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nogo3
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Joined: 2/26/2007
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/24/2008 10:01:47 AM | Hey, its like this, if a woman did not have a pusssy most men would not have any use for women, they should just shut the hell up and fuk and the guys should go to the whore houses where they have real women, not a bunch of crybabies.
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/24/2008 10:28:05 AM | Here goes the top ten:
10. Stop blaming men for your weaknesses.
9. If you say you are not looking to get serious and THEN have sex with him, he is
just following your instructions. He's not calling because then that
means more sex and sooner or later with that, come expectations.
8. Check your profile. If your pics are sexually provocative men will
think you are looking for sex and not even care to hear what you have to say.
7. Don't put yourself in precarious situations. Stay in a public place with no beds.
6. Don't go the movies or sit and watch a movie on your first date with someone.
You don't get to know them and the darkness can lead to physical contact.
5. Don't wear "come and get me" wear. You can be sexy without me sexually provocative.
4. If your profile says DATING 9 times out of 10 men will interpret that as
I'm into having fun, no strings attached, and sex is a definite possibility.
3. Don't start kissing on the first date before being dropped off at the end
of the night, if at all, it may escalate and weakness of the flesh may take over.
Depending on how much alcohol was consumed.
2. If you flirt sexually over the phone with the guy before you meet him there is
anticipation of things to come and he will make a move.
DRUMROLL PLEASE..........................
1. Stop being in denial, you know you probably wanted it too and just because
he didn't call, you think he didn't like it, and your ego is bruised. Move on, if
you feel used, think about it this way, you used him too and it was mutually
satisfying. You're an adult deal with it. | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/24/2008 11:49:33 AM | TheUnXpected, msg 454:
This deserves to be quoted, and it's from a woman no less. That's awesome.
10. Stop blaming men for your weaknesses.
9. If you say you are not looking to get serious and THEN have sex with him, he is
just following your instructions. He's not calling because then that
means more sex and sooner or later with that, come expectations.
8. Check your profile. If your pics are sexually provocative men will
think you are looking for sex and not even care to hear what you have to say.
7. Don't put yourself in precarious situations. Stay in a public place with no beds.
6. Don't go the movies or sit and watch a movie on your first date with someone.
You don't get to know them and the darkness can lead to physical contact.
5. Don't wear "come and get me" wear. You can be sexy without me sexually provocative.
4. If your profile says DATING 9 times out of 10 men will interpret that as
I'm into having fun, no strings attached, and sex is a definite possibility.
3. Don't start kissing on the first date before being dropped off at the end
of the night, if at all, it may escalate and weakness of the flesh may take over.
Depending on how much alcohol was consumed.
2. If you flirt sexually over the phone with the guy before you meet him there is
anticipation of things to come and he will make a move.
DRUMROLL PLEASE..........................
1. Stop being in denial, you know you probably wanted it too and just because
he didn't call, you think he didn't like it, and your ego is bruised. Move on, if
you feel used, think about it this way, you use infantisizing d him too and it was mutually
satisfying. You're an adult deal with it.
While I think numbers 7, 6, and 3 are retarded and infantilizing (we're mature enough to make our own decisions and follow through with them, right?), I agree with the rest. | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/24/2008 12:02:41 PM | why do men think they can use women for sex?
Erm because they can!!
Works both ways..simply a thinly disguised "ive been used" thread..weve all been there weve all done it and weve all been on the recieving end..get over it. | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/24/2008 3:56:22 PM | Just because they CAN........!!!
does not at ALL make it the right thing to do.
Doing something you know isn't right or moral, but you know you can get away with it?
Snickering sneakily to yourself..."heh heh heh....look what I did! Look what I got away with! I got this chick to lemme bang her...God what a studmuffin I is.....who cares if she might have gotten hurt or felt used; don't matter to me! Stupid bxtch couldn't resist me or keep her legs closed so she got what she deserved."
Yah....great person there. Oughta be walking around really really proud of themselves.
And have almost every other guy in the world laughin' and cheerin' you on for "gettin' over on the stupid ignorant beeyotch".
Yippee. Hurrah. Whoop de frikkin dooooo....... | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/24/2008 4:48:45 PM | Just because they CAN........!!!
does not at ALL make it the right thing to do.
Doing something you know isn't right or moral, but you know you can get away with it?
Snickering sneakily to yourself..."heh heh heh....look what I did! Look what I got away with! I got this chick to lemme bang her...God what a studmuffin I is.....who cares if she might have gotten hurt or felt used; don't matter to me! Stupid bxtch couldn't resist me or keep her legs closed so she got what she deserved."
Yah....great person there. Oughta be walking around really really proud of themselves.
And have almost every other guy in the world laughin' and cheerin' you on for "gettin' over on the stupid ignorant beeyotch".
Yippee. Hurrah. Whoop de frikkin dooooo.......
