| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 1:43:48 PM |
Would you consider having a relationship with her?
Of course!...even if she farted! If she's cute then I'd go for it! Call her?...OMG, I'd probably marry her on the spot!  | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 1:47:47 PM | Ok, so judging by the responces I'll have to move my whorish ways to Podunk Iowa or some other small stain on a map in order to find a guy who doesn't mind a little pre-courting action. Guess Cali boys get it handed to them a little to easy!
Thanks guys! Good to know some of you are on the same page as me. I am not some needy psyco. I do not give it away for a free dinner. I am a very sexual person and if I'm having a good time, if I'm attracted to you, and if the kiss is good...chances are I'm gonna get your pants off. Doesn't mean I expect you to call...doesn't mean I want a relationship with you. I'm not gonna beat around the bush and deny my body just because this dude may have hang ups. Fact is, if you like me, you like all of me...including the part of me who is open and comfortable enough with my body to share it with someone I've just met.
Perhaps I'm a slut/whore to some...I don't really care. I think a whore is someone who uses sex as a tool for advancement. Sluts have sex to be excepted/loved. I have sex because it feels good and I enjoy it.
I asked question to get a general poll and I did. I have a freind who swears that my expressive sexuality is the reason I am still single. Perhaps, but until I find a guy who's comfortable with me...what's the use settleing down? | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 2:26:57 PM | | It's possible to have dinner without farting???? That's when I compose some of my more memorable work ;) | |
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Posted: 3/3/2008 3:07:20 PM | Hey, wait a minute Foxx, its not Podunk Iowa, its Bum F**cked Egypt. LoL
Not saying you are one or not here, just my own thoughts again, but whores, sluts and all that need love too, right?
And what does happen to those guys and gals that wait till their wedding night? Say they spent two or three years dating, doing everything right, huge church wedding and a long plane trip to Hawaii, no wait, make that a 22 hour flight to New Zealand. Then they have sex, and it was like eating a dish of food a friend prepared especially for you but it was the most god awful thing you have ever eaten but you didn't want to hurt their feelings. You eat some more but it just gets worse and worse. You finally ask them to change the ingrediants but that makes it even worse.
Ahh, but you still have your love to keep you warm. It was all about love, who needs sex right? Somehow you will get though the next 50 years, it shouldn't be a problem at all. Yea, thats the ticket.... | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 7:13:33 PM | Yea...I would definitely call her back and enjoy more of her conversation. Now I will eventually ask her the reasons for putting out with me on our first date. And if her answer is honorable, I will take it to the next level. She is a keeper.  | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 7:15:45 PM | Yea...I would definitely call her back and enjoy more of her conversation. Now I will eventually ask her the reasons for putting out with me on our first date. And if her answer is honorable, I will take it to the next level. She is a keeper.
Author: passionandsong
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what would you say if she asked you first?..and no you cant ask that with a question. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 7:21:22 PM | | Frankly, I don't think I'd want to have sex with a woman until I was already quite sure I was going to call her again. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 7:25:31 PM | What? We're not supposed to fart during dinner now? How long has that been going on? Well, crap, no wonder I never get any on the first date.  | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 7:46:09 PM | Depends on the guy, but why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?
In my opinion after one night of conversation and sex it's a lil premature to be deciding on a relationship. If I had fun though I'd certainly call her again. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 7:48:19 PM | I've 'heard' enough! It's time for me to opine. If ya turn each other on enuff to knock boots then by all means do so! What's the point of jerkin each other around for 2 days, 3 weeks, six months - only to finally 'get around to it' and come so hard yer brains ooze out yer ears; only to discover that's all there was? Now 'six months' of your time has been wasted playing that stupid head game that everyone here wants to avoid in the first place! You fart, I belch. You pluck yer brows, I scratch my balls. If we screw on the first date n one day make it to the ear/nose pickin, pass you in the hall n say '**** you' stage: great! If not we'll always have Cassablanca, but we'll always have something good to look back on with at least a shit eatin grin!
