| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 3/4/2008 7:45:26 PM | "woman want me... (done)
ps.. for sex....
How long have you been delusional?
Perhaps I'm deutinal too, but I wouldn't throw him outta bed!"
BRING IT!~ | |
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 3/4/2008 8:18:50 PM | I thought about how I would answer this and I used the same importance of priorities that I apply in my life.
1. Puts God first.
2. Family (adores children and seniors, listening to them).
3. Becomes each others Best Friend!
4. Protector of Mate.
5. Respects and likes animals.
We are all attracted to different styles/looks/sizes/heights/etc....
I'm attracted to: Dark hair,beards,mustachs,smiles,neat/clean,grit,rougher hands than mine,501's,Wranglers,suits,sweats,shorts (all good (Variety)attire), taller than me, strong,take charge...
A glass of wine
A cold beer
Martini
Cup of coffee
Iced tee
We could put on what ever hat we want , and laugh all we want together.
And to fall asleep then wake up and realize it's not just another dream!!!!!!!!! | |
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 3/4/2008 10:36:11 PM | Most surveys show the top two things are intelligence and kindness, those top my list too.
No one can deny some chemistry has to be there. A couple of things that really show over time are consideration and dependability, that is a big reason a lot of guys drop the ball in my opinion. Sometimes things just are not a fit, on my end or theirs, and the guys I really admire are the ones that have the courtesy to at least send an email letting you know. The usual guy behavior is to just disappear without a word, well that tells a lot about them right there and you know you were lucky you didn't waste a lot of time with him.
Every woman, like every man has certain things that are important to them, some women need money, status, etc. Other women look for someone they can exchange ideas with, laugh with, and share some common activities and values.
Bottom line--if you can just get 80% of what you are looking for you can usually work on compromising the other 20%. Some dreamers think they will find 100%--that's why some are still looking after 5-10 years. | |
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 3/17/2008 9:22:55 AM | Specific depends on the person, but I like a man that looks at me, asks questions, and answers questions when asked. I get tired of the first meeting being all about one person, tell a little and listen a little. Meeting someone is about finding a common thread that might be something you would both like to do together.
I don't want to meet your friends or family, I don't want you on the laptop while you are talking to me, unless you are showing me something that we are discussing, such as a horse or race car or something.
I would like to get out and move around, maybe take a walk, but don't make it a race. In your first meeting agree on someplace that you both will be comfortable with, read her profile again and even print it out and highlight the things that interested you enough to contact her in the first place.
Most inportantly, be yourself, talk about who you are, what you do, what makes you who you are. I work with developmentally disabled adults, and that job takes up a lot of my free time. I need to be sure that anyone I start seeing is OK with that and can deal with these folks. I also belong to a service organization. These are all good ice breakers. Course don't take my word for it, I scare all of the men away.
Just be you, talk aobut what attracted you to her in the first place and see where it goes
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 3/17/2008 11:54:04 AM | I'm looking to be happier when I'm with him than I am when he's not there.
I'm looking to create a better life with him than either of us would create on our own.
I'm looking for sexual attraction and sexual desire to be in synch, so that when he wants sex I want it too.
That's it. What specific details will fulfill those three wants is something I can only discover as I date men. I couldn't cook up a formula and expect it to be at all accurate. | |
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 3/17/2008 8:08:31 PM | I'm looking for a man who captures my mind.
He has to be intelligent.
He has to be willing to look beyond the obvious.
He has to be willing to step outside of his box.
And he has to be willing to let me in.
He has to trust me and know that I won't betray that trust.
He has to be willing to give of himself, even if that goes beyond his comfort zone.
He'll be a better man because of me and I'll be a better woman because of him.
When I find this man, I'll be more than willing to give him my heart on a platter,
because I'll know he can be trusted with it. | |
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 3/17/2008 11:10:02 PM | I'm looking for a man who captures my mind. Fair enough... but I am not going in the cage.
He has to be intelligent. For those of you men who are wondering, this means we would like you to be able to spell and hold short conversations on things other than your car or a sporting event.
He has to be willing to look beyond the obvious. This means he should not care of you wake up and your hair looks more like a hair don't, than a hairdo.
He has to be willing to step outside of his box. But only with my permission.
And he has to be willing to let me in. Yeah, into the bathroom so I can get ready to go somewhere.
He has to trust me and know that I won't betray that trust. You forgot the part where he has to be trustworthy as well QT!
