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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/1/2008 8:17:46 PM |
it,seems many women dont want an independant man
Whaaaat? I love independant men. I want someone that can SHARE my life with me, not expect me to take care of him, or vice versa. I can take care of myself, have for many years, and would just like to meet my equal. | |
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/1/2008 9:45:43 PM | Message 43: And who elected you as the spokesperson/moderator/spelling expert for the forums?
You sit there and state that our responses are "judgmental, dismissive, and downright rude" then you turn around and state "Makes me wonder who's really "shallow and petty and judgmental" after all. (And how few can spell the word judgmental LOL) .
I responded to the OP according to what HE wrote/information he provided, so I suggest that you keep your comments to yourself and/or the OP. | |
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/1/2008 11:40:06 PM | | If I were in my 30's and single and living with a dog, I don't see how that would make me a loser. Dogs are pretty good and faithful companions to have, and I think people who have pets and are kind to animals are better than those who are cruel to animals (which is often a good indicator of how a person also treats people). | |
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 4:10:20 AM | | I live with my gerbil. He a ninja and keeps burglars away. I = winner. If anyone thinks otherwise, I will load him in my sling shot........ voooosh!!!! and he maul your face off good. | |
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 4:13:10 AM | | sounds like you heard only part of the conversation and drew some conclusions from it taking some of it personal... for all you know, they could be right and he is a loser.... | |
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 4:32:55 AM | Maybe they prefer a man in their 30's living with his wife.
To me a man in his 30's living alone with his dog, would be the perfect catch.
A man who has lived on his own, and is quite capable of taking care of himself is very appealing, and a added bonus. | |
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 5:17:28 AM | "OP, some people are just shallow and petty and judgemental. That's THEIR problem, not yours."
Ain't that the truth! I live alone with my cats, but you know what? I also own my own home, hold a steady job, am furthering my education, am losing weight and looking more buffed by the day, volunteer and help others as I can, and have a wide variety of interests. If that's some women's definition of a loser, that speaks far worse of them than it does me. To heck with them, I don't need them. Furthermore, I like my cats a lot more than I do many people. They were homeless when I took them in. Their love is unconditional, they appreciate what I do for them, they're friendly, they know if I'm not feeling well and are actually considerate of that. They don't walk away if the bigger, better deal shows up. In short, they actually bring good things into my life. Sure beats some women with their never-ending list of demands and requirements for their perfect mate, and their quest for a perfect painless life with their walking wallet er, uh I mean perfect man.
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 5:51:15 AM |
i thought it was a subject to bring to the table,cause ive noticed it,seems many women dont want an independant man.
Ohhh what I wouldn't give for a reasonably attractive, independant, dog-lovin' man! 
Where are you OP???
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 8:32:30 AM | hey everyone,thanks for the responses,they were informative and many busted me out laughing,it was just one of those things in life that happen that you wanna share,the forums are a great place to do it,and being a loser,who else can i talk too lol...and yes my dog is a keeshond also known as a wolfspitz,shes been my little girl since 99,thanks for putting a smile on my face everyone,this ones on me | |
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 8:53:04 AM | | i have a couple of pets and actually say in my profile u must like animals.I don't know if their comment was about the dog being there are mainly just what she thought of him,i am hoping it is the latter.I think that a man living alone is awesome and would perfer dating someone in that capasity,view other threads of mine,as it stands to his maturity imo and his ability to make decisions so he probably won't have issues like blaiming everyone else for his choices or not being able to commit to much of anything,believes his toys are the most important things in his life and rides around with a bar in his trunk hoping and praying he becomes the saving grace of a dieing party or the one everyone comes to for a drink so he can claim popularity,in the drunk realm anyway lol. | |
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 10:33:35 AM |
Provided he doesnt keep a pantry full of peanut butter.
What is wrong with peanut butter? lol I love peanut butter. I was mad when Peter Pan peanut butter was off the shelves for so long. They are the absolute best brand imo. Was happy when they returned. Okay this is a little off topic but found it odd that you would find it odd for a guy to have a lot of peanut butter. Maybe he really likes peanut butter. | |
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 11:50:54 AM | | big tex,there are implications of having dogs and peanut butter around,lol,this is almost too silly,and yes women with a cupboard full of peanut butter are under suspicion too,lol | |
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 2:07:55 PM |
and yes women with a cupboard full of peanut butter are under suspicion too
Well I also have strawberry preserves.. to use with the peanut butter.. I guess I am never gonna get a date with a pantry this disgraceful.  | |
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 2:13:35 PM | I hate those good looking single guys with dogs who have a stable active life....what losers! I much prefer the single dad of 5 children who has been on cops a record 3 times in which is on the top 1o list for drunkest cop chase in dirty wifebeater.
Well that is my top choice anyways. The other choice would be married man 3 pump chump who can't please his wife and asks me out on a date via coming over to my house where he drinks all my wine and tries to paw me like drunken bum under a bridge trying desperately to take my purse but is tipsy from maddog 2020 and high from the moldy bread he ate. Yes I think those are much better choices! | |
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 5:18:39 PM |
... The other choice would be married man 3 pump chump who can't please his wife...
Some married guys get trained this way "is it over yet?"
... coming over to my house where he drinks all my wine and tries to paw me like drunken bum under a bridge trying desperately to take my purse but is tipsy from maddog 2020
So all you have is MD 2020?
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 6:22:02 PM | | The quickest and easiest way I have ever found to meet women is to go into town with my White German Shepherd and take him on a walk through a park. The women approach me and they initiate the conversation. My cousin refers to my dog as a "chick magnet." | |
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| single men in their 30s living alone with a dog
Posted: 3/2/2008 7:27:07 PM | I read the initial post and thought the same thing several on here have mentioned. If they don't want a guy who lives alone, what other living arrangements are preferable? At home with Mommy & Daddy? With the ex, but we're still "friends"? In a glorified bachelor pad with 5 drunken buddies? In an overcrowded house with his 6 kids? Maybe with his platonic female friend who resembles a Victoria's Secret model?
Then I thought, well, having a dog shows that he is presumably kind to animals, so that's good. If he doesn't have kids in his 30's, I would want to know if that is because he doesn't really enjoy kids & doesn't want them, or just because he has never been married and had any kids, and is responsible enough to not have them unless in a solid relationship? I would just wonder that since I have 2 kids & obviously if a man doesn't like kids, he wouldn't want to be too involved with me.
I think you are doing fine, OP, and are really what a lot of women are looking for: an independent man who cares for animals and takes care of himself, and is actually available!
Now I have to admit, if I met a man in his 30's who lived alone with his dog, and the dog is a perfectly groomed & perfumed white miniature French poodle with pink bows on its ears and pink polished toenails, I would'nt think he was a loser, but I'd probably wonder about other things...just sayin'. Nothing wrong with that, though, just sayin'.
And Poet, I don't think BigTex has any clue what the suspicions about the tons of peanut butter could be - bless her heart, it is nice to see people that are just too nice to get that. I love ya, BigTex! I'd e-mail you & tell you what they're talking about, but I can't cause I'm a girl - message me if you are still wondering. | |
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