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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 7:43:02 AM | but your wrongin china the woman does get fixed but if the guy goes around other woman and does this its a crime in chine to do this and wong dong does get cut loose. so why dont you go there and find out player. i doubl dog dare you. LOL
No need to to go to "chine", just google for it. Unless you mean the ancient Chinese times, when adulterous couples were punished, him by cutting his pecker, her by cutting her nose. By the way, aren't you a bit grownup to use "LOL"?
when a guy comments my rant on players besure to beleive its a player
Yes ladies, besure to beleive I'm a player.
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 7:44:48 AM |
Well ladies and gents i dissagree with all the men in the build saying its her fault.
There is always one,, who likes to jump up and try and prove how special they are at the expense of other,, it's apparent you haven't read the OP original statement.
I think most people said,,( men ans woman) OP need to take responsibility for her actions and not just blame men..
I was wondering has your emails increased....
[quot]Why i say this is that there are a lot of players who play the are a nice guy so man out there that its hit and run all over the place.
That may have some truth to it,, but it's also saying women aren't smart enough to see through that bull,, I don't believe that,, but you suggest women are nieve..
there whoud be a penis law that states if you let it jump for fun you get sterlized. they need to do this. this would teach men to stop playing women.
Do they have that law on your planet... Again you assume women can't see through players, and that women are stupid,, I think not,,
Sorry but its true men go in to have sex wiuth intent to hurt the girl with out care. some women do it too but its mostly men or kids i say.
You used the word bipolar, are you off your meds today.. your statements are so extreme,, as I try and grasp the reality in which you live...
Bipolar means a person who doesn't want to grow up, but sure does have a lot of sex.
You may want to check the definition of bipolar,,,this might be a how your describing your self (Janus-faced) to try and make women believe your the special one,, by being "deliberate deceptive"
Just my opinion, and that my rant,,
As I stated before, OP, the guy should have called, but she need to take reposnsibilty for her actions as well,, she made it clear, "No SEX"
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 7:52:14 AM |
Yes ladies, besure to beleive I'm a player.
Rock,, I'm with you on that one too.. I have player written all over my profile,, I'm so afraid the pecker police are going to come and get me,,,
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Posted: 12/1/2008 10:59:28 AM | SEE LADIES THIS HOW BOLD PLAYERS ARE. THEY HAVE TO TRY TO COMMENT WHAT I JUST SAID, THEN THEY TRY TO DISPROVE ME. THE THING IS IM A GUY AND I KNOW WHAT YOU PLAYERS DO YOUR SICK AND DEMENTED. YOUR LIFE EVOLVES AROUND YOUR LITTLE HEAD.
So why not try to be more compassion towards the girls that got played and laid. she must have like the guy and was willing to give it up to him on the fauls feeling he set for her. when a woman does this shes makinga big statement she saying that she w ill to lie down with the man she wants. but leave it to hartless players to comment what i say. I know you hate it. If you are not a player you wouldnt comment on what i say. you would have compassion and agree.
I want to push for a law that goes after mentwho just want to have sex with as many sexual partners as they can find and spead there STD's to every one. You guys are the one bipolar who think its ok to play woman with out feelings towards them. The law should be if they are caught doing multifle partners for sex games that they get sterialized since they are not contributing to forming a new life to grow but rather sex machine of woman.
here is another hint for woman to know about players. Players like to down talk you in a fun way. they try to find words you say out of your mouth that they can used against you for sexual indo indos to get you to laugh and break the ice. see players know if they can get a woman to start thinking about sex then shes going wanting to start having sex. not that this works all the time but it does work for some of them out there. Another tool is alcohol to get your ice wall down. there is also the fact that they search for woman they know they can get in bed thats in there range. so the next time a hot guy is hitting on you its a sure bet hes a player looking to score. players motto is all women are whores thats how they think. its all a game to them. Regular guys are not like this infact its the guy you passed up for the bad boy who just played you.
another one of there tricks is the touching thing were they touching your hands and commenting you about your jewlery, theres the hair touching thing and then the touch of your face that all this leads to entiment feelings and with alcohol it just happens too much. these are just little bit of what they do. hey ladies if you want to know more ill glady show you stuff for free just message me. i have a book that ill show you for free about these sexual predators as i call them.