He has to be willing to give of himself, even if that goes beyond his comfort zone. Yes guys, this means she wants to hold the remote. I know, it's scary... you might accidentally see Oprah or Dr. Phil.
He'll be a better man because of me and I'll be a better woman because of him. You will be a better man when we teach you how to groom yourselves properly.
When I find this man, I'll be more than willing to give him my heart on a platter, because I'll know he can be trusted with it. Oh, here comes the trustworthy guy part. Actually, we can only hope for that. You need to make sure that he does not just send back the dishes on that platter.
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 3/18/2008 6:22:22 PM | | well I cant answer for all me , but as for me just a nice women to spent for free time with , with out the drama ,you know a little live and let live | |
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 3/22/2008 1:04:45 AM | | I'm looking for someone who when she says she wants a nice guy...she really wants one...too many say that but when they meet one they just want to be friends....they need to be more specific about what nice is.... | |
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 3/22/2008 7:46:17 AM |
Are they sane?
It's a start...
Sanity is relative. Sane compared to what? LOL.
It surprises me that I am not seeing post after post in this thread about honesty. This topic gets posted on all the singles forums, and it seems like until POF, honesty was the overwhelming trait that women were looking for. Have the guys on this site actually started being truthful, honorable, and trustworthy? Wow, I'd like to think so. Perhaps the ladies that are posting just didn't really think about it. I wish I knew what women really want. Other than the Rocky Balboa, Sir Lancelot, and Fabian combo. Hey, isn't that me? 
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 3/22/2008 11:44:20 AM | ^^^nah......I like the cro-magnon approach, hit me over the head and drag me around by my hair, lie to me, cheat on me, spend all my money.....you know, a REAL man. 
just kidding.............
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 4/30/2008 8:45:13 AM | loving, attractive(everyone has different taste),sweet,mechanically inclined,can make good productive choices,good love,happy,positive,kissable,strong hugs,a little possesive,a little jealous, very family oriented,with goals,able to relax as well as be spontaneous, and is a saint as best possible. faithful (no cheaters,they r yuk!) | |
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 4/30/2008 8:59:51 AM | lol
Crazy take your turtle for a walk around the block because he asked you to insanity? Not so much.
Saw a lady walking her duck on a leash down the street a few weeks ago...
Sorry your comment made the picture come back into my mind...
Sorry Ignore this off topic jabber, back to the ladys and what they want???
<--- Far from sane! and proud of it... | |
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 4/30/2008 6:34:48 PM | | ok so cal lol us girls we like about lots of thing that stimulate the mind. but we don't like talking cars,engines,football ok some of us do lol but we like our men to hold a convo it feels good and not the old aussie foreplay elbow in the side going are you awake lol | |
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 4/30/2008 7:03:39 PM |
ok so cal lol us girls we like about lots of thing that stimulate the mind. but we don't like talking cars,engines,football ok some of us do lol but we like our men to hold a convo it feels good and not the old aussie foreplay elbow in the side going are you awake lol
Some of us like punctuation too! | |
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 4/30/2008 7:39:21 PM |
Some of us like punctuation too!
You are the only one. Let's look at a small example:
Bad:
Punctuation can kill Barbe.
Good:
Punctuation can kill, Barbe.
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 4/30/2008 8:40:54 PM |
Some of us like punctuation too!
Going to the monastery now if it wasn't for word I'd be totally hopeless... | |
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 4/30/2008 10:34:47 PM |
ok so cal lol us girls we like about lots of thing that stimulate the mind. but we don't like talking cars,engines,football ok some of us do lol but we like our men to hold a convo it feels good and not the old aussie foreplay elbow in the side going are you awake lol
I have no idea what you are trying to say.
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| What women are looking for in men.
Posted: 4/30/2008 11:14:30 PM | my best friend, clean and sober (!), kind spirited, self-confident (not arrogant), communicative, non judgemental rather focusing on "self" improvement, with integrity (actually "does "what he preaches instead of mental masturbation), protective of me, innately upbeat, funny, good dancer, snuggly and sensual, wanting/able to "partner", not all hung up about "loving", service oriented.
not stupid, but does not have to be super smart (i can do "super smart" with platonic friends if necessary, although it would be nice), not an old fart! certainly not a young fart either (MILFERS, YIK).
ABSOLUTELY NO RACISTS. BUT DO SEEK THERAPY IF YOU ARE! | |
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