| threesome etiquette
Posted: 3/7/2008 11:04:15 AM | | But honestly, if you are going to keep these things private don't you think they'll come out in the wash eventually? Why not wear 'em on your sleeve, or profile, and if someone sees them they can assess you with more info then, instead of liking you only to find out two months later that you are into some weird, kinky fetish. | |
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Kazoom
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Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 52 | |
| threesome etiquette
Posted: 3/7/2008 12:06:32 PM | There is something WRONG! with this shit topic...
My point of veiw, is that I was at one time with a woman into this kind of crap in her past...
These kind of women/men are no good and I have no respect for people like this... who the fricken hell would want a woman/man in there life as a partner that was ever into this even in the past. How do you trust a person like this, what kind of morals do these people have... they DO have screwed up morals and can not be trusted. Can you imagime finding out about something like this after it was to late to do anything about it... like having a kid with some one like this?, to me it almost ranks up there with finding out your partner was a pedo in the past.
Speaking for myself, oh ya what a nice feeling it would be to know the person you fell in love with liked to get banged by 2 sausages at once, man what a catch a chic like that would be. I am sure it would awesome feeling to let your best friend hang out at your home with your partner when you go off the work eh! lol. talk about sloppy seconds eh. I think the next step after a 3 some gets boring or old would be to try a 10/15 person gang bang. I bet loving your partner afterwards would have a whole new meaning after that lol. Hey I don't know but maybe doing animals after that would be the next step?
That being said, I think mmf etiquette wise there should be a discusion on which guy will be paying for child support and which guy will be changing diapers if someone accidentally gets knocked up lol. I guess setting seperate time aside for each partner won't be an issue.
What I have learned the hard way is these type of people are dead inside physicly and mentaly... I hope this post will be of help to some of you.
MSG26 , m church, you got it... hit the nail on the head.
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| threesome etiquette
Posted: 3/7/2008 12:25:25 PM | Kazoon,
Wow, you must have a constant headache from looking at life through a proverbial telescope. If its not your bag of tricks that is alright. To each their own. But how dare you chastise others for being more open or having a different lifestyle? And we aren't talking about open marriages or anything like that here! To some a threesome is still a fantasy. To others its a fond memory, and a stroke off the to-do list in life. And then there are some that say no way in hell. If I was in a relationship with someone I highly doubt I'd be interested in sharing. I want just one. But if I'm single or casually dating and the opportunity comes up you bet your bottom dollar I'm going to consider it! Does that make me morally corrupt? Fcuk no.
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Nergal,
According to the bible about 97% of us on this site are going to hell, because we've engaged in pre-marital sex or extra-marital affairs. Isn't sodomy an extension of a sin as well? Be it greed, lust or gluttony! Having a threesome would also classify as coveting your neighbour's wife in a roundabout way. | |
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| threesome etiquette
Posted: 3/7/2008 12:38:06 PM | kazoon, maybe u should read all the posts before u judge people, i mean really, who are u to say wuts right and wrong, and jus because i have had a threesum im not a keeper, or i dont deserve a boyfriend or to be in love, all people have pasts, and i checked ur profile, u dont even wanna be in a relationship or even date, ur on here for a friend, which is cool, but keep and open non judgemental attitude or ur not gonna make any
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Nergal
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Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 55 | |
| threesome etiquette
Posted: 3/7/2008 12:42:22 PM | | I have had plenty of 3somes in the past, and more, and all with consenting adults .. According to the Christians I'm going to Hell but thats ok I've heard 3somes are a regular thing ... I think some people who come out strongly opposed do so because they just never get the chance and its not judging, its jealousy ... | |
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Kazoom
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Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 56 | |
| threesome etiquette
Posted: 3/7/2008 12:53:46 PM | Wow how do I reply to these 3 posts, I can't, ...I wish you the best and I really truly hope you find some nice wonderfull 3 somes.
