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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 5/22/2008 7:55:46 PM | | It has been a while since I had it, so when I start a relationship do I get a time and a half or double time credit for the hardship I endured? | |
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:06:07 PM | I'm not sure about the official rules, but I wonder if it is similar to how cross border duty works. Credits could be tied to the length of time you have been celibate.
Perhaps it is best to get some sort of official time stamp to prove the duration of abstinence. Maybe a receipt for a box of condoms or if you are seeing a "pro", ask if you can pay by credit card. | |
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:32:39 PM |
official time stamp to prove the duration of abstinence. Maybe a receipt for a box of condoms or if you are seeing a "pro", ask if you can pay by credit card. Those two items definately constitute proof.
1 receipt for 48 pack of condoms.................................... $25.00
48 Visa receipts from the “pro”....................................... $5,000.00
Expression on her face as you present the “proof”........... Priceless | |
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 5/23/2008 12:06:59 PM | Ya know i can see someone doing that .... ! Please let us know how it worked out !
Digital picture of the expression on her face when said proof is presented... mind you she would likely also demand the "klinic" receipt of testing and ensuring you had all your shots too!
LOL
OT: ... well i hear kids are doing it at 10- 14 years of age... ( I so want to avoid dealing with my daughters during this stage... as a father.. I'm debating archery or "sport" shooting as a hobby of mine to mention to all the little horny boys that will come a knocking ! ..lol
But seriously... are their rules or guidelines???... here perhaps there is a "consensus "that the horizontal lumba tryouts happens around the third or fourth date... no ?
Well unless tequila and dancing are involved... might then be the washroom of said club, the car, or if you can wait .... the kitchen table just inside the back door !
My question is .... should we still offer breakfast ? or am I too old fashioned ? Send them out the door with some dry toast and O.J ? ..lol ( tongue in cheek folks, tongue in cheek !! ) | |
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 5/23/2008 1:42:27 PM | | Well, edjoe, the sport shooting as a hobby works,lol. My daughter who is 17 now, almost has as many toys as I do,lol. She can handle and take care of herself very well now. And it keeps fear in the horny boy friends, and most of them are too scared to meet her redneck daddy, they slink away,lol. The less of them I have to deal with the better,lol. But the first kid I said I liked, who was a clean cut, no tat's, no additude, very nice guy, she dumped him,wtf. | |
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 5/23/2008 3:01:22 PM | ^^^^
If you like the guy don't give your approval. I was seeing a woman, her kids liked me, her parents thought the world of me, and then she dropped me. I told my sister and she said that was the problem. The parents liking me was like the kiss of death. She is now seeing a guy that the parents hate and is trying to make it work. | |
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linen
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Joined: 3/9/2008
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 5/24/2008 5:41:28 AM | Printer & Mr. Redneck,,,
Just a note ,,, first of all HELLOOOOOOOOOOOO
second its like from the beginning of time,,, not that I am that old of course heehee but most girls\women go for the rugged bad boys every time !! LMAO
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 5/24/2008 7:32:04 AM | Hi linen. Yes I know, but it is hard to be a bad boy with greying hair and a sore back.  I could have done things differently but I didn't think I had to play silly games and toy with her emotions. I was looking for an equal partner in a relationship.
In the end it probably was a good thing it turned out the way it did because I realized we needed two different things and I did learn what kind of woman I would like to be with. | |
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linen
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Joined: 3/9/2008
Msg: 137 | |
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 5/30/2008 11:44:36 AM | Ok, now that's probably happened to most of us, & of all things, this is my very first posting & I'm probably going to get alot of flack for this one, but the first thing that popped in my head when I read that it happens to you every time, is maybe you suck at it??  | |
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 5/30/2008 12:04:11 PM | ^^^^
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There - alot of flack - just for you! | |
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 5/31/2008 1:45:22 AM | Nope that never happens to me no matter how hard i try.
You should wait until you think the time is right then wait a bit longer. | |
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 5/31/2008 3:57:03 PM | How long should you wait before sex? Hmmm about the time it takes to get ones clothes off methinks! Adios losewahs! Your ship has sailed | |
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linen
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Joined: 3/9/2008
Msg: 142 | |
| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 5/31/2008 7:36:40 PM | aaaaaaaaaaaaaaewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwhhahahhahahha...
as i read i cant even find an answer to this question,,,, lol
there are so many options to list ,,,
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 6/2/2008 3:21:07 PM | good question
some think its better right away while others think you should let her wake up from the foreplay of being clubed and carried back to your cave uuugggg me dont know uugggg | |
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 6/3/2008 8:11:13 PM | Wait....hmm.
I`m at the age ( i know that makes me sound like a relic) that sex comes...when it comes. I`m not looking to "get laid", but willing if it comes. I think what i am trying to say is....meeting someone who will be there past the awkward morning after, is what i look forward to..."Clicking" is key.....what comes after that...is icing on the cake. | |
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 6/4/2008 10:19:01 PM | Be it 5 minutes or 5 weeks, if the attraction is there, why would you make a guy wait????
Let us consult www.dictionary.com for the answer:
manipulate
–verb (used with object), -lat·ed, -lat·ing.
1. to manage or influence skillfully, esp. in an unfair manner: to manipulate people's feelings.
2. to handle, manage, or use, esp. with skill, in some process of treatment or performance: to manipulate a large tractor.
3. to adapt or change (accounts, figures, etc.) to suit one's purpose or advantage.
I didn't bother to check the OP's profile, but if it says the obligatory "not into mind games", you may want to delete that portion of 1/2 truth from your description.
Or, could it be that maybe:
1) you absolutely sucked?
2) innate self-fulfilling prophecy? (see #1)
3) you set yourself up without realizing it? (see #2)
4) this type of self defeating behaviour will eventually lead you to being trapped in an abusive relationship because you have no desire to break patterns of emotional subservience? (See a Psychiatrist. ) No, watching Dr Phil doesn't count although your need for other ppl's validation on a purely subjective and personal matter suggests you watch him religiously.
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 6/6/2008 3:34:58 PM | From OP's post, her concern isn't that she "makes the guy wait". The issue isn't her "withholding sex". The concern is people aren't respecting her and would rather lie and toy with her to get what they want.
If people want partners who are merely objects, they should find people are asking to be treated as such and not mess others who are looking for a relationship.
I would guess men (or women) who are looking for sex foremost would feel like they're being played if they're not getting sex, despite all other good things they have going on with the other person. They can smile and nod and to pretend to be nice, but only to get what they want (called narcissism). But a narcissist is a child. Children blame others for their irresponsibility and call them names (as.... demonstrated...)
I know it's easier said than done, OP, but avoid narcissists. Maybe try hanging out with people in different circles. Take others' advice and wait. | |
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 6/6/2008 4:38:41 PM |
The concern is people aren't respecting her and would rather lie and toy with her to get what they want.
But, but, if I told the truth about what I wanted I would not get it.
If people want partners who are merely objects, they should find people are asking to be treated as such and not mess others who are looking for a relationship.
Hey buddy did you see how that woman is dressed?
I know it's easier said than done, OP, but avoid narcissists.
Oh but those bad boys are sooo much fun. | |
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linen
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Joined: 3/9/2008
Msg: 148 | |
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| How long should you wait before sex?
Posted: 6/9/2008 11:38:19 AM | | I haven't read the previous posts, but IMO, it all comes down to how bad both want it :D My SO and I hooked up on are 1st date. Kept coming back for more. In the past I've waited months... Depends on chemistry and ...well hornyness I suppose lol | |
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