ndulj
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Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 351 | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/3/2009 8:06:01 PM |
and people mistake this rhetoric as a comprehensive evaluation and viable retort. Cloned to say the least. I think you just screamed to the room that you can't stay on point, need some kind of social vent and are if anything, an extravagance we can all live without. Back to our regularly scheduled forum without buffoonish interruptions or goads to incite fights from misanthropic malcontents.
Malestrome: With all due respect, "methinks ye protest too much." Every post you've entered here is hostile and disrespectful to the point of view of others. You are very clear that your mind is closed. That being the case, why do you continue to subject everyone to this? I was just telling someone that, more than anything else, having to put my ideas into writing has forced me to learn more about myself and it's given me the opportunity to learn from others--to at least consider others' ideas. That is what most of us do in posting--explore ideas which, as a result, helps us redefine or expand our horizons. (Or best of all, just to be entertained--when those posts occur.)
In my experience, when people react angrily and with hostiliity it is because something is striking a nerve in them. I think there is something in this topic that is pushing your personal buttons. What is it is about a simple question about whether or not men like submissive women has your shorts so twisted in a knot? You said way back that you were "so done with this"---so why are you still torturing us? What is with all the sophomoric language---who are you trying to impress? I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I think I'd be doing you a favor my telling you I get a headache trying to read your posts and can barely make it through one paragraph before feeling ill. I bet I'm not the only one. Don't even dare to question my intelligence based on this observation I have made about your writing---I challenge you to look at yourself. There is something about this submission issue that is really bothering you--it seems so obvious. Maybe if you looked within as to why you get so upset, hostile and defensive, it would be a n opportunity for you to discover something about yourself and to grow from it. | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/3/2009 8:25:13 PM |
Who is worse? The one who b!tches or the one who b!tches about the b!tcher b!tching to stop them from b!tching?
GEEEZZZZZ Somebody just shoot me pleeeeezeeeeee! | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/3/2009 9:20:35 PM |
Go out and rule and let's see just how Dominate you are. Women will never rule the earth. And the ruler? Is the Dominate.
It's "dominant".
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/3/2009 10:13:01 PM | Sorry, Malestrome, but it's definately Dominant.
A person is dominant. He/she dominates...
I think you're getting a little carried away with yourself. You do realise you can be wrong, occasionally?  | |
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| Do men really like being acosted by a spelling bee teacher on a forum?
Posted: 6/4/2009 4:57:51 AM | I apologise for upsetting you so much, Malestrome. I was reading this thread and jumped in to agree with BP, much like I probably would in real life.
I think I've got the point: you're a dominant who dominates - big time.
And since you've changed the thread's title, I'm not OT. | |
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ndulj
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Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 357 | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/4/2009 9:38:19 AM | Ok getting back on track here...
I, myself love a submissive woman.
Not to the point where I walk here around like a dog...lol
But the hair pulling and ass slapping is very stimulating. My experience is that older women particularly enjoy being dominated by a younger man. The spankings, forcing her to her kness and the hair pulling all are very hot.
Someone did mention about a woman being in control in all other areas of her life may find it very stimulating to give up that control in the bedroom! | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/4/2009 10:43:12 AM | | Well you look know aggressive he is out in the open, that will normally tell you. There is a point of being too aggressive. Most aggressive guy do enjoy being told how far they can go and then there are dome that just don't care. If you are too submissive then you will not get any fulfilment. He will get his and you will be left high and dry. | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/4/2009 1:16:40 PM |
Who is worse? The one who b!tches or the one who b!tches about the b!tcher b!tching to stop them from b!tching?
GEEEZZZZZ Somebody just shoot me pleeeeezeeeeee!
lol soulfoodwanted | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/4/2009 2:11:11 PM |
I apologise for upsetting you so much, Malestrome. I was reading this thread and jumped in to agree with BP, much like I probably would in real life.
I think I've got the point: you're a dominant who dominates - big time.
And since you've changed the thread's title, I'm not OT.
Sheesh, FriendlyFreeSpirit, you are sooooooooooo submissive!!!!
Do you find that men respond to that? | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/4/2009 2:24:49 PM | ^^Yes, by abusing me...
I'm not at all submissive, but I've known a few "dominates" (sic). A man who is sexually dominant doesn't have to bully. In fact, bullying is the antithesis of a true sexual Dominant. A bully (in real life) tends to run fast if someone stands up to him or her. In other words, they're cowards and, instead of gaining trust and respect, would fill any true sub with utter contempt. (Of course, on PoF, these wanna-be Doms just endlessly rant and abuse from the safety of their basement.)  | |
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| Do men really like being acosted by a spelling bee teacher on a forum?
Posted: 6/4/2009 8:48:00 PM |
I apologise for upsetting you so much, Malestrome. I was reading this thread and jumped in to agree with BP, much like I probably would in real life.
