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Posted: 3/10/2008 12:52:34 PM | | I was and always wanted to have a threesome with two women. Unfortunitely it has never happened to date. That said I have had a three some with one girl and a friend of mine but my friend and I knew going in you are on one end of the girl and I'm on the other. I didn't put my face or mouth anywhere near any location that was visited by his penis. We had a good time though. After some petting I went down on her before any penis could get near her. Then I put it in her while she went down on my buddy. All three of us were satisfied. If it was another girl on the other hand I could have made an evening out of it. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 1:52:34 PM | | Pretty sure most guys would prefer two ladies and themselves, after all, then they can play with both other people. But... For some guys they take a fair amount of pleasure in a woman being REALLY enjoyed, so two guys would work for that. Two different kinds of pleasure for the guy in those two cases. In one, he is getting alot of pleasure for himself, in the other he gets the pleasure of seeing his lady enjoy. Both good pleasures but different. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 2:05:25 PM | """id like to know what men think about another man with their woman while they are involved as well? of would it make it better if it was 2 women, i know men crave 2 women but would any of u men or have any of u men had a threesome with another man involved just to say or feel u fuflilled sum sick fantasy"""
Then I say gor for a fouresome to fulfill sum sick cum filled sticky fantasy. I'd even just watch if I could pee on everyone when they aren't looking. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 5:34:30 PM | While it's only my opinion, I believe I am fairly tolerant when someone tries to explain what they believe. I don't fault kazoom for mistakes in his past, I certainly have exceeded my quota.
In fact, I apologize to kazoom for bringing up his children, I could have made the porn comment without it.
Statements (various) that motivatived my post during insomnia where:
There is something WRONG! with this shit topic...
These kind of women/men are no good and I have no respect for people like this
How do you trust a person like this, what kind of morals do these people have... they DO have screwed up morals and can not be trusted
What I have learned the hard way is these type of people are dead inside physicly and mentaly
Like I said I have been around/friends in the past with these kind of people ( strippers) and I found none of them were any good in the long run
I was born into roman catholicisim but I do not believe in god, hell, or whatever anymore, I do however believe that these teachings were said for humans to live with some type of dignity and decency, a code of conduct if you will, so they don't act like animals.
These statements seemed to me to be more about degrading others, moreso than explaining his position. After all his morality talk of others, it seemed inconsistent to list porn as an interest. I'm not against him stating his opinions, why does he have to berate others to do it?
Once again, I apologize for mentioning your children, that was wrong of me.
Bob | |
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Posted: 3/11/2008 12:10:57 AM | | I think what it all comes down to with the man always wanting 2 women is that they are afraid (including me) that if it is another man he might be a better sexual parter. So that now whenever you two have sex alone she might be thinking of him instead. Thats how I usually feel when I think about it anyway. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2008 6:38:32 AM | Dreamerdude,
That is likely age, inexperience, and all the insecurities and self-esteem issues that come with each. Once you get a bit older and more experienced and you come into yourself sexually there's not much that can break your stride. I consider myself a pretty good lover and I know a fair bit about the subject if I may speak humbly here. But if I was to get involved in another threesome and it happened to be with another man and he had twice the meat pack I have I wouldn't worry one bit about it. My closest male friend is hung like a moose and he loves to show it off. He makes fun of most guys because they aren't blessed like he is, but I just smirk and say I know his prowess and I'd rather be average with d!ck for days than be packing heat with rubber bullets and a hare trigger, if you know what I mean! All he returns with is "well at least my c0ck is bigger". And?! Someday that attitude will suddenly change my friend. And it's a great day when you no longer have to worry about whether the next woman you date and end up in bed with will think you are a stud or a dud. You will just know the answer. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2008 7:11:11 AM |
Then I say gor for a fouresome to fulfill sum sick cum filled sticky fantasy. I'd even just watch if I could pee on everyone when they aren't looking.
