| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 6/25/2008 11:59:16 PM | As others have said here, which one??
I think about various ex's at various points in time. Depends on whats going on in life and if there's a special date thats made me think of her. The longer Im single, the more I think about the ex's. But I think we all do this. | |
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| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 6/26/2008 12:23:34 AM | I really don't want to..... its difficult....we were best friends, we had an amazing relationship. We had a beautiful baby, and she sold her family for her job......apparently I didnt become succesful fast enough for her.....LOL. So now I own my own business.........and her boyfriend who likes other boys is going to jail with "other boys" he will have lots of fun! haha. (lord forgive me for that right there, and be with the starving pigmies there in New Guinea-amen)
Really it hurts to watch the person of your dreams, who you love with all of your heart....be with someone else........I think of it every day, and it shows that one was too young and immature...and needed things, needed control, needed bars.....
when someone throws away family like that........it shows the world that it was YOUR OWN love, that kept you together because it was stronger......
The grass is NEVER greener......
haha sorry, enough on that drama! | |
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| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 6/26/2008 3:33:00 AM | Only to the point that she made me hold-back so much Sexual Tension.... ..That I got to Release on my 2nd Wife...!!! ..That was the BEST 5-year Honeymoon..!!!..... !!! ...a Pity that we didn't get the chance to Finish it...!!! I'm still dedicated to fulfilling her last request... But, finding a qualified partner has met with considerable resistance, and become difficult...!!! | |
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| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 6/26/2008 3:42:29 AM | | I think about one ex quite often, another one not so much. But it's not in a manner of wishful thinking or secretly hoping for another shot, just as you think of good friends. They are the only two ex's whom I have tried to stay friends with and both have great qualities that I have yet to find in some of the others I have dated. We are better as friends, but you can't help but think of them because they were so special. | |
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| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 6/26/2008 8:40:43 AM | | i think about how happy i am that i am no longer with any of them, especially the last one. what a loser | |
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| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 6/26/2008 9:14:15 AM | | Whenever my ex comes to my mind, I just thank God that I am not with him anymore, and focus back on the present. | |
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| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 6/26/2008 7:27:24 PM | I think about my ex and count my blessings each time that I got out when I did. I can still look back and say he had a few decent qualities but with everything I learned later, I have to wonder if even those were real.
I think when you can honestly say spending the rest of your life alone if you had to would be greener pastures, you made the right decision. | |
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| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 7/22/2008 12:09:18 PM | | My ex and I did not divorce because the "grass was greener" on the other side. He is the father of my children and grandfather to my grandkids. We will always remain very good friends. After 20 years I feel we shared a tremendous part of our life together so its only natural to think of them. Answer yes I do. Would I go back? Absolutely not! | |
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| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 7/22/2008 12:50:33 PM | | For some reason an ex always has a spot in your heart, regardless of why or how things ended. I think it's normal to be curious of what an ex is up too or who is this person he's currently dating. We are only human. | |
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| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 7/22/2008 12:56:05 PM | Not as much as i used to, but yeh there are time's he does cross my mind, i have a beautiful daughter with him, so he is'nt really someone i can totally forget about!
i was seeing someone off here for a while, but we did'nt date for long, so i would'nt call him a ex as such, but i think about him more then anything!
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| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 7/22/2008 1:17:20 PM | | Well, what kind of thinking do you mean OP? There is the hmmm, our life probably wasn't so bad, kind, and then there is I'm thinking about my ex because I just don't have enough body parts in the freezer! | |
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| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 7/22/2008 1:24:16 PM | Think about the ex? Hell I still have to deal with him on a regular basis because we have a child together...
Regret the split - HELL NO!
Regret the splits with past boyfriends? also a resounding NO.
Yes I am way too damn picky... wont deal with liars, cheats, addicts, slobs, or the financially or familial irresponsible. So that rather narrows the playing field a bit.
Not to mention that the "good things" about all my ex's really raise the bar as to what I expect... as I now know those behaviors are possible in a male.
You see... I might occasionally date Mr. Stinky, Touchy, or Snaggle tooth... but mostly I date Mr. Really-great-guy-who-just-wasn't-quite-right, and am perfectly ok with sending him home when done... and retreating to my little undisturbed nest, made perfectly for me.
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| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 7/22/2008 1:39:59 PM | ...tooo funny.My ex husband is the father of my children, so I do think of him, from time to time, with no regret of divorcing him. 2 of my ex boyfriends I do think about ...with disdain.... | |
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| Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 7/22/2008 1:57:36 PM | lol my x husband never ever only when I hear him scream at the kids during phone calls. It is amazing that when I looked at him I could not come up with one good reason that I spent so many years with him. Actually now this minute it even makes me feel sick to even bring his name up.........I wish him well lol and his second wife doesn't live with him either.....
I think about my first boyfriend Eric I was 13 ......loved him so much that I named my third child after him. So my son knows that but what a great name.
I agree with another women on this page it takes time between relationships and the more time the less you think of them. I do not believe in going from one and then three days later going on line to meet someone new. I did try it and it doesn't work. How much could you have really cared. the last man I was with lasted 7 years so you wait seven months before even thinking about dating. I love my time alone and with my friends it is like a freedom that I never knew existed. lol I don't have to explain anything to anyone now yeah...... | |
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