Awww..... 
@FriendlyFreeSpirit: in case any doofus wants to beat you to a pulp, I've got your back, sweetie ;) | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/4/2009 8:59:12 PM | | A dominant male is usually an alpha male. The reason they are really hard to find is because most alpha males prefer alpha females. So in order to attract the dominant male, you should be dominant yourself. What you do behind closed doors is entirely up to you, but alphas will dominate when it comes to that. In order to attract the fire, you have to add fuel to it. Get it? | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/4/2009 9:04:49 PM | In my experience, most men desire submissive women. I think it's something about asserting their dominance but it could be something deeper that I do not understand.
Being a strong woman and strong willed, many men have had difficulty with me. I do not have a good submissive personality. Rather, I like to see myself as his equal because , well...I AM!
But yes, I think men are much more afraid of women like me than subs. When a guy is really bent on dominating a woman, he'll even rape her to make sure she gets it.
I know...sadly | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/4/2009 9:21:12 PM |
In my experience, most men desire submissive women. I think it's something about asserting their dominance but it could be something deeper that I do not understand.
Being a strong woman and strong willed, many men have had difficulty with me. I do not have a good submissive personality. Rather, I like to see myself as his equal because , well...I AM!
But yes, I think men are much more afraid of women like me than subs. When a guy is really bent on dominating a woman, he'll even rape her to make sure she gets it.
I know...sadly
Truly, I meant no disrespect. And i like to think that you had proved my point, how alpha males are attracted to alpha females, and vice versa. But, of course, i didnt realize that there are some truly disreputable and disgusting males out there. My fault for not realizing that when i wrote that. I stand corrected. | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/5/2009 12:44:58 AM | | I love being dominated, probably even more than most women. I don't find it that hard to find a guy. I think that guys think that they will scare women off if they are dominant. If you are sleeping with someone, just lead them into it. If they follow chances are they are turned on by it, if not then you know. Other than that, straight out asking them if it's something they are interested in is probably your best bet. | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/5/2009 2:35:21 AM | | I sort of like a dominant woman. Dont get me wrong, I'm not looking for a dominatrix, but someone that likes being pampered... since i sorta like doing things like giving massages, and doing things for her to please her. But high maintenance women are unattractive. | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/5/2009 11:00:40 AM |
I sort of like a dominant woman. Dont get me wrong, I'm not looking for a dominatrix, but someone that likes being pampered... since i sorta like doing things like giving massages, and doing things for her to please her. But high maintenance women are unattractive.
Most interesting about this thread (and indeed much of the Forums) are the misconceptions. Your description isn't of a dominant woman. D/s involves a predefined description of the power structure, within relationships.
The idea is that when control is predetermined, the relationship runs smoothly. Problems involving who is going to make final decisions are avoided. The power struggle is over.
Women are high maintenance by virtue of their very nature. If you want proof, look in her purse.
Those things you enjoy doing for a woman that are truly caring for her, pampering her, putting her on a pedestal, cherishing, treasuring, nurturing, protecting, would be done by you for a Domme, because you allow her the control to tell you to do them; or for a submissive, because you have the power to do them.
This might lead you to conclude that it makes no difference who is in control, because the way to handle a woman is to do those things that make her feel loved.
And, you would be right. But it makes most sense for you to be in control, because that loving you provide moves her into her emotional mind center and you into your logical mind.
And, guiding a relationship is best done using logic. | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/5/2009 9:19:29 PM | When I think of doms, I always think of Pulp Fiction, the wussies in the basement. Perhaps I have a misconception about them.
I don't mind following a man's lead, but I have an extremely hard time not participating. I am not into S&M at all, so spanking, forget it. I only recall one guy doing that and he wore bikini underpants.
So from my experience, that I am finding may not be as wild as I thought, I didn't think men wanted that much of a submissive woman. I still remember my first fiance saying that he loved that I was a lady in public and a wild woman in the bedroom. | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/9/2009 10:59:48 PM | I'm a dominant male, I'm not a Dom though. I love to get kinky and take control but that whole, "slavegirl-master" shit is BS. I generally make all the decisions but I love to give over control or tasks. I like a submissive in the bedroom and when I shop for her. I don't like a woman to tell me I can't buy her $1000. shoes or her feeling uncomfortable about dining out and spending up to $600. on dinner. I've been known to date multiples of women because I don't want to hear from from any particular one.
I've read the books, I know some pretty wealthy Doms who have enlightened me to certain things but I like my style. | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 6/10/2009 2:01:59 AM | my idea of a submissive is a woman in thigh high black leather boots, a black leather slave collar with spikes, hands cuffed behind her back, bent over in front of me with her head pulled back by her hair, totally trusting and at my mercy knowing full well that i'm going to use her in any way i desire.............. yes i luuuuuuuuuuuuuurve submissive women.
i need a cold shower now  | |
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