| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/16/2009 5:07:41 PM | Ok, I had to reply to this, I don't use sextoys myself but I wouldn't mind having some sort of wanking device as a bit a of strange instead of the usual left hand. I don't think it would work though, it would probably as useless as a woman doing it. Why can't they do it properly? Anyway I have always wanted to use a strap on so I can do both holes at the same time, I think it would be better than using a dildo, I end up going out of sync  | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/17/2009 4:57:50 AM |
maybe this will be the new (technology) trend of the future..
A Brave New World...?
a man and woman will get together, and never touch each other.
Demolition Man, anyone?  | |
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cbt04
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Joined: 8/23/2008
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 6/10/2009 12:54:57 AM | I don't see a problem with guys having sex toys. I was actually going to buy my ex this one toy while we were together which is supposed to feel like a real vagina, but then I saw the price and remembered that my credit card payment was soon to be due...
Why shouldn't guys be able to experiment as well? I know that I don't NEED toys to get off, but once in a while it's fun to try something different. Why not? | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 6/10/2009 1:51:09 AM | | gah. i think its a little weird. a had a buddy who has a pocket p***y.. he litterally NEVER had sex with his gf because they both just had toys. i figure why play with toys when you have a wayyyyyy better alternative... | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 6/10/2009 1:53:27 AM | I'd buy
cock ring
and stuff to share with a sex partner
if you supply the vibrator make sure you tell her you've cleaned it since the last girl
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 6/16/2009 6:02:39 PM | Honestly way back when I did think that they were a little pervy...until I got more information on them...now I think that there is nothing wrong with them at all. In fact I bought one for an ex when he was always going away on business. For a woman, I would much rather buy him a toy for him to play with when he is away rather than him buy a drink for some random women at a bar. I actually sell them now lol. If you have any intest, feel free to visit my site slumberpartiesbytiffanyh.com  | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 6/16/2009 7:35:40 PM | | I don't believe in double standards. I own sex toys. If they are ok for me they are ok for him. If he derived pleasure this way I would be ok with it. As long as he has time to make love with me and it is not a substitute for me , anything that augments his sexual pleasure is ok. | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/5/2009 10:03:45 PM | Yeah I thought it was kind of pervy...then I concluded:
1) Lube is a sex toy! Lube + hand(s) is much more fun (or at least much faster) than hands alone, and that's not even considering butt play.
2) If a woman can have something insertable, why shouldn't a man be able to have something to insert into?
3) By the time I got a sleeve I was already using a dildo on myself, and lube for lube's sake, so it wasn't really that much of a stretch.
If you're sharing sex toys, just put condoms on them! Or at least get silicone ones and sterilize them by boiling or dishwasher. | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/5/2009 10:16:33 PM | who said it's not acceptable? Your mom?
Who cares anyway. Are you going around making your sex toy collection public or something? and facing some backlash? | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/6/2009 8:49:14 AM |
if you supply the vibrator make sure you tell her you've cleaned it since the last girl
Am I the only one who eeewwww when I read this comment.
I admit to having a drawer with my sex toys stash, and have never shared them with anyone. Right now I am in a monogamous relationship and for the first time made a purchase for him. It is one thing for me to share my things with him because we are lovers, however that is as far as it goes. The only reason I even felt comfortable in the first place introducing sex toys into our bedroom, is the high degree of comfort I have with him . He is the first and only man I have ever done this with. Yes, I was a sex toy virgin, and he is the only one I ever played with this way.
I hope he is my happily ever after guy, but you had better believe if that relationship ever ended I would never use that toy with another man. It would end up in the trash.
If a man had ever tried to use something he owned that he used on another woman I would say, "Uh, no!" Just the thought of a toy that was used on someone else is a little freaky. I don't care how good your sanitary practices are. Not going to happen. | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/6/2009 4:38:56 PM | Have you been living in a cave? There are tons of sex toys for men.
Visit your local sex shop.
And the fleshlight seems to be the most popular to date. Google is your friend.
Happy wanking! | |
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| Adam & Eve
Posted: 10/6/2009 7:18:28 PM | | who is adam and eve ???? | |
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| credit card # ?
