| Saying I love you
Posted: 2/29/2008 7:57:23 PM | | personally i have an issue saying it...even if i really really mean it its just awkward. to kids...thats different, everytime i talk to my nephew i tell him i love him and if anything happens ill hop on a plane and b there. but to a spouse (or potential spouse) thats different. iono typical guy maybe? | |
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| Saying I love you
Posted: 3/1/2008 4:01:15 PM | Words are wonderful and have their time and place but without actions/behavior behind them they may be just a lip service. Ideally would be nice to have both - words said at the right moment (but not to the point of meaningless overusing) and actions that support those words.
Sadly, in my life I have come across a person or two who had no problem saying the words...Including in front of family and friends, in a very sincere manner. But they also (turned out) had no problem doing something so detrimental to the relationship that it ceased to continue. I have learned to look for true actions and behavior, as opposed for mere words. Talking the talk is good. Walking the walk (genuinely caring, loyalty, respect, compassion etc) in addition to words is true love. JMO | |
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| Saying I love you
Posted: 3/1/2008 4:04:35 PM | But if someone treats you really well then they dont have to say it !
I have lost count of the women who have told me they loved but none did.
Their actions never matched up to their words.
Words are cheap, actions mean everything............ | |
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| Saying I love you
Posted: 3/1/2008 5:06:00 PM | | I have had a guy not say it to me either. His actions did prove otherwise though. And I know they say actions speak louder than words, but it would be nice to hear those 3 words as well...Love is only a 4 letter word, but it means sooooo much more....Maybe you should talk with him again, especially if it is really bothering you. You do have what some women would kill for....He does sounds like a great guy....He's a keeper....Debbie | |
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| Saying I love you
Posted: 3/4/2008 1:10:20 PM | | i dont know many men who have said those words infact only one in my life time maybe it is hard for them i dont know all i know is a women seems to be able to say it more openly men just hug or shrug or sometimes smile herego women are supposed to be psychic and if we ask do you they change the subject or say yeah without actually saying the words i think i've given up now lol | |
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