Did someone sneak in a dubious fantasy ??? | |
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Posted: 3/18/2008 6:51:20 PM | guess it all depends on the individuals- where I'm from theres something wrong about 2 men being in the same bed,,,,under any circumstance,,,,,but one guy and 2 women- erotic,,,,, ,,not that im kissing and telling,,,,,, | |
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Posted: 3/18/2008 6:54:18 PM | | and thats a chance you will have to be willing to take----if you want to "play" | |
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Posted: 3/18/2008 7:03:52 PM | | to me it dont really matter having done it both ways as long as everyone is down what does it matter of course thats just me i even have a wingman for the ladies who like to try 2 guys | |
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Posted: 3/18/2008 11:08:58 PM | | I have always wanted to try it with my bf and another guy but he's not comfortable with another guy having sex with me in front of him (or behind his back of course). However I don't mind having a threesome with another girl it works for me in many different ways......so we prefer to have a girl in our threesome, it's something we're both comfortable with. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2008 10:22:29 AM | | I would very much like to be part of a FFM threeways as well as a MMF threeway. I consider myself straight but the thought of watching her with another guy is a turn on. I don't think I would touch him but hell in the heat of the matter who knows. | |
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Posted: 3/25/2008 8:10:30 AM | | It is definitely a homophobic response. Most guys think that a threesome has to involve all parties doing each other, and not two people pleasuring a single person. My lover and I have been talking about threesomes for a couple months now and we've both been really excited about the idea. I have offered to her many times that if she were to do a FFM threesome that I wouldn't mind a MMF threesome if she wanted it. I am a straight male, totally secure with my masculinity, and I would actually like to see her with another guy, but she has turned me down several times. Her reasoning is she likes women too much too, and wouldn't want another man. | |
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Posted: 3/25/2008 11:56:20 AM | | I lived with a man for 12 years. We tried both ways. Usually didn't work but as time went on, sometimes it did. Once, by bf told me that this girl was hot for me and blah, blah. So, I said ok. Turned out he must have told her the same thing. Man what a liar! She looked at me like I was some wacked out lesbian and she didn't want nothing to do with me. Good thing - I just slipped out of the picture. Couple of years later, he told me another girl was hot for me. I expected the same thing but guess what, that time he was telling the truth and well, I tried...I kissed her, touched a little, but then I guess I just grossed out or something. She had a wonderful time, though. We usually had another man. There was never any gay or bi-sexual activities going on that I could ever tell. Usually, my bf would just watch most the time, then he'd take over. | |
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Joined: 10/30/2006
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Posted: 3/25/2008 1:09:41 PM | | It isn't unusual for a man to want to watch two women go down on each other. Just look at the porn industry. If your boyfriend asks you to do it and it isn't your type of activity, tell him you'll do it when he does it with another man. That should end the topic real fast if he's only straight. (Now if you THINK he's straight and he quickly agrees to get wild with another guy, you have another issue to deal with, lol.) | |
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Posted: 3/25/2008 1:21:33 PM | I WOULD NEVER EVER EVER EVER IN MY LIFE HAVE A THREESOME .
Call me a prude , but honestly , if i have a partner that i am sleeping with , obviously i think he is worth sleeping with . If i feel the urge to sleep with someone else , than obviously its time to move out of that relationship.
Call me old fashioned but i prefer the male on female , committed relationship to a wild tryst with several . Maybe it is cause i am from hickville but it makes me sick to think about threesomes. It just seems selfish and sooooooo not gratifying unless you are a sex fiend who doenst know what real good sex is all about anyways .
Its called intimacy , respect , emotional attachment and committment .
None of those = not getting into this girl . | |
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Posted: 4/13/2008 6:13:36 PM | If I was in a relationship with a woman based on love and trust and she shared a fantasy that she had involving 2 guys, why not go for it? If you really trust her, there's nothing to worry about. The other guy is just like a vibrator or "prop."
People worry too much about being labeled.