This is all irrelevant to this specific situation. I understand that because you are a bitter dried up prune, it's your impulse to immediately blame the guy, but try thinking about what you read before you post next time. You are just projecting. This is very telling about you. Sucks to be you.
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/24/2008 4:57:33 PM |
Now i made it clear to him I wasn't looking for anything serious at this time. But i also made it clear that i wasn't into one nite stands.
Mixed signals galore!!!!
During the movie we started kissing and one thing lead to another. We ended up in bed. Now i was absolutely positive I would be seeing him again. For sure i would talk to him again.
Even more mixed signals!!! Why did you think "for sure" you would see him again?
Days went by and nothing. I told myself that this wouldn't hurt me. But it does. I am human. How can men be so cold?
You made a mistake by breaking your own rule of sleeping with him. If he didn't contact you, you learn from that mistake. Besides, yet again, you told him you didn't want anything serious....if you wanted FWB you should have been more specific.
And all men are not cold, and you cannot generalize or blame men the world over for one person's actions.
Live and learn, don't do it again, move on. | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/24/2008 4:58:18 PM | What I don't understand is that if men only want sex (as is stated by many here) why do they not stay with the one they can have sex from... and instead choose to cut loose and run?
This is a scenario that is put time and time again on these forums.
This doesn't make sense to me... maybe it was not "just the sex" after all? Maybe it was more that they wanted and decided they couldn't have?
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Posted: 4/24/2008 5:09:31 PM | MEN DONT CARE, men assume us woman are going to sleep with em on the first meeting, uuummmm its mostly the womans fault and some of the men on here to, cuz they think every woman is easy most are lol, not me, and it has to do with the way us woman present ourselves on here if ur profile says your looking for sex, or other relationship obvoisuly your going to have horny guys msg you, its they way you present yourself to these people on here if u have half naked pics of yourself posted on here obvously your going to get those annoying msgs, and the whole oh ya i watched a movie with him and we ended up in the sack, oh no pity you please! duh! my god you woman ughh! its called self respect no wonder he never called you hun he figured well your easy enough for me all i gotta do is get you comfotable get you on the couch say those sweet nothings into your ear nibble on you ear lobe a lil and im in ha ha boom you spread em as wide as an eagle spreads its wings, okay! jeese! and then he'll think well if shes thiseasy then ya she'll prolly sleep with all my friends so i gotta get rid of her after, woman if your reading this read this part if you meet up with a guy and you honestly dont want it to go further then a few drinks or just chill and watch a movie make sure he knows that and if he pushes it on you, you know he's a dog and he has no respect for you, slap him if you have to, make it clear to these men that you just want to chill. i feel like dr.phil right now posting this butt ya screen these men a lil more b4 jumping to meet em okay? and when you msg people on here be honest on what you want dont lead a man on unless you know what you are doing (i had a nasty experience on here) i know ive met a few dudes off of here that i have gone out and then end up at his place and these dudes assuming ill sleep with em................ nope, see i dont sleep around, i respect myself the only way a guy is going to get into me or even touch me is if ive known him for a long time. hugs to the insecure woman out there!!!! thank god i aint insecure! | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/24/2008 5:09:45 PM | | Because you let them.If women were smarter they would know check him out 1st and see what he is really like words mean nothing actions say everything.If all you want is sex then have one night stands but if your looking for more be picky everyone shows their true colers after time.If more women would wait there would be better class of men on here but because some women put out so easily it attacts this site a lot of scumbags.Be smarter next time keep your legs closed till he opens his heart to you 1st | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/24/2008 5:14:11 PM |
MEN DONT CARE, men assume us woman are going to sleep with em on the first meeting, uuummmm its mostly the womans fault and some of the men on here to, cuz they think every woman is easy most are lol, not me, and it has to do with the way us woman present ourselves on here if ur profile says your looking for sex, or other relationship obvoisuly your going to have horny guys msg you, its they way you present yourself to these people on here if u have half naked pics of yourself posted on here obvously your going to get those annoying msgs, and the whole oh ya i watched a movie with him and we ended up in the sack, oh no pity you please! duh! my god you woman ughh! its called self respect no wonder he never called you hun he figured well your easy enough for me all i gotta do is get you comfotable get you on the couch say those sweet nothings into your ear nibble on you ear lobe a lil and im in ha ha boom you spread em as wide as an eagle spreads its wings, okay! jeese! and then he'll think well if shes thiseasy then ya she'll prolly sleep with all my friends so i gotta get rid of her after, woman if your reading this read this part if you meet up with a guy and you honestly dont want it to go further then a few drinks or just chill and watch a movie make sure he knows that and if he pushes it on you, you know he's a dog and he has no respect for you, slap him if you have to, make it clear to these men that you just want to chill. i feel like dr.phil right now posting this butt ya screen these men a lil more b4 jumping to meet em okay? and when you msg people on here be honest on what you want dont lead a man on unless you know what you are doing (i had a nasty experience on here) i know ive met a few dudes off of here that i have gone out and then end up at his place and these dudes assuming ill sleep with em................ nope, see i dont sleep around, i respect myself the only way a guy is going to get into me or even touch me is if ive known him for a long time. hugs to the insecure woman out there!!!! thank god i aint insecure!
