| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/29/2008 8:05:55 PM | OP~ it sounds like he isn't a good partner for you if he is verbally abusive.
I steer clear of Scorpio males in personal relationships. They're dark, intense, extremely moody, controlling, highly volative and unforgiving~ in my experience. But they do love deeply and passionately. Ironically~ some of my closest females friends are Scorpio. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/29/2008 8:18:10 PM | You deal with a your man the way you would and other disrepectful bully - walk away and never look back! He sounds like a complete as$hole!! Why even question how you should handle him - the best way is not to handle him at all!!
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 3/29/2008 9:24:19 PM | | Being a Scorpio has nothing to do with anything. Bottom line is he is disrespectful and verbally abusive to you. Never allow anyone to tell you that you are ignorant or belittle you in any way. Walk away and don't look back. You will be glad you did. Usually when someone deliberately puts someone down, it is because they lack self esteem and are trying to boost their own ego. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/9/2008 7:29:22 AM | "short-tempered and mad"......"calling you names"....
Are all 'scorpio' woman so gullible?
Grow up and kick this guy as far away as possible. Then maybe he will start to grow up too. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/9/2008 1:20:17 PM | people can (and do) blame their shortcomings on all sorts of things - upbringing, religion, family, friends, astrology, financial circumstance.... etc etc etc... some of them obviously DO have an impact on how we automatically react to things, but how we ultimately respond - that's within each individual to choose and each person has to take responsibility for that
if he continually treats you poorly and is aware that he's hurting you and disrespecting you by his attitude, then that's his choice.... your choice is whether or not you want to be around it | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/9/2008 6:33:37 PM | OP, I know how you feel. I've dated a few Scorpios and even though I don't fully live by the zodiac sign, I feel there is alot to be said about them.
I am a true Scorpio in every sense of the definition, it fits me perfectly. The last man I was involved with was also a Scorpio. The lust and attraction to each other was very deep, and to look into each other's eyes was like looking into a mirror. But, we all know that we need more to make it work Some can overlook and deal with the highs and lows, but when it comes to extremes, like I think in your case, I wouldn't overlook that.
The fact that he is a Scorpio might give you some insight into his personality, but his abuse with you is not acceptable by any means, zodiac sign or not.
This is when you have to take a stand and say enough already and kick him to the curb. As a Scorpio woman you should know its easy for us to abandon those who have hurt us. If he hurts continually, you must use your better judgement, you deserve better. Be strong. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/15/2008 10:14:40 AM | | I am the true definition of the sign of the scorpio. All of my signs are scorpio. Rising falling and moon. I have also dated another scorpio for the length of a year, having a child with him as well. This information was the easiest way I could handle any situation with him. I only knew this because I knew it about me. Scorpios as you know are very, very jealous, you also know that scorpios are not the type that can be bothered when they have other issues they are tending too. They easily fly off the handle even if it does not seem as if they are doing anything. We are very introspective, thinking of things singularly, when time allows. When we are thinking of these things we tend to be secretive and do not like to be bothered by others when doing so. Should someone intrude on these introspective times we literally go off on them. It is not our intention to do this. We often times feel bad after doing so. It is just that we tend to be so introspective or singular, that it is like we are having a conversation with our own soul. I would have many of these devastating tantrums on many occasions. There is also the fact that we think that we believe that people should be able to resolve issues as easily as us. We as scorpios are mystery seekers as well. We think about the situation untill we come to an answer that is unmistakeable and can only be a truth, to us. We find it difficult if someone does not understand what we are saying, because we have personally searched or know the answer. If we find that some one that we are speaking too, does not understand, we can be a bit short tempere, because we think that we can't be any clearer. It jolts us to be asked twice for explination. We do this to loved ones all of the time, but in the end we do not love them any less. As you know we are natural lovers, in and out of the sack. Anyone who is a Scorpio or has been with a Scorpio would know what I am talking about. We are extreamly intense and self sacrificing but at times we use that stinger even when we weren't intentionally trying to hurt another. Our tounges can be our biggest downfall and that is our method of abolishment should it be for a moment or forever. My best advice to you is to take in those times, try to feel out when he is focused on other things, stay away from him at those points in time. Also you said that he stopped calling you names when you had asked him too that is a good thing, that means he listens to what you say. Try your hardest to only ask him once for help when it pertains to the immediate. You will find yourself gelling a little better with him. Also scorpios always love some intimate attention. Should you need his attention during these times when he is introspective just nibble on his ear first, then ask. That will break him away from what he is thinking about, and get the focus on you. Of course you will have to finish what you start when it comes to that department with any scorpio. Sexuality is a must, you all know that. With sours come the sweets. And with the Lust comes the Passion. Even things that seem small to others. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/15/2008 10:25:48 AM | Im a scorpio woman and my sons dad was a scorpio man......................