dont get me wrong there are woman that do this too but not as many as guys that do it. then there are woman who are loose free spirited or just love having sex. but there those of you out there who wanta relation ship but to only get played buy guys who only want flesh intake for the night.
thats my rant about players using woman for sex. this dating site is full of them on here i can see that now this why its hard to date woman cause of them. | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 11:17:52 AM | Ladie remember the guy names and faces that are attacking my comments here thse are the ones who are players. normal guys will agree with what i said caues they too are tired of it. Just remember these profiles that are making the comments.   | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 11:45:53 AM |
hey ladies if you want to know more ill glady show you stuff for free just message me. i have a book that ill show you for free about this predators as i call them.
LMAO,,,, how is all that working out for you,, the book I mean,, how many women have fallen for that,, I would guess none,,,and that is why your here.
this dating site is full of them on here i can see that now this why its hard to date woman cause of them.
Not only do you try and belittle men, but you also insinuate women are stupid little creatures,
from what ever planet you come from, your here to enlighten women, about what they do as failures, how they fall for these stupid little tricks that men do, how women are so naive that they can't see through it, at the same trying to castrate the men.
You really need to get a grip on life.. The OP by her own omission, said no sex, you can't be saying she is so nieve to have sex on the first date, ......... by saying no, she is quite aware of the possibility that some players do exist,, That guy must have been really good to fool that woman,, I think not, she is not stupid,, she knew what she was doing......... | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 11:55:20 AM |
I have player written all over my profile,, I'm so afraid the pecker police are going to come and get me,,,
RDCNorm - I scanned through your profile and no where does it say that you will lie to get what you want and then never speak to a woman again. Your profile stressed that you are a caring, responsible father who is looking for an honest woman with intergrity. Why do you need an honest woman with integrity if you only want to sleep with them? Why does their character matter and yours does not? I'm just asking..... You are not as forthright as you think you are.
Guy Ritchie - You are just confirming what we have already suspected all along. I think some men are angry at you and threatening to revoke your Man Card because you are making them look bad and yourself look awfully good. God forbid any man should really be expected to have integrity and be accountable. If they don't think it's right for a woman to sleep with them right away, why shouldn't a man be expected to say no? Is their whole life ruled by their penises? And I definitely agree about the whole birth control issue. Men and women should have all the fun they want as long as they have control of their reproduction. If women want their sexual freedom they should be ready to terminate an unwanted pregnancy or be prepared and prevent it in the first place.
.....and all of the holier than thou women who say if you make a man wait for it that he's going to be devoted to you, have more staying power, fall head over heels in love, or even that it's going to be a great relationship. That only works in romantic comedys if you look like a supermodel. A guy is not going to keep bending over backwards for the average woman if she gives no indication that she is attracted to him. I know from past experience if the sparks aren't flying by the 2nd or 3rd date it ain't happening EVER. There are no guarantees with men and ladies might as well take what they want while the fire's hot. It's a huge gamble with men - don't gamble with something you can't afford to lose. | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 12:10:27 PM |
Why do you need an honest woman with integrity if you only want to sleep with them? Why does their character matter and yours does not? I'm just asking..... You are not as forthright as you think you are.
I have no idea what you are suggesting or why that question would even come up in an open forum,, what my profile states has nothing to do with the stupidity of this forum,, and no where did i say, I ONLY WANT TO SLEEP WITH A WOMAN,, and never would I,,, I take offence to those statements,,
When I say stupidly,, I mean,, OP made a choice, it didn't turn out the way she expected,, yet a man/ all men are blamed for it... I say stop and take some responsibility for your actions,, how my profile comes it to this is beyond me,, other that the rediclious comments I have been reading on this last page by Ritchie,,
That said,, I agree, the man OP slept with should have made a phone call,, very poor taste, poor example of a man,, but to say or suggest all men are like that or players as Ritchie suggests,, is just asinine.. | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 12:13:05 PM |
God forbid any man should really be expected to have integrity and be accountable.
