feeling threatened buy "TOYS" ... either they are insecure and feel the toys are better than they are, or they are not creative and there for do not feel free to explore living real sexual FUN ... witch I think is sad ...
There have been many medical studies that show most men and women masturbate at least some of the time .... for those ppl not to look for ways to please themselves better and longer and for longer periods of time shows they have no idea how to explore their own true sexuality and they live in a closed mind ....
I have seen men say "Why do women need to use toys ?" They are suffering from a "what about ME complex" ... and are more worried about if she really wants him and there for they feel they need to be needed .... These ppl don't seem to care about her and her wants just about their own wants ...
A man buying a sex doll I would say "to each their own" ... its only right that if she can play the field of toys then he should be able to also .... (a doll is a little creepy tho  ) but a masturbation toy for his penis is all good .... A man buying a blow up doll would be like a woman buying a blow up doll and once again "to each their own" ...
Ppl that cant seem to accept that their partner has likes and wants a lil spice in their sex life should not be in relationship ... A lot of ppl are not insulted by toys and find them to be fun , stimulating and even erotic ... A person should not be insulted by a toy ... its a TOY not another person ... What is wrong with enjoying a toy ? ... Its not like you are having a affair ... Of course it IS a toy and a person is more desirable than a toy ... how ever using a toy with someone or by yourself is finding out more about what turns you or them on ... Why not explore your body with both your hands and toys .... and also doing this for your partner has well to make them feel even more orgasmic ...
The ignorance on this site is amazing
AnglFlyn
This is a lot better than my if I was to use my comical version ... ... | |
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Posted: 1/13/2009 11:02:31 AM | | It is acceptable. Absolutely. To listen to those that think otherwise is a lesson you could learn about yourself. Hopefully you have in the past few months since asking this question. *smile* | |
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Posted: 1/13/2009 11:03:15 AM | u just need friends that are more freaky, that's all.
sex toys rock, and women like them, so nothing wrong w a man having them. | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/13/2009 1:42:06 PM | | After watching a few videos of guys being driven absolutely out of their heads by that Aneros toy, I've decided that if I have another partner and he's game for it, I'm going to get him one of those things. Watching him enjoy it would be worth the price. | |
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Posted: 1/14/2009 5:25:08 AM | | hmm Im not sure what your referring to Kinkdude. But I like to bring out my magic wand or vibrator into the bedroom. I love it when a man uses them on me. Its such a turn on. I have yet to try his toys on him. (Have not had the opportunity yet) lol But if my man was to ask me, I definitely would not mind. | |
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Posted: 1/14/2009 6:14:19 AM | Why is it acceptable for women to have sex toys, but not men?
Seriously, this is an issue...who'd a thunk! I have worked in juvenile institutions for adolescent boys who use to make their own sex toy called a fifi (rubber glove, towel wrapped tightly around with a rubber band securing it together....WaaaLaaa...a home made va ja ja....insert vasaline and go). Now they make gigi's for men and all sorts of other fun things...What's the big deal? I don't think sex toys for men are pervy!
have recently bought a couple (a couple of sex toys, not 'a couple'), and its strange the reaction i get from my good mates when i tell them, compared to when i hear women talking about them openly......
I would stop telling your current mates and find mates that can appreciate getting in touch with their playful side.. ! | |
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Posted: 1/14/2009 6:46:10 AM | | I find the use of sex toys between women and men to be an enhancement to the sex not a replacement. to use a toy during sex doesnt make either party less of a person, just a person that wants thier partner to experiance the best possible orgasms imaginable. now for a guy to use a toy when he is alone is a different story. i agree with those who say to masterbate is ok but when a guy needs to shove something up his arse when he is alone is a lil bit far off the road for me. | |
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Posted: 1/14/2009 6:48:40 AM | | Sex toys for men ???? YES their called women !!!! nothing ever invented could replace the best invention ever !!!!! I love all the Ladies xoxoxo | |
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Posted: 1/14/2009 8:07:12 AM | | Bring it on, nothing more erotic then watching and assisting your partner with the toys. | |
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Posted: 1/14/2009 9:25:26 AM | | I not only appreciate a guy willing to play with toys, I appreciate it more when its not EXPECTED he play with mine. Some things are better safely enjoyed by the owner, not shared. | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/16/2009 11:40:37 AM | | i got my own, bring your own and lets see how long we can go. i am free all weekend. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2009 1:30:51 PM | We have sex toys they are called WOMAN!
See and I look at it the other way.... men are my toys, i say sit and they do, beg and they will... you just have to make sure that you reward them accordingly... and I love a man that will allow toy play with himself... | |
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Posted: 1/16/2009 1:40:45 PM |
i got my own, bring your own and lets see how long we can go. i am free all weekend
maybe this will be the new (technology) trend of the future..
A Brave New World...?
a man and woman will get together, and never touch each other.
just each get off with their individual own toy (s)..
sort of like how I often see 4 people go out for lunch "together" and never talk at all to each other..each whips out their cellphone and proceeds to 'converse' with some other person who is not present at the table...or "texting" to someone else..
LMFAO.. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2009 3:47:14 PM | I thought that was a dittzy 21 yo that just loved sex with ya and didn't care if you were old enough to be her dad. Just help her make her rent payment and don't ask about her eating habits, friends, or if her term paper is done on time.
Sooooooo, how stupid am I???
You mean there is a man made device that wraps snuggly around your member, is warm, moist, varies in stroking speeds, knows when to get rid of evidence(or go get itself a towel)....
don't: ask for money, talk about co-workers or neighbors, ring your cell when your bowling/ with your buddies , ask questions about the washing the car/lawn/leaky faucet/toilet seat up, during the last 5 mins. of the game or NASCAR???
Plus It plugs into the wall, battery operated, optional adapter for car cigarette lighter, and is compact enough to get through airport security without embarrassment?
OH, He11 yea!!! Send me a link!!
Wait ....assuming it's a 4 week delivery schedule, and Valentine's Day right around the corner.
Here's my visa,
1002 1812 6841 4269
Would one kindly POF member surprise me? THANKS
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