All i will say is fireworks..........on every part of the relationship, good and bad!
There was a real passion there, and now we hate each other with as equal a passion haha
Oh and ive never lived with another man since .......so maybe he put me off hahahaha | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/15/2008 5:20:21 PM | | you dont believe in it but then you do. If you go by astrology then your lost. the day your parents had sex has nothing to do with fighting. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/15/2008 5:38:58 PM | My best guy friend, a scorpio...... married a scorpio...... LOL
he tells me its the best sex he ever had in his life.... But when the argument starts, its 10.0 magnitude. He loves it.
Everything you both do is highly charged, highly emotional...... You could stop and put yourself in each other situations.... Realizing that you both share a similar personality make up, it takes a bit of concentration..... sometimes.....
All of my closest male friends are Scorpio, as am I..... We all have similar likes, dislikes, they're all really great people. We just know we have to tone down the personality for each other. Think about this, if he does something that pisses you off, stop and think if its something you do, yourself to other people? Everything you love about him and everything you hate that he does.... Are probabally qualities that you possess.
JMO
Dreams
PS.... It can WORK, but it will take lots of understanding on both of your parts.
EDIT..... If he's abusive, dump him...... no one has the right to hit another!!!!
Edit Edit.... If you want more info mail me off forum | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/15/2008 6:06:05 PM | AMATIVE- She has never been hit, her post NEVER said that.
All this abuse talk is because he gets upset sometimes JUST LIKE A NORMAL HUMAN.
Show me one relationship ever where one person has not yelled at the other. It happens, period. Of course if someone is always yelling that's different, but you can't blame a man for getting upset and verbally communicating it. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/15/2008 6:17:17 PM | | Well I find this distrubing, because I am a person born on the cusp, born on both Libra and Scorpio, I do not have the moody thing. I know plenty of Scropios not moody, we maby other things but not moody. I think you have to make a decision, as to what you want. Are you willing to deal with this type of behavior, it is a emotional roller-coaster. Why go for the moods, it could become dangerous. Examine what you want in a relationship, take it from there. You know how to deal with it, face the music and decide what it is or will be and could become. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/23/2008 1:53:56 PM |
RUN FOR THE HILLS. .. Everyone knows that Scorpios are insane! 
Not all Scorpio's are insane, some of us are pleasantly eccentric. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/23/2008 6:21:01 PM | I'm a scorpio and was married to a scorpio. We're divorced.
That should be 'nuff said...but it was a good marriage for nearly 22 years. We understood each other to the depths of each other's soul and could finish each others' sentences. But he went mid life crazy, which is typical of Scorpions as well.
I will also say, moodiness is not a typical trait of Scorpio, not at all.
There is one thing to be aware of however. The Left Handed Scorpio......RUN ! They have double standards. You will never measure up.
All in all, I think the only sign that can truly understand a scorpion, is another scorpion. They dance well.
I'd say his moodiness is definitely not because of his sun sign...but could be his moon sign. Find out what time of day he was born and where he was born. Google it.
You will find his ascending sign and your ascending sign. My bet his moon sign is Cancer. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/24/2008 5:45:12 PM | haaaaaaaaaa. Scorpio lady here and proud of it!!!!!!!!!!!!