WOOF! | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 7:49:10 PM | | I think it would all depend on the feelings towards eachother but for the ladies have to be more careful .. Most guys thats all they want . they will do an say anything to get that booty and if they get it the first date and don't call you back that realy sucks , mostly if you liked the guy alot then that realy sucks because it makes us gentleman look bad... | |
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Posted: 3/3/2008 7:50:43 PM | Absolutely. However, there are a couple of factors here. One is the slut factor. Many women after such night feel guilt, saying to themselves, I can't believe I did that. So now they fear the guy because they think he things she is a slut. Now, some guys do think that way, but not all of them.
I am a guy driven by passion. If you wanted to date and hold hands for six months before something happen, guess what, right off the bat you would never be the gal for me. Passion is key. That means you do things on gut instinct very fast, so maybe it's not first date, but it happens fast, otherwise you really not for me, so goodbye, go away.
So, I don't see anything wrong with throwing your passion onto that first date. But it's not a guarantee. Yet, you will hear here of many couples that have great relationships and they started with that very first date. | |
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Posted: 3/3/2008 8:08:16 PM | How long did the guchie-guchie last?
If little over an hour? Not coming back . . .
If over 3 hours? He's coming back . . .
Me baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad . . . . tonight
~Myth~ | |
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Posted: 3/3/2008 8:14:05 PM | The old "double standard". If a guy likes sex, he's a stud. If a woman liks sex, she's a slut.
It's time for that standard to be put into the closet.
If sex feels good, and you enjoy it...more power to you. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/4/2008 1:50:51 AM | | I'd probably go for it, second date then a third, see where things go from there. I wouldnt judge it doesnt matter whether she put out first date or not at all. If you like someone you like someone plain and simple. Why give up an opportunity to be happy with someone? | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/4/2008 2:01:52 AM | She was cuter and i got on well with her, why would i not want another date??
Is it because she put out on the first date?? if it's right it's right!!
I have to say though i tend not to even go for a kiss on the first date! why? because i want to leave sex out of it and see if i get on with someone, when sex comes along i just think with the wrong head........... so i like not to go there on the first meet!!
To me the first meet is just an ice breaker and to see what is what, no more no less | |
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Posted: 3/4/2008 3:24:20 AM | Good thread foxx! 
I've always wondered (and struggled) about the same thing....
There have been times when I have had sex on the 1st date if I really got along well with a guy and there was mutual sexual attraction. Following some of these occassions though, the guy/s had only wanted to continue seeing me on a casual basis (not a relationship). Whether this was because I 'gave out' on the first date or if they just wern't ready for a relationship in general, I'll never know.
What I do know however, is that it makes me rage with fury that there is still such a double standard in this day and age. verymad:
For those guys that have a problem with a girl choosing to have sex on the first date and branding them 'easy', etc....why don't those same guys abstain themselves if/when faced with the possibility of sex? If they really want to wait and see what develops (if they think there's potential for a relationship and think it may be ruined with first-night sex, why not say NO to the girl, if they really hold this out-dated view?)
Hope I havn't babbled too much, but what's good for the goose is bloody good for the gander in my opinion. 
Luv ya Foxx!
Lioness: | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/4/2008 3:27:47 AM | | I don't put out on a first date. I'd never try to "go for more" but if she threw herself at me, I'd be put off by it. Call me old fashioned I guess. There would be no second date if she was already molesting me on the first date -- if she's throwing it at me, then she'd probably do it with anyone and I'm not interested in that kind of mate. | |
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Posted: 3/4/2008 6:11:56 AM | | Of course, who wouldnt... sure there are stereo types but if you hit it off and one thing led to anouther well just a bonus...and a pleasant surprise for both.. | |
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Posted: 3/4/2008 6:13:19 AM | | Pss do you date out of town visitors? just kidding enjoy and have fun till you find the one that shares your passion for life | |
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Posted: 3/4/2008 7:04:56 AM | shieldvulf:
Shit howdey dude. You make sence.
I've never really been to worried about this whole thing, but my friend has been insisting that this is the reason I am single.
I'm just wondering if there's any truth to her accusation or if maybe I just have a sh*tty personality!
There is no 'him' in perticular...just a collection of 'what the hell ever happened too (insert name here).' | |
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