Posted: 10/6/2009 7:42:09 PM | Tito, did you post your credit card number in post above?? LOL 
dam, you really do want some sex toys huh?? | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/6/2009 9:56:52 PM |
but who knows about the next - the next and the next that may have allowed the use of the 'used' toys! (Yeah, I know it's old, but ... )
You're making me start to regret my most recent yard sale bargain.
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/7/2009 7:46:21 AM | | I don't know any male sex toys that are better than my hands. Why would I pay for something which is worse than free stuff and needs clean up? | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/7/2009 8:20:28 AM | aw heck..
I cant even get over BigDaddyJinx having a fleshlight...its just plays over and over in mah mind... | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/7/2009 1:33:24 PM | If these guys are not open minded enough you just do your thing and don't bother sharing all the details with them.
If it makes YOU happy and enjoy the experience all the best to you. | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/7/2009 1:37:42 PM | You say women don't do it right.
Mybe many. I have had the joy to have some willing and eager to follow directions how to please me with their hands. Oh what a sensation!
If you know how you like it try to have your partner do it the way you like it best. Aren't so many men take it seriously to do it right for their women? It should go two ways sometimes. | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/7/2009 1:38:44 PM |
Why would someone own/use a dildo? or even a chick masturbating. If I were a chick I would never be desperate for sex to a point of resorting to these 2 acts.
I personally don't own a dildo, however I have several vibrators. Contrary to popular belief, men do not have an exclusive right to a high libido. Masturbation among women is common and normal among women who enjoy their sexuality. I do not consider either of these two behaviors "desperate".
Horny men are wherever I look and also men who are pissed simply because he is not getting any unlike women who can be content wiyhout sex.
Where in the world did you get this ridiculous notion that women can be content without sex? Perhaps some women, but clearly not ALL women. Women have sexual tension, just like men, only our sex drive peak occurs at a later stage in life than a man.
Men have less control over their sex hormones than women or bluntly Testerone rages more than aestrogen.
The only reason a man has less control over their sex hormones is they do not risk getting pregnant. Women have more control over their urges because they are wired differently, and if they are careless they bear the burden of their bad choice for nine months.
I would be disturbed if I am in a r/ship with a chick using dildos. I would tell her 'I have a live one permanently strapped between my thighs. Just jump on it whenever you feel like using one.'
In a real world, even in a monogamous relationship, not everyone is afforded the luxury of having a partner who is available to "jump on it" at will. I would never choose to masturbate over making love with my partner, however, we do not live together, we both have busy lives, and I don't see him as often as I "desire" release of sexual tension. He satisfies me just fine whenever I see him. Short of having him quit his job and chaining him to my bed, there will be times that I have an urge, and he is not available.
Likewise a normal man who can easily get some..should not masturbate.
You talk about sex like it is a commodity that you could purchase at will in the grocery store. Some of us are a lot more discriminant in our choice of sexual partners. I am not "in" to casual sex, and have one lover in an exclusive relationship. To imply that a normal man should go pick up any old woman with a vag1na and get off, rather than masturbate is stupid, dangerous, and skanky behavior. | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/7/2009 2:29:52 PM |
In fact, it actually seems a bit more warped (in my mind), for a woman to use a dildo, because it's unfathomable that ANY woman couldn't find a willing man to give her penetration satisfaction, so those women are, in reality, rejecting a huge variety of flesh and blood penises for a slab of rubber or plastic. To me, that's quite, um, sexually dysfunctional. In a man's case, he's probably only SETTLING for the fakery because circumstances aren't giving him the option. Mind you, if he PREFERS it, he's equally warped (in my opinion) as the women who PREFER it.
that sums it up. it is ridiculous for a woman to not be able to find a man. women's manipulation gives them all the power. | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/7/2009 4:59:19 PM | Sex toys for men include: the Fleshlight (and other masturbation sleeves), certain sleeves that fit over vibrators, the eroscillator, butt plugs, anal dildos,****rings, etc.
Why would someone own/use a dildo? or even a chick masturbating. If I were a chick I would never be desperate for sex to a point of resorting to these 2 acts.
