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| Over 50 And NO Fun !
Posted: 6/10/2008 9:20:58 AM | Ok. I was banned from the forums for a few days and I was finding it really hard and wanted to have fun, so I decided to go on a DATE! 
She was nice, and we had a fun meal in a Japanese restaurant, then we went out to a blues club to close the night. The evening was coming to a close but she wanted to continue and didn't want to go home, so off to my place. Half way there, I was having second thoughts. I didn't want want sex because... I didn't want it. lol. I only have room for one woman in my head, and as remote as it is that I'll ever even meet her for coffee, I'll have to wait until she's out of my daydreams before someone else come is.
Anyway, by the time we got to my place, I had a plan. I opened the garage door and grabbed the basketball. I took a few shots at the net and deaked her out a few times. She stood there simply watching, then I threw her the ball. She must have been a little bored because she didn't even reach for it. It hit her right in the tits. lol. She grabbed it and started to play (the ball. lol). It was reallllly hot here this past few days (40c or 104f in US lol.), and so we started to really sweat. I had her huffing and puffing in 2 minutes. We kept at it for about half an hour and she was soaked, had wobbly legs, not to mention beat (ya... i won!). I kinda started to want sex by this time because her t-shirt was wet and could see her nips. lol.
(remember the plan?...)
We went in and I told her to jump in the shower first, gave her some pjs, and showed her the room with the transformers on the wall. When she was finished, I jumped in the shower and took my sweet time. Guess what!? She crashed and was asleep by the time I got out!  Voila. No Sex.
To bed at about 4 and got her up at 7 for breakfast. "Wanna do some garage sales this morning?" Uhhh.... I have to go home to bed." No fun I tell ya.... She's 38 and already burned out.
I'm not usually that* busy, but it's nice to have fun sometimes. I'm not looking for someone to go hard all night every night, but once or twice a month would be nice. You know... like sex. lol.
Note to mod: please don't ban me for at least a couple weeks. I'm bushed. | |
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| Over 50 And NO Fun !
Posted: 6/10/2008 10:02:58 AM |
they can't take interest in anything that doesn't involve nascar and budweiser
Hey! I am way over 30 and I love NASCAR and BUDWEISER!
As far as the bar scene? If this is what you like, then Party on!
~fly | |
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| Over 50 And NO Fun !
Posted: 6/10/2008 10:42:52 AM | right, Choc! If I go to the trouble to eat light and right, and take walks and excercise w/ weights so I wont have physical problems later, why would I want to get into a relationship w/ someone I may have to give CPR to, or ride in an ambulance with,? besides, he would pry make a big deal of Meals---I eat a salad and call it good..lol
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| Over 50 And NO Fun !
Posted: 6/12/2008 5:14:30 AM | Ms Char
You really don't understand what guys go through round the bars do you. You have no idea?
The guy doesn’t spend an hour and a half preening so that’s some advantage to him. Clean up the car to impress the girls. Then a shower, scrub down, clean teeth and a quick spray with deodorant. Slap on a bit of two year old fashion and he’s ready to go. That’s fine.
The trouble starts when he fronts the bouncers at the front door of the nightspot. Regardless of his fashion tastes some totally cranky bouncer finds some excuse for a beech session. I’ve been barred for wearing the same dress boots as the girls. Hair too long, too short. Western style pendant is not a tie. Polo neck, like Carl Sagan, is not a collar. The list goes on and on as do the bouncers. (A very few current affairs programs have very recently raised this issue of blatant discrimination)
But there’s one thing that no female could ever appreciate here. No female EVER risks serious injury if she tries to enter a night spot when she is wearing the wrong gear, and the bouncer is in a filthy mood. Forget all the feminist preaching about violence against women. The ultra trendy nightspots are where the hospitals get their casualties from on any Saturday and those casualties are exclusively male. And most of this is over something as petty as a pair of shoes.
I’ve only ever heard of one solitary instance where girls have run into trouble like this. Some nightspot was only admitting girls with long blonde hair. Dark haired girls were not admitted but they still weren’t even so much as threatened let alone bashed.
No woman would ever expect another woman to walk down a dark alley, alone, at night, to get to a party, or a boyfriend. Far from it women strongly advise one another against it. Too much risk of violence. But the reality it that a man , facing a bouncer at any night spot runs something like two thousand times the risk of being seriously injured.
And he’s not even past the front door yet!
Once inside everything’s overpriced to the hilt. The girls are looking at him like a patch of pigeon poop on the Queens dress. Bar staff and bouncers alike are decidedly hostile.
But despite this he eventually finds some girl who doesn’t look too hostile so he wanders over and asks if she’d like to dance.
Piss arf ya creep.
This still remains a socially acceptable way of telling a man, “No I don’t want to dance with you, date you, bonk you, marry you etc”. It’s also considered a perfectly acceptable way of saying something like “Ask me again later, preferably with a free drink for me in your hand” These women tell this to countless guys and then wonder why they aren’t getting dates.
The whole idea to telling a guy you’re keen on to “piss arrrff” sounds, and is, insane but the girl, who do it, are doing nothing more than following the advice of countless, relationship bankrupt, girlfriends. These girls are continually telling one another to “Don’t say yes the first time or he will think you’re easy and wont respect you.” And teen girls , all too often do follow such advice like so many sheep.
The reality is a little different.
Namely “NEVER say no if you really mean yes. Because no means no these days. By law! By rape and stalking laws, by nightspot rules, the lot. Even when you mean yes you really mean no whether you like it or not. If you say no, even when you really mean yes, then he won’t respect you, or disrespect you. He will just go looking elsewhere. Firstly, among other girls in the bar. Then, after a few years knockbacks, places outside the bar.
You want a guy? Get yourself a bike and a set of clubs. End of story. | |
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| Over 50 And NO Fun !
Posted: 6/12/2008 5:24:34 AM | ^^ geesh, I wouldn't go near a place like that EVER... nor have I in all my life.
In my opinion, one deserves to have to put up with bullshit when one goes where lots of bullshit is residing.
I find gatherings/events where people are actually smiling real smiles and music is fun and no one feels threatened.
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| Over 50 And NO Fun !
Posted: 6/12/2008 9:00:44 AM | I'm , 54....... I close bars down but I am just there for the music scene..... don't drink in general......
I go to clubs and concerts with my son..My son and I are going to be playing together soon. I don't watch TV at all. I feel like my life is just starting..... Just to many cool things to do. I have to get in shape for one of my avocations. Most women my age around here are just plain trashed and boring.......... my last GF was 24 ( i lied about my age and she wanted to slum with a jazz guy)...You are sort of forced to go younger. | |
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| Over 50 And NO Fun !
Posted: 6/12/2008 3:02:09 PM | Crayonarzz -- that was quite a story! I am amazed to learn that bars are that mean to guys in Austrailia.
I have heard that people are rejected from entry to bars based on appearance in some cities, but never seen it happen in Dallas, Austin, or Houton, Texas.
Don't want to highjack the thread -- but would like to know from the guys -- does this happen in your area?
Do guys get beat up by bouncers just because they do not like their looks in many US cities? Really want to know. | |
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