"Scorpions attack their prey with their pincers.. once they got a good grip on them.. they inject them with poison.. then suck them dry.. they are also known to eat other scorpions... And can strike with no notice.. sounds like a dream..." love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/24/2008 7:33:13 PM | | I am not sure how much I buy into the horoscope thing, not that I dismiss it, because they you eliminate such huge factors such as how he was raised, how his father or mother talked to him and other things... He is obviously very insecure otherwise he wouldn't be putting you down. I am not sure about him saying he is not perfect. I am not sure what tone was used. Was he saying that, because he knows he may be causing you grief and is feeling insecure about it and wants to give you the chance to bail, and he is afraid of being in a relationship? Those are the different ideas I can throw out there. I am not really a Scorpio. I am on the cusp, so I am in between Libra and Scorpio, but sometimes I am put down as Scorpio on some horoscopes. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/25/2008 7:39:21 AM | | sounds like he has bipolar disorder or you do why in the world would you want to deal with somebody like this.just imagine if you were married to him and have kids.let me tell you if we were dating and you called me ignorant you wouldnt have time to say you were soorrey because you would have never got the full word out your mouth befor i was gone.c-mon girl you seem nice get away from him there is allways good sex out there and if you truley like someone like this then you have a problem with your self. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/25/2008 7:49:49 AM | You have to ask yourself if the times he tosses you a sweet and caring crumb, is it worth what sounds like fairly regular emotional abuse? My friend of 40 years is a Scorpio and would rather cut off her arm than say something hateful to anyone.
Some people that are moody at least learn to shut the fuk up and not try to take everyone else down with them but that does not seem to be the case here.
He has early on when he should be trying to sweep you off your feet indicated that he feels free to speak down to you and belittle you. He may be bipolar as another poster said, and that is something that should have you running as fast as you can.
And why the hell would you want to be with someone that is testing you? That's childish, ridiculous, disrespectful and a host of other things.
Bottom line, this guy is not going to change, nothing is going to get better, you are not going to become more proficient at reading his mind. You have to ask yourself if you want to feel this way for 30-40 years and I think the answer will be quite simple.
The moments of happiness are not worth the hurt he is heaping on you. People treat us the way we allow them to treat us. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/25/2008 7:59:55 AM | An angry person is an angry person no matter what their astrological sign...
People say pisces are moody too so what does that mean?
Calling people names and putting them down while angry is kinda weird to me. The only time I have done that was when I was cheated on and I was extremely extremely angry and hurt. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/25/2008 8:02:18 AM | Honey it is as obvious as the nose on your face. I am a Scorpio, and your "friend" sounds just like me. There is no hope to change him without a significant emotional event. You may or may not be able to supply that shock, and even then he will revert later to many of his core values and beliefs. Screw the stars, he is what he is. Take him as he is, with all of his exciting ups and shitty downs, or take his not so subtile suggestion: keep looking for your match within a world of imperfections. He is out there, and you deserve the best, leave Mr. Scorpio to screw up the rest.
Lots of love to you, and never settle, or devalue your worth as it is reflected in the treatment of a part-time-jerk. Be a strong woman and expect to be treated exactly like you allow others to treat you, your choice... NOT HIS!!!!!
Lee | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 4/25/2008 8:04:34 AM | Why do women always feel like they have to validate their feelings when they are not happy? I don't think it has anything to do with his sign he probably just needs to learn how to be respectful and think before he opens his mouth . If you have taken on the task of teaching him then cudos if that is not what you had planned then you need to ask yourself 1 question: AM I GETTING WHAT I NEED FROM THIS? If what you need is RESPECT which it sounds like you do than is this person worth the time ?
None of us are perfect and we all have lessons to learn but it shouldn't be at the expense of another persons feelings. | |
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| Help anybody? I am dating a Scorpio Guy
Posted: 5/7/2008 2:19:12 PM | | I think if you box people into personality styles simply because of the time and location of their birth, you might not be looking at the relationship (or yourself) objectively. Relate to people, not their sign. In my opinion, saying one sign shouldn't date another sign is just as silly as saying a white person shouldn't date a hispanic person, for example. It's just silly on the face of it. It's making an issue out of a non-issue. | |
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