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Joined: 4/26/2004
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| Re: Unattractive?
Posted: 11/13/2004 4:56:55 AM | dude, I think you need to give your self confidence a kick in the as$. While I'm not into guys by any means, you are not unattractive IMO.
I think probably where you lack attraction is your self confidence. Keep this in mind...
Ever noticed a model chick with the ugliest guy you've ever seen? Got a tip for you, women for whatever reason seem to look at confidence as being more important than physical looks. Yes physical looks plays a part, but generally even the ugliest guy can get a good looking chick simply by being confident in himself.
I reccommend d'angelos book. Not everything may apply but it's a wonderful guideline. BTW, you probably know this but just in case... Don't ever use a pickup line, or a one liner period. They're bad news. | |
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WS6TA
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Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 128 | |
| Re: Unattractive?
Posted: 11/13/2004 7:14:14 AM |
dos equis:
Don't ever use a pickup line, or a one liner period. They're bad news.
Very well said
Just be yourself and say "Hi" then introduce yourself. It's way soooo much cooler and will be recevied graciously. Women here pick up lines all the time so you can imagine what they think of them. Chose to be different and you will have their attention from the get-go... | |
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| Unattractive?
Posted: 6/26/2005 7:16:51 PM | | No you are not ugly. I wouldnot pay to much attention to the rate my photo thing on this site. I have even been rated a 1. People rate you a 1 for a number of reasons alot of times its because of jealousy. Thats why I dont do the rate the photo thing anymore to many immature people use it | |
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| Unattractive?
Posted: 6/26/2005 7:25:23 PM | WS... I think maybe the voting on your image is because its the pirate pic? You're a good looking guy! the other photo you have ..well..gee..I see nothing wrong with it at all! The most attractive feature is a smile and if you can look in a persons eyes when talking to them, thats a plus for sure. Be yourself and feel good about that. You are fine!!!! | |
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| Unattractive?
Posted: 6/26/2005 8:18:42 PM | well...i've been told i'm not overly repulsive, people are 70/40 on my personality, but emotionally... too damaged for people to get close to me. i used to think i was repairable with the right woman, but how stupid is that? C'MON NOW!. So, i'm a realist. i'm not scouting out caves in the mountains or anything but i am trying to get on with my life with the understanding that hey, it was a fun ride while it lasted, now i have my cat.
my point is, even though i got sidetracked, is that looks aside, it's what's inside that counts. if looks were the only thing that counted do you think the bearded lady would be single? mind you she did marry the dog-faced boy, but hey! they're happy. (looks mean nothing in the long run). it's the heart beating inside. and if it's a good heart (not the thumpity thump part)
that's what counts. REMEMBER THAT.
(BITE ME, MATH WAS NEVER MY STRONG POINT, LOL) | |
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| Unattractive?
Posted: 6/26/2005 9:38:56 PM | | You are actually quite attractive. Here is what you need to do. First, get a more stylish shirt for your next photo. Second, either pay to have professional photos taken or have a friend who is good at photography take them. Unless you are missing some teeth, smile. You need to look friendly and welcoming. Third, just use the pirate pic as an extra photo. Use your real self as the primary photo. Fourth, make your profile more upbeat. It sounds like you are into self pity. You need to come across as happy. Fifth, expand your horizons about the type of women you would be willing to date. Many older or larger sized women would welcome the chance to date you. Keep in mind it's just a date, just try to have a good time and get some dating experience. It's not like you will be getting engaged to her or anything like that. Oh, and during your date, be upbeat and confident. Now, go out there and get 'em!! | |
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| Unattractive?
Posted: 9/11/2005 11:13:42 PM | | Mabye you arent jerky enough. | |
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. Besides if and when that time comes you will do fine. Just be yourself it will either go your way or it will not. If its the latter then even worry less because she isn't the one for you and say: "Next Please!"
