| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 10/2/2009 11:26:49 AM | | bottom line...yes. men like to be in control of their families. contrary to all the talk that we have to be sensitive. who in the F#ck wants a sensitive guy that cannot make decisions? an aggressive woman is fun to bed but not in a relationship. men are competitive by nature, last thing we want is to compete with our wives. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2009 11:13:42 AM | | I am with you on this one..To have my hair pulled an my ass slapped is the ultimate turn on. But dont want be be hurt. | |
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Posted: 10/10/2009 7:13:46 PM | I came into this conversation a little late. However, in scanning the posts, it doesn't appear as if anyone has mentioned that the true power in a D/s relationship rests with the one who is submissive. Ergo, if a woman is submissive to a man, she is the one who holds the real power in the relationship.
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Posted: 10/10/2009 9:09:07 PM |
. . it doesn't appear as if anyone has mentioned that the true power in a D/s relationship rests with the one who is submissive. Ergo, if a woman is submissive to a man, she is the one who holds the real power in the relationship.
It's been mentioned several time, I believe. I think it was last mentioned on 9-16-09, in post #390, by lifeinart.
No matter. It can't be overstated; especially in a place where very few understand the advantages of defining power flow in relationships.
I mean, I'm just saying . .
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Posted: 10/10/2009 10:34:06 PM | Do men really like submissive women? I haven't had complaints about my natural submissive nature, so I'd have to say that at least some of them not only like us, they prefer us. It's probably just another personal preference.  | |
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Posted: 10/11/2009 6:29:32 AM | I believe the desire for women to be submissive is a personal preference. Personally, I thoroughly enjoy my special Angel's being submissive. As it has been mentioned here already, it defines our roles in our relationship.
A lady's being submissvie by no means, means that she is weak. A submissive submits because they choose to, not because they were forced to. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2009 6:48:08 PM | | I perfer neither submissive or dominance I perfer mutual. I perfer full communication by her as well as myself. Radical concept to some I know but really much more natural. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2009 9:14:37 PM | Oh, yeah baby, do you think it only happens in the bedroom?
I am sure this has been stated before. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2009 10:34:15 PM | | dominant/submissive is such a boring, one-sided relationship. i prefer a power sharing one, where there is a give and take, and up and down, a constantly fluid dynamic. that's exciting. that keeps my attention. | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 10/12/2009 1:40:20 AM | To answer the OP...some men do.
My problem is more that I'm dominant outside of the bedroom and only sexually submissive, and only sexually submissive with the right man. I've been "accused" of "topping from the bottom" with some dominant wannabe's that just don't get it. Very rarely, in fact only once in my whole life to date have I actually found a man that I feel I respect enough to completely submit to. This means that every other sexual encounter has been where I've assumed some dominance, which hurts my soul and leaves me depressed and cold. Now I am chaste rather than put myself through this any more.
I can relate somewhat to the OP though. The BDSM scene, although fun, has a finite lifespan for most that enter into it. That's not where I'm looking, as with anything, fanatics are boring. This is not what my life is about and with any scene, be it swinging, BDSM e.t.c. it can be a bit like that, you tend to find people there that generally are into D/s as a lifestyle and are also looking for women who are totally submissive, the 24/7 type.
I'll take my chances in the big bad world outside, the first kiss is the only way for me to tell now. This is the make or break point. It's difficult cutting someone off when I realise, at that first kiss, that we are not suited that way, but I'd rather do this and make a polite exit before going any further - than put myself through any more sexual experiences where I end up exerting some kind of dominance.
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 11/4/2009 8:33:51 PM | | In my case, yes, I do like submissive women, not necessarily in bed though, but I like to feel that I am the man of the house and to feel responsible for the security and wellbeing of my family. | |
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| Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 11/5/2009 9:59:11 AM | Yes, I get it, NSAB.
My previous GF was similar.....fairly assertive and even passively controling outside the bdroom, but SO longing to be submissive and reliquish complete control inside with the right man. She introduced me to D/s behavior and coincidently (or not) she was also an Aries AND a Civil Engineer....go figure....very exacting and demanding with respect to her professional career.
Anyway, your feelings are understandable and a BDSM lifestyle would be too over the top for me as well. Find the man you are attracked to and are sure you can respect.....through conventional dating methods, etc....then simply groom him to accomodate the level of submission you desire. You're an attractive and intersting girl-shouldn't be that hard. I would think any guy that cares for you and is attracted to you would gladly get with the program. I know I did.......without the slightest hesitation. | |
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