| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/4/2008 4:13:50 PM | | He is testing you? Why would anyone want to do that? How immature on his part and how sad on your part you feel this is acceptable behavior. Just going on what you said in your post it seems to be that if you should continue in this relationship it will only get worse. I am sorry it that sounds like saying," don't work on it, just bail". It just seems that relationships should start out on a good note, not a bad one. You work on things like, who does the dishes. Who takes out the trash. Who gets the remote. Not who calls who names and does not take responsibilty for their own actions. He gets moody every other day? Maybe he's just not ready for a relationship and does not even know it yet. In fact, who knows. Period. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/4/2008 4:47:38 PM | Horoscopes will give you some insight into common Scorpion traits, and you will know which ones are present in him. Sounds like he has a bit of a scorpion sting in his tail. I saw very little of that from my bf. But he had an inability to express his emotions verbally. And yet his emotions were very intense. That is apparently common amongst Scorpions.
Rather than looking too much at your bf (and it's hard to often work out a person's real motives) ask ourself how he makes you feel, what it is you want from a relationship and whether he gives it to you. Most people grow over their lifetime and he may over the years develop into the kind a guy a girl would be happy being with, but at the moment he sounds fairly emotionally under-developed. It's a wonderful feeling to be in a nuturing relationship and soul-destroying to be with someone who makes you doubt yourself and lose confidence.
Ok. I have a question for all you Scorpions out there - especially male Scorpions or girls who have been in a relationship with a Scorpion. Just how faithful are Scorpions? What conditions need to be present for a Scorpion to remain faithful if indeed they can be? One of my closeest friends found out not so long ago that the Scorpion she'd been seeing seriously for 2 years had been having cyber sex online most nights the whole time they were together. He also met up recently with a couple of girls for random sex apparently.
He always treated her with great love and passion, was very kind and gentle, and was absolutely devestated when she left. I saw him a couple of weeks ago. He's lost a lot of weight and looked pretty sad (go figure!). It's so obvious to me that she meant the world to him so his behaviour is doubly confusing to me.
The thing is...there's a Scorpion who I'm attracted to, but after my girlfriend's experience I'm wondering...is this something that Scorpions just do? It's almost like he considered his activities as irrelevant and not a form of infidelity at all, but a harnless hobby that had no bearing on his love for my friend. Is that a common Scorpion trait, or is this guy just a sex addict? | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/4/2008 4:51:21 PM | | If you had to ask then you already know the answer - get rid of his butt now. He sees to want everything his way or it's the ighway. Give him direction to the next exit. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/4/2008 6:08:41 PM |
.there's a Scorpion who I'm attracted to, but after my girlfriend's experience I'm wondering...is this something that Scorpions just do?
Let's get grounded in reality here, folks--the planets do NOT affect the personalities and traits of people. People who adhere to such beliefs fulfill self-prophecies: it ended badly, it MUST have been because he/she was a Scorpio, I mean, it couldn't possibly be anything else, could it? | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/4/2008 6:26:19 PM | Yes, I have. I was with a Scorpio male (11/12) and I am (10/29). When we were out with friends, he was the life of the party and he and I shared some good memories. However, when alone, he would intentionally push my buttons if I didn't push his first.
It was like he couldn't survive a day without an argument. I got tired of the drama, said goodbye, took him back, same ol same ol, and ended it. Finally. Even the ending couldn't be simple. Even though I said I just couldn't fight anymore, he believed I wanted him to fight me to keep me.
That bad habit has now been gone for 2 yrs. But dang, he was soooo hot!
Good luck,
Liz | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/4/2008 6:33:44 PM | well,im a scorpio guy.........what would like to know...?????well, let tell you scorpios are straight forward . very sexual people , but do them wrong(be prepared to get stung) anyways thats all i have to say.... .... | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/4/2008 7:20:23 PM | Im not good at advise,but sounds like you just need to get away from him, srart over maybe,cause life is to short as it is! Im a picses and I dont do good at ALL with leo's!! so, I stay away from them  good luck girl!!  | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/4/2008 7:33:53 PM | | Just have lots and lots of hot sex. See, once you whipped it on him like you did, he became whipped, so to speak. In secret, he kind of resents it, but then again, he loves it, so...carry on, hot mama! You'll never understand him in full, so just fvck him to death and be glad. Love, Titus | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/4/2008 7:46:29 PM | Listen, 'hon, I know what the deal is with Scorpio men.......awesome in bed, but a little intense and extremist? Well, their emotions are the same-they are very intense, all or nothing, and seem stubborn and callous at times. I know my astrology, so I can tell ya all you need to know. If he's into you, he won't take less than 100% of you, period.
If he's being abusive, don't take that from ANY sign. Need more advice? find my username here, and I'll get back to ya-it's dragonfly14843 . Good luck! | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/4/2008 7:56:08 PM | "The thing is...there's a Scorpion who I'm attracted to, but after my girlfriend's experience I'm wondering...is this something that Scorpions just do? It's almost like he considered his activities as irrelevant and not a form of infidelity at all, but a harnless hobby that had no bearing on his love for my friend. Is that a common Scorpion trait, or is this guy just a sex addict?"
