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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/19/2008 10:59:02 AM | Well, since practically all my first "dates" (if I'm using the term right) from here are in public places like coffee shops, bookstores, and restaurants (maybe a concert venue or two), I hardly think the surroundings are conducive to having sex?
I'm also very cognizant of using proper etiquette and wary of coming on too "strong" with a woman I essentially don't know from Eve? If a woman wants sex she has to almost literally knock me 'side the head and "tell" me, and I've found most women are very coy with such things, even if they have a strong attraction for the guy.
If it "really" happens 30% of the time I'm not just outside the curve, I'm not even on the chart? | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/19/2008 12:22:51 PM | | its like that with men too, i speak from experience. there have been so many men that i have gone out on dates with that expected in the FIRST date! needless to say, there were no 2nd dates. not having sex on the first date. so men dont call back ..oh well... | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/19/2008 3:18:57 PM |
Well I guess I married two sluts then, and was with them for a total of twenty years. Thank God for those two sluts!
Well, I guess that's why you aren't with them now... | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/19/2008 3:38:21 PM | What a biased article... overt creating stereotypes ... The only thing true in this would be only a good paycheck for the article, it doesn't matter how bad it is for cultural evolving, most importantly it sells (it would matter selling their mothers for cheap too.. ).
Did they at least cite how many people have been surveyed? Did they define their criterias of survey? I doubt...
It doesn't matter whether true or not, it has no use and it's out of concept for any loving relationship, just out of concept for whatever gender. Sad.
It obviously stirs up hate and bias of promiscuity against women, yeah, under cover of "research and social policy", what a stupidity. 
People should be aware and refuse to eat up sh*it like that. | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/19/2008 3:52:44 PM | | This is one of the scariest things I've read, but I don't doubt it. It has become clear, after many discussions with friends, that a lot of women are having sex immediately upon meeting a man and it has become "expected." I am a lot more careful about meeting someone and make it very clear I am not a "one-night-stand" kind of gal. Having casual sex is crazy enough, but not using a condom is like playing Russian roulette. | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/19/2008 4:35:10 PM | | I think I am finding this to be true , or at least they want to .... I am looking for something more than a one night stand , alot profiles say they are but I have found the oposite to be the case. they certainally should be honest...how you all feel ? | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/19/2008 5:40:45 PM | gemstar2000 raised a question that I also had. Out of that 30% of women who've had sex on a firrst date, do they ask if they do that EVERY first date. I don't thaink so. And the same goes for a lot of men. My agenda on a first date is to get to know someone, and see if there is a possibility of a good match. Having sex on a first date would probably mean it was also our last date. I was raised to respect women, and if they can't respect themselves then what can I say........
All men are not the same, and neither are women. I'd personally go for a womna that I was attracted to and she would be in the 70% range. | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/19/2008 6:35:24 PM | Last time I had sex on the first date, I married her..and 15 years later, here I am....
In my experience it is more the second or third date. | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/20/2008 12:59:12 PM | 30% sounds right. No need to go into details there....
But then again what websites are they using?
some of the popups on this site alone would boost that statistic.
Suardaddy.com
millionairhorndog.com
whatever,
I would also like to see out of the 30 % what age group is doing it 1st date?
and is it mostly rural areas or Big city's.
seems like a vage statistic.
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/20/2008 3:38:06 PM | I suppose this 30% could be correct. I'm sure it would vary over mulitple studies and depending on the demographic.
I bet if we did our own poll in this very thread, we would find a grand total of 0% of women would have sex on the first date. At least that's their story!
Of course, the anonymity factor plays a big part in getting truthful answers. | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/20/2008 6:43:47 PM | I wonder about that stat broken down by age. In my younger days almost every first date ended up in someone's bed. Now it is rare.
If the survey was conducted with younger women, I think 30% would be wayyyyyyy to low. | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/20/2008 7:19:45 PM | there is a question that has been floating around for years,if a women is called a slut for sleeping around what do you call a man that does the same thing?
the stagma of women and men have been around for years.women that sleep around are easy,men that sleep around are heros.(no not in my book)men will not respect a women that sleeps with a man on the first date,not unless she is exceptionally brilliant in the sack,then he may have a problem forgetting her:: | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:38:49 AM |
there is a question that has been floating around for years,if a women is called a slut for sleeping around what do you call a man that does the same thing?
Lucky? Friendly?
Actually a male whore os called a rake. But there is a double standard, but it only applies if you really care what other people might think. | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:53:02 AM | My take is a male that sleeps around is a player, gigolo, "male" whore, you name it.
I don't think there's a double standard in society, and men that have multiple sex partners are given a free ride. I certainly wouldn't give my fellow men rewards and praise for being womanizers? I "know" most women wouldn't. | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:58:07 AM | spacechickadee wrote:
For most women, it's emotional suicide. Eventually they will wake up one morning, look in the mirror and wonder why are they miserable. And they will wonder why they they have no one in their life - in particular men - who gives a damn about them. It's not a moral issue. It's a matter of living life true to one's self. And I realize that there will be some women who will argue that it does not bother them, that they love sex. I love sex too, but if you are putting out on every first or second date, you are not looking for sex. You are looking for something to fill that big empty hole you feel on the inside.
As for the argument that men will find other women who will put out. They can go ahead and find other women. Who needs men like this in their lives anyway? They are trying to find a way to fill up their big holes inside too.
I agree and this is my stance as well. I have decided to not have sex unless I get a commitment from a man. I want to get to know someone properly without being blinded by good sex. | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/21/2008 9:02:59 AM | | I had sex on the first date with a woman I was then married to for over 15 years. It completely depends on the people and the chemistry. | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/21/2008 9:10:42 AM | yah and the men who had the sex with this 30% are just the innocent bystanders'
gee I guess they didn't use a condom either.
Quit degrading the woman here, and make the men take responsibility as well.
This kind of question opens up the field for a-holes to rant on how they don't
respect the woman on this account! | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/21/2008 9:34:55 AM | | 30% on first date, I can believe.....But 43% without condom??? Hard to believe that many people are still doing that especially on first date! | |
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| 30% of women have sex on first dates?
Posted: 9/21/2008 10:20:55 AM | In todays age, who realy knows for sure?
To me if two consenting adults agree, then why not? But with protection of course.... You take your risk when you go through with it, and knowing the other person may not ever contact you again.
For me, I prefer to wait and get to know a person to make sure they aren't after just that one thing....... And if he seems to be pushy about it, then it usualy means time for him to go... literaly..... | |
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