Like I said I have been around/friends in the past with these kind of people ( strippers) and I found none of them were any good in the long run. | |
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| threesome etiquette
Posted: 3/7/2008 1:30:47 PM | | im all for threesomes.. with a man and another girl.. or 2 men.. whatever.. but my only rule, is that i wont do it with someone i am in a relationship with. id be hurt if someone i loved even suggested it. it would change everything for me. | |
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jf468
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Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 58 | |
| threesome etiquette
Posted: 3/7/2008 1:38:02 PM | | I had 1 thressome with 2 other men. It was fun. None of us were in a serious relationship at the time. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2008 1:53:14 PM | | That's a big generalization Kazoom....that strippers MUST be into kinky shit like threesomes. I know a couple dancers from years back and I was really surprised when I sat and got to know them outside of a club that they were more than a pretty face and a hot bod. They weren't into casual sex. I think a lot of the dancers out there aren't into wild stuff BECAUSE of their trade. They deal with jerkoffs and douche bags every day at work that want to masturbate onto their leg or have them kiss the next girl. The last thing they probably want is to go home with the clients and their friends! And none of us have said we're out there looking for threesomes. You talk a big talk but tell me if two gorgeous girls approached you in a bar and chatted you up, and at the end of the conversation asked you back to their place you'd HONESTLY say no thanks? | |
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| threesome etiquette
Posted: 3/7/2008 2:01:43 PM | oh I am sure he was not thinking of that one deuce..lol.....I don't know any man at all that would past that up if they were not in a relationship......That is every mans fantasy!!....At least the men who are not boring in bed... | |
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Kazoom
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Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 61 | |
| threesome etiquette
Posted: 3/7/2008 5:03:48 PM | Oh man lol, I know a lot more about this topic than you experts think... I have had to deal with this situation as I have said above (you must have missed that). You 3 some fans just keep on talking about your "threesome etiquette". 
btw, I did pass. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2008 5:14:15 PM | yeah the only reason he passed is cuz how could he bring back 2 chicks to his place, cumon uve seen his profile, he needs a cleanin woman, on the other hand he has a dog and an alligator, vualla! threesum, kazoom u need to chill out this is 2008 not 1940 are u serious, u know ur ass would take home two hot chicks in a second, so if u passed it was cuz u was never asked BE SERIOUS
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Kazoom
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Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 63 | |
| threesome etiquette
Posted: 3/7/2008 5:27:53 PM | LOL I just noticed this edit... I just love this post... well said lol.
I was born into roman catholicisim but I do not believe in god, hell, or whatever anymore, I do however believe that these teachings were said for humans to live with some type of dignity and decency, a code of conduct if you will, so they don't act like animals.
According to the bible about 97% of us on this site are going to hell, because we've engaged in pre-marital sex or extra-marital affairs. Isn't sodomy an extension of a sin as well? Be it greed, lust or gluttony! Having a threesome would also classify as coveting your neighbour's wife in a roundabout way.
Sorry, I guess I am waisting my time here. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2008 5:32:08 PM | oh so your the 3% that is not going to hell Kazoom..lol........first of all it was just a question the op asked.......you really should be more open minded maybe you would be happier instead of coming across so angry at everyone........enjoy life and the experiences it has to offer..and never judge anyone like you are doing now..... | |
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Posted: 3/8/2008 12:49:32 AM | DID HE REALLY JUS SAY WE ARE ALL GOIN TO HELL, lmao omg this shit is 2 funny
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Posted: 3/8/2008 1:48:11 AM | | Before i married the woman i am now divorcing for cheating on me . my girl friend and i had many a night with other guys no gay thing just very open minded sex which was mainly instigated by my girlfriend .we enjoyed the company of a couple of my friends who were brothers and the sex was mind blowing. nothing compares to watching your girlfriend been seen to by other guys we did this many times and loved every minute .we also did the ggb 3some and much more so in your question .if you enjoy sex and can find a girl or guy you can trust go for it ground rules do make for a great experience my ex was totaly trust worthy in as much as i could leave her in the company of the 2 brothers and nothing would go on. you could say we had a pact as long as we trust and respect each other we can have all the sexy fun you could wish for . wish id of never left her.ps you americans make most of the porn in the world and a large part is bbg so no its not real but its not gay either just do in and enjoy | |
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| Observations
Posted: 3/8/2008 1:51:01 AM | From msg 52
These kind of women/men are no good and I have no respect for people like this... who the fricken hell would want a woman/man in there life as a partner that was ever into this even in the past. How do you trust a person like this, what kind of morals do these people have... they DO have screwed up morals and can not be trusted. Can you imagime finding out about something like this after it was to late to do anything about it... like having a kid with some one like this?, to me it almost ranks up there with finding out your partner was a pedo in the past.
You have admitted some of your perceived failings (strippers, etc). Are your morals screwed up and can not be trusted? Or would you say you've made some decisions in the past you regret, but are trying to live the right life now?
I appreciate your experiences with women have been negative, but would you say some of that negativity comes from your own behaviors? What if one of those women of your past made a derogatory comment about you? Would you say that was then but this is now? Would you allow them to make that same statement?