And God forbid any woman should really be expected to have integrity and be held accountable for her actions. Seems to me, most men here (and women as well) are stating both participants should each be held accountable. However, that would require some men to step up and be honest with themselves and women and also require some women to step up and be honest and hand in their 'victim card'.
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 3:15:27 PM | Rd, I think MissMew was trying to point out your double standardized statement of suggesting that the OP shouldve took more responsibility for what had happened or came to be. By your own acknowledgment, the OP DID say NO sex on the 1st date-So pleeeeease just to help clear this all up once & for ALL -for all womankind out here ...WHAT PART OF NO DID'NT HE GET to even begin with? This IS 'our' (as women)whole point! Men are not showing any respect for a womens decision!!!
SHE made the 'decision' to even BE with HIM to begin with! Then he begs, compliments,romances, cuddles, arouses, wines &/or dines...Yes even practically bends over backwards too sometimes, making her feel like he just could be 'the one' for her-JUSTIFING her 1st decision!
...then oops! Here comes Mr Wong to put a damper onto everything .Guys will insist most times that he CANT even help it. So, as a woman(not having one)we try to overlook it, or be more understanding towards what your (false?) intentions really were(see actions above)by the fact that you also wanted to be with us too(false?)-Even at the expense of our own decision not to even go there! But by then, youve already convinced us by now too, that it would all be just so great...if only ...
Its only AFTER a man tosses a woman like a used condom, does she get to realize that YOU were never even with her to begin with!-Only Mr Wong was!> :bananna:
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 3:26:19 PM | Please show me where i said this, or even suggested this
I ONLY WANT TO SLEEP WITH A WOMAN,,
show me where I said or imply a double standard for me,, if you do,, use all I said to quote me.
and I see no reason to go to my profile. and look for what,, I have no clue...
as for OP ,, she should take more responsibility for her actions,, just read the forum topic,, "why do "MEN" think they can use women for sex" now if she feels used, that is not all 'MENS" fault...I have read her other replays,, as she back peddles,,, | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 3:39:59 PM | uh, oooook.....
I have player written all over my profile
Also..
That guy must have been really good to fool that woman,, I think not, she is not stupid,, she knew what she was doing.........
HE as well too! Hes got all the equipment here-he just wont account for it! | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 3:47:02 PM | You pose the question: "why do men think they can use women for sex?"
Some men can and will because some women allow it. Obviously, in this case we can assume many factors from every angle and your intention is clear that it was no way supposed to be a one night stand.
Sadly, its happened to many of us and we just learn and move on.
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 3:49:25 PM | OP...
I went on a date with a man awhile ago. Now i made it clear to him I wasn't looking for anything serious at this time. But i also made it clear that i wasn't into one nite stands. We agreed that our relationship wouldn't be either of those things. He was so nice and gentle. Didn't make any moves at first. He looked like the average cute boy next door type. We talked for awhile, then we watched a movie. We ended up in bed. Now i was absolutely positive I would be seeing him again. For sure i would talk to him again. The next day I emailed him thanking him for a nice evening. He didn't respond. Ok a little rude but whatever. Days went by and nothing. I told myself that this wouldn't hurt me. But it does. I am human. How can men be so cold? I understand he doesn't want to be my b/f. Cool. But totally ignoring you, like you were the scum of the earth. That is cruel and inhuman. Is it my fault for sleeping with him on the first date? Should have i expected such treatment because of it? I guess i am too naive. I will never make that mistake again. I would like to know how other men feel about this happening to a woman.
you asked this
WHAT PART OF NO DID'NT HE GET
All you have to do is read OP post line by line,, please notice,, he was a nice guy,didn't make any first moves,,
then notice we started kissing and wound up in bed,,
I have to ask you,, what did OP mean by NO SEX... that sounds a little like double talk,,
OP also made it clear she wasn't looking for any thing serious,, both agreed,,
Now I ask you,, what part of NO was he supposed to get,, and what part of NO did OP mean...
I agree NO mean NO,, but YES means YES too,,
I agree the guy should have called,, but neither one was looking for a serious relationship,,as stated by OP...