This guy is a jerk - no matter what sign he is. And no, it is not a Scorpio trait. Most Scorpios are brutally frank, don't give a hoot what anyone else thinks, are extremely stubborn, quick to anger, highly opinionated, and don't like change. However, they are also extremely loyal (once they've decided you're worthy), faithful, devoted, caring, and dependable. Of all the Scorps I know - male and female (and I know a lot), only one has been unfaithful. That says a lot - considering Scorpio men and I don't get along on a dating basis and I have only dated two Scorps (there seems to be a mutual dislike) - but I give credit where credit is due, regardless of my personal feelings, and they do seem to be a faithful lot. Too bad I don't get along with them  | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/5/2008 7:43:59 AM | | Hi...don't know if this will help but here goes...was involved with a scorpio for 6 years...wonderful in so many ways but mine was abusive and sounds like yours might be too...no I don't think they all are but you might seriously want to educate yourself on the subject and decide from there. Hope for your sake you don't end up where I was. Be careful. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/5/2008 5:42:46 PM | Horoscopes are ridiculous,.....You can read 20 different ones the say day and they will all say something different yet be so generalized that you find some way to fit them in the your personality.
Try not reading the horoscopes,....
Horoscopes are just a couple sentences making people money.
I've seen people like the one you are describing here in the past and from what I've seen they turn out to not be good people.....
That's just my opinion...........
Rock On! 
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/5/2008 8:25:19 PM | | ^^^^^ Who mentioned reading horoscopes? We are discussing astrology, and the description and nature of Scorpios, which has nothing to do with reading daily horoscopes. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/5/2008 8:45:51 PM | Haha, all the comments are so funny. In my opinion, I think scorpio's are just down right scary. They are supposed to be attuned to people's inner selves, and have great intuition. At the same time they themselves are secretive to the extent that they're unreadable, and I find them alwso very good at being misleading about their actual thoughts etc. I dont' see how two scorpio's can't figure each other out, but if it isnt working I wouldn't push things, just go slower and stop pestering him and making too many demands because regardless of which star the guy is born under, they all hate that.
And Aries girls, NEVER go for a Scorpio guy. No matter how damn sexy he is. Trust me. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/5/2008 9:03:08 PM | | The fact that you are referencing astrology in any way invalidates any attempt to communicate intelligently with you. Please remove yourself and any immediate relations from the gene pool. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/6/2008 5:16:19 PM | | I'm not sure which one of the people on this forum you are referring to, but given your intense dislike of astrology and desire to avoid discussing anything to do with it, perhaps you should avoid reading the postings in this particular thread. I wondering, did not the title 'Help anybody? I'm dating a Scorpio guy?' give you a clue as to the topic. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/7/2008 8:27:39 AM | scorpios are easy communicators. we say how we feel, regardless of the aftermath. however, when we know we've gone too far we back up and make up for it 10 fold. sometimes we just need to vent and someone to listen with judging or taking it personal. yah, it can "sting" if the outside world has no idea whats really going on in the "inside" world. and its hard to find that out as one poster mentions about only showing pure underlying emotion to one we truly trust. you have to really work at earning our trust and us scorpios value that exchange above anything else you offer us. its really hard to say if astrology has anything to do with any of this, or if its just the way we grew up. i've dated scorpios that run the full spectrum of the sign, each with varying degrees of these traits, so like anything in life, its a real gamble with the 50/50 outcome..one thing is for sure, you'll never be bored! | |
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| I've dated a few similar guys- for a very short period of time
Posted: 3/7/2008 8:52:07 AM | Deal with this guy? Uh, I would walk away. I've left for less. When someone tells me if you don't like it then...They are saying "you aren't that important to me, screw you". Testing you? Seems like you failed the self respect test. F*ck that arrogant a**hole. I say ditch 'em or treat him how he treats you. I personally wouldn't waste my time playing his game.
The name calling thing is something that happens sometimes. If he apologized and didn't do it again then good. BUT if it continues, it's unacceptable. Name calling should always be a rare thing. We aren't in kindergarten anymore. We are adults aren't we suppose to walk away or be able to communicate on level that doesn't destroy someone's self esteem. I rarely feel bad enough about myself that I have to intentionally hurt someone else. What a big bully! He should pick on someone his own size. Saying that was stupid or ignorant can be true. But telling someone they ARE stupid and ignorant is down right mean. That is a sure sign of no respect.
I am a sweet person and will love someone to death. I am just as loyal and respectful to others as I am myself. If I am not receiving it I am going to find it elsewhere. Why are you having to show him that you really like him and want this to work? Is he worthy?
You know what's really going on better than anyone. I think we all know deep down if someone is a good guy or a bad guy or if this relationship is going to work for the long run. Just don't make excuses for his behavior and be honest with yourself. Some women live like this forever.
Don't change him. Change you. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/29/2008 4:02:20 PM | | two scorpions together is like world war 3 and some i have 3 scorpion kids and am scorpion myself i stay away from scorpion men because i know it will be murder literally i'm just glad my kids are all grown up now i get a little peace but its very tense when we all get together in the same space | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/29/2008 6:58:19 PM | | Think about this. What if it just so happened that either of you were adopted and the birthdate on your birth certificate was incorrect, misstated or made up due to circumstances. You think you are a particular "sign" but actually you might not be. Your world and your life is not controlled by an alignment of the stars and astrology. You are what you are and your "sign" is something you have turned into a self fulfilling prophesy | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/29/2008 7:43:51 PM | I. will. never. not ever. date another Scorpio.
Not ever.
Every one I have ever known has been charming, mean and manipulative. The last one I dated turned into a stalker. Yes, from right here on good old PoF. | |
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