You have three daughters with you, and as of this post you have porn listed as one of your interests. Is that consistent with your current morality? Or does that come under being an honorable guy/man/pig?
Just wondering ... Bob | |
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Kazoom
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Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 68 | |
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Posted: 3/8/2008 8:12:33 AM | You have admitted some of your perceived failings (strippers, etc). Are your morals screwed up and can not be trusted? Or would you say you've made some decisions in the past you regret, but are trying to live the right life now?
I appreciate your experiences with women have been negative, but would you say some of that negativity comes from your own behaviors? What if one of those women of your past made a derogatory comment about you? Would you say that was then but this is now? Would you allow them to make that same statement?
You have three daughters with you, and as of this post you have porn listed as one of your interests. Is that consistent with your current morality? Or does that come under being an honorable guy/man/pig?
Just wondering ... Bob
Hi there bob... way to go baiting me with my kids (kind of a low life thing to do) but hey thats ok, I am done with work and got a 6pack of pivo here and some time to kill so ...I will play,...I will bite... just got a few other post comments to make first and I will get back to you...
msg 59... douche my buddy(joke), I can't comment on jerking off on a pealers leg because I have never heard of this, maybe you can fill me in?, but anyway you must be right, strippers are upstanding citizens and all that is good and moral in our world, we should all look up to them for there contribution to the world... thats why they are strippers/pealers right? because they are... "more than a pretty face and a hot bod"lol.
msg 64-65, OH LADYS! ...I think my engrish must not be so good so i will do a test... TESTING TESTING ...
"I do not believe in god, hell, or whatever " ... so I am just wondering where you fine women got this "going to hell crap from"?
Hi there bob, ...ok since you were trying to psycho analize my profile, lets see what we can find with your post...
first paragraph... well bob my decisions were made based on what I thought was honesty and the truth, which I found out was not the case when it was to late to do much about it. Yes this was my fault because I should of dug deeeper in her past but I had some****head friends telling me that her past did not matter, none of my business, only what she does with me lol, so I thought I would take a chance becaue these****heads made me feel bad for digging, in which, yes I do regret not digging more in hindsight. Bob I have always try to lead the "right life'' for me... my croatian/bunjevac blood line tells me to.
paragraph two... yes bob for some reason I can't help it... I seems to be/me that I am the guy that always picks up that stray dog on the street corner because I feel sorry for it and what to give it something better only for it to piss on my leg or bite me in the end. I guess this is my fate in life. Bob we can't change the past, what happened ... happend, it will alway be there ( if you cut someones head off you can't put it back on). " derogatory comment " wise I do not remember saying seeing anything in my posts before specifically about my x but now that you mention it, I do feel bad, sorry for her, I always have. She was victomised when she was very young, theres nothing I can do for her, got/had to let her go, as much as I am/was mad at her I am still more majorly F... pissed off at her POS parents. Nothing I can do. I walk the line of whats right and wrong for me in my life so if anyone in my past wants to make a "statement" I have no issue with it.
paragraph three... AH!!! my kids the best part of my mess I made lol... thank you bob.
well lets see... being that I am a male and I have balls (tostestarone) which means I HAVE to jack off to think straight as YOU do (if you are male Bob) I really don't see any issue with it because its only for me and NOT for my kids. Looking at womens porn VS pics of men, cows and pigs just don't cut it for me bob. So it really it has NOTHING! to do with my kids does it BOB.
The last thing I can say about this topic ... unless LOL, I get baited in again about my mother, blood line or dog/gator is for the women that may read this that are thinking about it to... Think, Think, Think, use your brain.
well I do have more to say but my 6pack is gone and I think I am hammered, I think I got to take a crap/pinch/drop a log/pinch a loaf... wow i think i a can spell prety god a so I smell you latter.
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Posted: 3/10/2008 6:46:59 AM | Okay gals I think we need to cut Mr. Kaboom some slack here....I don't think he was insisting that we were all going to hell or that he was in the 3% that was technically going based on righteousness. He lists a mortal sin in his short list of interests on his profile. If he DOES believe this and I'm a fool and just giving him the benefit of the doubt it'll be he who has to answer later on, right?