"I'm a slut because a woman isn't supposed to do 2 men at once"
"I'm gay because I was in a 3some with a woman and another guy"
"I'm a lesbian because I was in a FMF 3some"
I feel like people should stop worrying and do what they want. As long as you and your partner are both comfortable and no one is being victimized, why not? | |
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Posted: 4/13/2008 6:25:40 PM |
i would like to ask about something that me and my friends are talkin about right now, is it ok to say, like or want a threesome with another woman and man if ur a straight woman, and do women really have a preference to if the third party is male or female, in the same aspect...do men who want a threesome automatically expect a woman to know it HAS TO, MUST BE, with another woman and not a man?
id like to know what men think about another man with their woman while they are involved as well? of would it make it better if it was 2 women, i know men crave 2 women but would any of u men or have any of u men had a threesome with another man involved just to say or feel u fuflilled sum sick fantasy?
Unless it's explicitly stated otherwise, I think it should always be generally assumed that if a guy wants a threesome, he wants another woman involved. Most guys don't want another guy in the picture.
That being said, me and my best guy friend have often joked about double stuffing a girl, but it's not something we ever seriously planned.
The only threesomes I've ever had have been with two girls. And it's the only way I'd seriously ever do it again. Having another guy in the picture does nothing for me. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 1:10:42 PM | By the amount of people l see on POF who are strictly look for a threesome, l would say there are a lot of interest in this subject. For those of you who have tried it you know the feeling when your done having all that fun. It leaves you wondering for a longtime about what you just did. I have tried both ways mfm, fmf, a lot more fun with two females all l can say but also you do have to be able to perform, so it is rather rewarding that aspect if you have the ability to please both females. But if you bring your wife into the picture make sure you pay close attention to HER more then the other woman or all hell will break loose when you least expect it.....
I honestly think it is not for everyone, many feelings do get hurt by this type of involvement, it certainly can lead to break ups. The thing the blows me away is the amount of people who are looking for another man to join him and his wife on here, it seems to be increasing more and more, not sure if any other members have notice this at all. Would l share my wife another man, yes it would not really bother me at all we have talked about it many times and have enjoyed it before also so, it all boils down to who you are and how confident you are about it...............BUT FOR MOST PEOPLE NOT FOR THEM, or they get cold feet at the last second............this also really happens more time then you can imagine.........sometimes the best threesome are in your imagination and perhaps that is far as you will go.................good luck!!!!! | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 4:55:11 PM | | sometimes you feel like a 3-some, sometimes you don't..lol this is not for everyone, but there are those that enjoy it. communication can't be stressed enough..if you both cannot communicate very effectively this is not for you. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 5:01:53 PM | "I've always heard men say they'll ONLY do a threesome if they are in the MINORITY. 2 b@lls, 4 walls, right?"
Exactly. This is the way it is 99% of the time, because the guy wants some strange stuff and this is a way to get it. However, that same guy will almost certainly not let his wife or gf have two guys working on her. This is why I say a foursome with two couples is a far better way to go. The woman gets someone different too, and her man is not likely to be concerned while she is doing it because he is going to be busy riding someone else's woman, which removes a lot of the jealous sting for him. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 5:15:07 PM | "Most guys think that a threesome has to involve all parties doing each other, and not two people pleasuring a single person"
Group sex was one of the only things that ever turned my ex on. We frequently had foursomes with other couples and a few times even sixsomes. It was a blast. However, these gatherings were one hundred percent heterosexual. I think there were maybe two occassions where a couple of the girls decided to try one another, but the guys, including me, were only interested in hetero. We had a circle of very close friends in our age group and the gatherings never involved strangers. It was couples only with no one being left out, ever. Every guy got a chance at every woman present, and vice versa. Sometimes we would all wear ourselves out and end up kicked back naked in the couches and chairs having a drink, then some particular couple who had some more sex energy left would get out in the middle of the floor and go for it so that the rest of us could sit and watch. This usually had the effect of arousing everyone anew and the orgy would start afresh. It has been a very long time since those times, but they were VERY fun. There were never any problems in our group, but then we were all mature and stable people for our youthful ages. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 10:25:44 PM | | hey op I believe that it doesnt matter if your in a serious relationship or not because if you trully love someone then it doesnt really matter about the threesome. you can have a threesome and it wouldnt hurt your relationship it could actually help your relationship. most relationships get bored with sex. so if you and your partner is comfortable enough to have a threesome kudos. really if i could find a woman that would love me and also want to have a exciting sexuall relationshipi would be happy as hell. | |
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