Unreadable wall of text. Try paragraphs next time, if you want people to read what you type. | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/26/2008 8:54:54 AM | Janet4ever wrote:
****** What I don't understand is that if men only want sex (as is stated by many here) why do they not stay with the one they can have sex from... and instead choose to cut loose and run? ******
From what I've seen, some men are scared to death to commit. I've had male friends tell me that if they even start to feel a little something for a woman, she's gone. It's very sad, but that's how it seems to be now. Men like that don't like to feel as though anyone has a hold on them, so just having sex with random partners keeps them from feeling "tied down" and they get to satisfy their urges or play their little games.
Sharzi | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/30/2008 1:00:51 AM | | I have to agree with you. Most of what you post seems exactly what I am thinking. But I think some women are upset that there arent more men of principle out there that wouldnt use a woman for sex even if they can....it says toa woman that a man has sexual self control and that is a much sought after quality in men by women who are seeking a long term committed relationship. Idk why so many women are complaining though, the times that I have had sexual encounters with a person that I later regretted were as much about my lack of self controll as his, despite popular belief we women have some crazy A$$ hormones too lol.....although to be honest I have never been sexual with someone that I wasnt in a relationship, or had a long friendship with, and yes thats because I am sooooo good lol, I knew you were gonna say that. But seriously we need to quit blaming the other party for everything, we women are able to say no, so I guess the flip side of the coin would be "Why do women let men use them for sex?"I mean common', most women know whats going on, we all have the ability to read actions, most women know and they either dont want to acknowlege reality, or they are ok with the situation. Not to say that its ok, if its not the situation agreed upon. If you arent getting what you need or want from a relationship, end it. its as simple as that. Hey! Where are the paragraphs??!?! | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/30/2008 1:11:50 AM | | B!tch is crazy lol, why is she? on a dating site if she thinks men hate women?....unless she is a lesbian, in which case I retract my last statement.... | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 4/30/2008 1:47:10 AM | Sometimes ppl are going threw or been things in their lives that makes them cold ppl or they dont even relize how mean they are ... Then there are those who just have a cold storage shed where their heart should be ... You shouldnt have done that is true , but we all make our mistakes ... live and learn ... take care  | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 5/7/2008 6:58:16 PM | | There is nothing wrong with sleeping with someone on a first date. It happens. It can grow from there into something amazing or it can stop there. Ive had both occur. If hes a jerk then its no fault of yours. Don't put up walls because fo someone that can't listen to what you want. | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 5/7/2008 7:07:00 PM | I don't know if this has been mentioned yet ( I'm not going to go through 19 pages ), and nobody will comment on my post anyway, but :
I think one of the biggest risks of sleeping with someone before there is an emotional attachment is that if they don't consider you all that great in bed for whatever reason there is no emotion to forgive or have patience that it will get better. | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 5/12/2008 7:51:38 PM | heres my story. I had a date with a sweet lady.At the begining of our date at a nice restaurant , we chatted about almost everything Except sex, after a movie and we drove to her place ,wlked her to her house ,she open the front door and I reached out to shake her hand and all of a sudden ,I found my self kissing her and our clothes just coming off, I carried her to her bed and WOW! what a night ,It was like it was planned. so you never know, thats my input
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 5/12/2008 11:56:45 PM | | yes explosive chemistry..right on the money...I went on a date with a girl my buudy set me up with.. no intention of anyhting as i had just come off of a relationship...we went out played pool..well couple dates later..watched a movie.. and the kissing thing happens.. we both know... the best thing to do right after that first peck before the intense kissing happens is to ask.... what is this gonna be...guys like that deserve the worst karma.. and often do get it down the road...they make good honorable men look bad before a girl even meets him..learn from this. and move on.. he will get his in life don't worry.. | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:03:47 AM | The same reason alot of women just use men for money.
I read your experience and one thing i noticed is that: "Now i made it clear to him I wasn't looking for anything serious at this time. But i also made it clear that i wasn't into one nite stands".
So after making this clear and you both agree on it, how the hell didyou end up jumping his bones?  | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:42:00 AM | So after making this clear and you both agree on it, how the hell didyou end up jumping his bones? She was duped into believing that this guy wasn't looking for one night stands or 1st date sex.
Until someone proves me wrong, methinks a dead-certain way to avoid one night stand scenarios after the 1st date is not to consent to 1st date sex. Right? | |
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