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Posted: 2/27/2008 1:17:20 PM | OMG - men say that to other women?
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Posted: 2/27/2008 1:25:48 PM | "I have never felt this way about anyone" or "i have never loved anyone as much as you"
You better believe him girl, and if he says it twice, you better give him some booty. He is certainly the one for you. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 1:52:01 PM | Hmmmm, typical 50-50% split type of reaction.
OP, the only person that can answer that other than him, is you. If you're BS detector isn't going off when he says things like that, believe him. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 2:07:49 PM | | Well the older the man, the more likely the hyperbole. Still, he may have fetlt that way, but now feels that he never felt that way before. Memory is a slippery thing. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 3:08:08 PM | | since no two people are alike, then no two loves should feel the same...been married twice and feelings were very different when compared side by side, yet they were both definitely love...sooo, gotta agree with trish on this one...one love should never be compared to another | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 3:34:24 PM | | Ah... this is actually kind of a dumb question because there's no context. A guy who's saying it too early in a relationship before he could reasonably have a good reason to feel this way is almost certainly handing you a line. A guy who's taken the time to get to know you, and really seems interested and into you is probably telling you how he honestly feels. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 4:03:09 PM | Well the older the man, the more likely the hyperbole.
Or NOT!!! I know personally as I age, I gain more conviction in the things I believe and know. I also know that as I age, I don't throw "words" around lightly , just because. And having some sex, I consider a "just because". My memory is fine, good and bad ones. I just tend to keep the bad ones somewhere until my spidey senses come into play. Then they are remembered quite accurately, thank you very much. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 4:08:31 PM | They could be just a line or they could be honest.
No way to tell if it's ALWAYS a line or ALWAYS honest. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 8:41:46 PM | After reading this thread, I am convinced that the POF forums were invented so that everyone would know whom not to date.  | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 9:55:45 PM | Anybody see "Army of Darkness"?
"That was just pillow talk baby"...... | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 2:30:49 AM |
"I have never felt this way about anyone" or "i have never loved anyone as much as you" - is this just a line or could it be the truth? Especially if the man has had several relationships..... and how would you measure it?
As it's been answered many times, by the masses, and mostly shallow of the masses. It can be either.
When I look back at my previous relationships, I couldn't tell you how I felt about them differently from each other!
If you look back on your previous relationships, and you can't tell the difference in how you feel between then and now... Then there is no difference between then and now. Maybe for him, you really are that special someone, but for you, he's no different than all the other suitors. Save him some heartache, if you can't tell the difference, you need to let him go. When you find that world shattering person, then you'll feel it for yourself, and then you can answer that question.
There have been three women in my life that will stand out above all the rest up to this point. One of them is my ex-wife. Each of those three I loved and cared for very much, and I felt differently about each of them, but none of them were right for me. I believe there is a difference between being Comfortable, and being Smitten, and Knowing that someone is THE ONE for me, and I'm certain I haven't felt that yet.
There are billions of people on this planet, Certainly there is one for you too. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 3:02:15 AM | My exhubby who is dying from cancer said this to me a couple of weeks ago. He said he always has loved me and loved me most of all and always will.
I'll take that to the bank he means every word of it too! He has no reason to say it unless he meant it. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 3:50:18 PM | | Well you can't let just words win your heart mostly ones like that ... I thinks its the things he does for you and how he treats you.. It's up to you to decide how much to take in what he says but look at the time he tells you these words.. If its when you guys are in bed and he says shit like that he just wants to get laid and is tryin to soften you up for it and doesn't realy mean it.. But if its when you guy's are having a nice dinner and he looks in your eye's as says these things then he truly does love you or is falling for you.. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 3:59:31 PM | I agree with if it was within the first ten dates then my god is he a smooth so and so
When he says it to you and looks into your eye's do you belive him???
I mean how can you truly know someone after just a few dates?? | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 4:34:47 PM | | OP I'd consider whether it was around the time to have sex or something like that. Because then it could be perceived as not being for real. But if you had gone on for some time and then he mentioned it. That is not necessarily a bad thing. I typically don't say stuff like that in the relationship unless I believe she is ready for it. I think sometime those kind of statements can jinx a relationship. I think it has meaning when the couple have decided that they really want to be together. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 12:46:28 AM | | ok probably going to get kick back on this but here goes, those two lines belong in the same category as i have a bridge i want to sell you, , dont get me wrong, we have all made mistakes, , some are here for that reason, others are from a more tragic loss of a significant other, if indeed those two lines or either is used within the first year to 18 months you can bet its a line 99% of the time. used to score points,, . past relationships have formed who we are today, good bad or indifferent, from what i have read in the forums and elsewhere when a guy says i have never loved anyone as much as you, it USUALLY means significant other or wife on the side, again just my two cents worth, | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 6:32:00 AM | | in all honesty..its usually a line..i'm an action oriented person....that is the best way to show/prove something | |
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