Seriously? Okay:
I masturbate. I masturbate with a vibrator, even, and sometimes I'll throw a dildo in there to mix it up a bit. Why?--Because I get horny and it feels good. I mean, isn't that why we all do it? Sure, I could find a partner, but I'm extremely picky, and don't really want to be with someone only for sex--it just doesn't work well for me, I do get emotionally attached, and I'm not going to form some arbitrary attachment because I'm horny and need a release. Masturbation provides a release on my own terms, without complications--the only complication I've ever run into is running down my batteries without a new set in my house.
I would be disturbed if I am in a r/ship with a chick using dildos. I would tell her 'I have a live one permanently strapped between my thighs. Just jump on it whenever you feel like using one.'
Again: Lack of complication. Or possibly, lack of availability. If my partner's not there and I need release, I can do it myself if I feel a need. If I want a selfish orgasm where I don't worry about my partner and his pleasure, I have ways to get myself off where I can do just that and not disappoint him. In practice, I do tend to just jump on my partner and wait for him, but I don't have any issues with a partner playing with himself without me, and I wouldn't stay with anyone who felt he somehow "owned" my sexuality to the point where he'd get upset if I did the same. Likewise, any partner who isn't okay with my using a vibrator during sex on occasion is not the partner for me (though I've yet to have a partner who objected to this).
Likewise a normal man who can easily get some..should not masturbate.
Why on earth not?! It's easy, it's uncomplicated, it feels good, there's no risk of STDs or pregnancy or complex emotional involvement. . . it seems like a winning situation to me if he doesn't want to find a new partner or just wants a little alone time. What could possibly be the problem with that?
Thanks for the enlightment now I know the diff btw a vibrator and a dildo. I thought there purpose is the same
Kind of. They're both for sexual pleasure, but one's purpose is penetration, while vibrators are used largely for clitoral stimulation, and often not inserted at all. Or you can use both at once. | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/8/2009 6:15:46 AM |
If my partner's not there and I need release, I can do it myself if I feel a need. If I want a selfish orgasm where I don't worry about my partner and his pleasure, I have ways to get myself off where I can do just that and not disappoint him. In practice, I do tend to just jump on my partner and wait for him, but I don't have any issues with a partner playing with himself without me, and I wouldn't stay with anyone who felt he somehow "owned" my sexuality to the point where he'd get upset if I did the same. I so agree.
One more thing, that wasn't addressed in this discussion, while most men think a woman should "jump on his stiff d1ck" instead of masturbate, they are failing to take in to account that a majority of women do NOT orgasm from penetration. They need clitoral stimulation. That is why many women like to use a vibrator, alone or with their partner.
To be perfectly honest, I can easily bring myself to orgasm with masturbation. For whatever reason, its not always so easy with a partner, because I know my body better than any man can. With that being said, since I can orgasm any time I please, when I am with my lover this frees me up to devote all my energy to his pleasure. I love everything about making love with my man. I love the feel of him inside me, there is nothing that compares to that sensation. I love having him touch me and stimulate me, but if it does not result in orgasm every time we are together, it is not a big deal.
Feeling comfortable enough with a lover to introduce sexual aids like lubricants, and toys into the mix is a good thing. It is not a case of chosing a toy over a man. It is a case of chosing a toy when you need release and the "right" man is not available. I certainly would not be offended if my partner masterbated or used a toy when alone as long as when we were together he had plenty of desire for me. I would not be with a man who would look for a replacement "woman" in my absence. Likewise, my use of toys in his absense has never resulted in my not desiring him when we are together. If anything, the fact that I do masturbate between love making just shows I am one of those high libido women who is always ready to respond to the advances of my man. Its all good. | |
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| Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/8/2009 7:06:31 AM |
Likewise, my use of toys in his absense has never resulted in my not desiring him when we are together. If anything, the fact that I do masturbate between love making just shows I am one of those high libido women who is always ready to respond to the advances of my man. Its all good.
Have you ever tried to quit a bad habit like smoking, eating too much candy, etc.? It is kinda like that, but in reverse.... the longer I go without candy, the less cravings I have (can't say about smoking - never smoked). Well, in the case of sex and sex toys.... the way I look at - the more you get, the more you want it... if/when someone does come into your life. | |
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