I give you props dude. In two months on this site I've been WAITING for a douche remark. Well done my friend. Well done. I'm not a fan of strippers. Boobs are boobs, and unless I can touch I'm not really interested or that turned on. And to sit and pay ridiculous amounts of money for beer only to listen to revved up horndogs scream and hoot and pound the row seems ludicrous to me. I'd rather go to a lounge and look at girls who are well dressed. But I briefly dated a waitress in an a gentleman's club many moons ago and we remained friends long after. She told me all sorts of stories of the things guys would say and do. And one of the common requests was if the guy would masturbate in front of her while she watched him and could he cum on her for effect. Sounds pretty messed up to me but to each their own. Some people like feet. Some people like feces apparently. I never said they were the wholesome bunch that supersede all that is wrong with this world. But I don't think they are the bottom-feeding fickle beings that many make them out to be. I'm sure there are a small population of them that are dirty and raunchy but many of them have children and do it to put themselves through college or to make a better life for themselves and let's face it the money is better than most anything they can do with or without a college degree.
Porn is porn. Most people look at it at some point in their lives and none of us can lament a guy or gal for liking it. And I'm sure this guy isn't sitting on his laptop wanking off to it in surround sound while his kids are watching Hannah Montana or whatever age-appropriate stuff they are into. I'm SURE he's doing it, in surround sound (because let's face it what's porn without the 3D effect people!!! LOL) (I'm only joking here btw), while the kids are either out or asleep like most parents. | |
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| Sausage Vs. Taco
Posted: 3/10/2008 9:13:51 AM | To OP,
Sounds like you are more into Sausage than Taco. Stick to your guns refuse to eat at Taco Bell . . . besides that yippy little dog look like a short haired rat! Have a couple of plump smokey links on me. Cheers!  | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 11:12:57 AM | CAPTFUN, wtf are u talkin about? i prefered havin the threesum with another woman not a man, so i guess u havent read my post to its entirety.....anyway, wtf is bbg and ggb, im lost guys?
duece, i think u may be right, and we should cut him some slack, but im just sayin i dont think of myself as a ho or not a keeper cuz of a mistake i made in my past, u feel me???
im seriously lookin for a commited relationship without a man who wants a threesum u feel me? so because i made a mistake which i totally admit it being a mistake its kind of judging me u know????
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Posted: 3/10/2008 11:19:42 AM | I don't think the fact that you had a threesome or 6 or whatever number is a mistake 4Realgurl! It means you are open-minded and adventurous and had some fun in your life. It's not like you were married and running off getting tag-teamed by a pair of dudes you met in the bar one night with your girlfriends while your hubby sat at home eating chips and watching tv. Why do you call it a mistake? Is there something I'm missing here?
Oh, and I didn't see reference to bbg or ggf but I'm going to go on a limb and say it's the same thing as mmf or mff. Boy boy girl, girl girl boy. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 12:02:19 PM | yeah that makes sence, i was thinkin for a minute it was g=gay b= bi, i was thinkin and was like how would that even work,
the only reason it was a mistake duece is because it was with my x who we were 2gether and lived 2 gether for 7 years, it ruined the feelings i had for him, like the fact that he wanted to share me, so it kinda broke us up, especially since a year down the road he started bangin the chick who did this with us on the side u feel me????
only reason i call it a mistake
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| threesome etiquette
Posted: 3/10/2008 12:35:11 PM | I must say this is intresting topic personaly i have had three ways in both areas but there diffrece was the boundries ... the ggb ,there were non ,it was on ,anything went ..as far as the relationship was concerned we were together 10 years its was the standard for us "understand the girls were bi thats a big help to the guy keeps things going never any down time ".
Now the bbg situation there were no commitments on any part and at no time was the attention taken off the women "no sword fighting involed " . But it always turned in to a competition who could drill longer lol not as fun
i really believe the bottom line here is if you are willing to find yourself in any of the experiences and all parties know the boundries then stay within them and enjoy yourself .
Unless your life style accomodates this type of sexual behavior to happen on a consistant basis then enjoy the time you have because it just might never happen again in your life and i would say everyone should try it at least one time ...
P.S. And if you think your gonna feel dirty then you need to work that out befor you get in there. Why go in at all if your only going to kick tires and and not get the most out of it , know what you want befor you get there ........ | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 12:46:11 PM | | I was and aalways wanted to have a threesome with two women. Unfortunitely it has never happened to date. That said I have had a three some with one girl and a friend of mine but my friend and I knew going in you are on one end of the girl and I'm on the other. I didn't put my face or mouth anywhere near any location that was visited by his penis. We had a good time though. After some petting I went down on her before any penis could get near her. Then I put it in her while she went down on my buddy. All three of us were satisfied. If it was another girl on the other hand I could have made an evening out of it. | |
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