Yet all men are using women for sex, and she wants to know why,, I have to ask,, Why would some one sleep with someone( that's OK) but to say your going to have a happy ending without knowing someone is quite stupid,, because how much do you really know about that person,,,
Personally I have no issues with women having sex, men having sex,, matter of fact it's none of my business,, I have done that and been there,, I don't judge anyone for doing that,, but when they come to a forum ,, speak as if a mans fault because she gave up sex,, and not take some responsibility,, | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 3:51:13 PM |
Please show me where i said this, or even suggested this
I ONLY WANT TO SLEEP WITH A WOMAN,,
Rdc - I'm not picking at you. You are giving mixed messages as the following is a quote from your previous post.
Rock,, I'm with you on that one too.. I have player written all over my profile,, | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 3:51:59 PM | A woman never has to be used for sex. First off, don`t believe a word they say.
Secondly, don`t get tanked up around them, third don`t go anywhere private with them, fourth, if they corner you and are getting out of line, threaten to kick them in the nuts. Pretty simple actually.
If you want to get laid , get laid, but don`t whineabout it afterwords. Men lie to get sex, end of story. If you don`t believe this, I don`t think there is any hope. If he is interested in you for more than sex, and he pushes to the pointthat you are not comfortable on the first date, he isn`t respecting you, throw him back. A guy that wantsto get to know you will respect your boundaries.
After I told the guy I was going to kick his nuts off, he backed off. He learned respect. He also called back for a second date-----uh, I don`t think so. | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 3:58:38 PM | laura,, Please ........look at the man I was talking to,, it was derogatory to his stupid statements,, because this man was saying all men are players, and he was making himself out as some sort of saint,,
I would say, it's important to look at other quotes and comment before just picking what you choose..
matter of fact, when i said this "I have player written all over my profile"
all one needs to do is look at the profile and should know it's not true, as some one did,, yet what should have been done is follow the conversation of the previous posts,, I was proving a point to that guy,, and it would matter because he believes all men are players,, | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 4:02:30 PM | | missmewsic ..... again,, trying reading a little before hand,, before you make that kind of judgement,, as for mixed messages,, I think not,, some people choose to read what they like too, and forget the rest,, | |
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Posted: 12/1/2008 7:20:40 PM | What im reading here is even women writing to this post think its ok that men play women. yes this girl let the guy have his fun but you also have to look out side the box and know that men players use skills to get women like this. this is not your ordenary guy here doing this but a well lubricate fing machine that does this night and day 24/7 with out regret or morals. We will never truly know it was a player or just some guy who got lucky but what ever it was he sure did know and she did know what they were doing.
My exploits are this, we now live in a world of deciet and guys and gals play games in the world of dating. Players being the dominate people tend to play on women who are weak and have a low esteem. I also knowthat older women thing younger women should learn on ther own from mistakes they made them selves so as its said missery loves company. so girls if you thing older gals are your friend on this subject think again. As for guys we knowthat normal guys will agree they get a lot of flack from women thing they are players since women have that ice wall to fight off players so they think. what they are really doing is fighing off guys there not attracted too LOL.
But in any fact this post should have ended a long time ago. we all know jack and jill didnt take the pill and had a very nice time and jack shite left town. end of story | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 8:27:33 PM |
what they are really doing is fighing off guys there not attracted too
Ummmm, correct me if I'm wrong, but.....the OP didn't fight this guy off.....she must have been attracted to him because she had sex with him. Or, are you saying the OP had sex with a guy she wasn't even attracted to because his powers of persuasion were so elevated? Or, perhaps he was a hypnotist? 
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/1/2008 8:36:18 PM | Was the sex so bad she is complaining? Or was it the fact she gave it up and that means he has to come back for more? Or there was strings on the Sex? Was it the i give you some so now your mine?.............Shoot i thought sex was sex...i didnt know it was a tool! Work it Honey!
Do we know if the guy left cuz the sex was bad? | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/2/2008 10:04:49 AM | SOME ,not all ,men use women for sex. But maybe you shouldn't have just taken your panties off so quickly. Live and Learn. A man that really is sincere in being with you and getting to know you, will wait until you are both comfortable. Looks like the wolf got what he wanted. Until you respect yourself you can't expect others to respect you. | |
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| why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 12/2/2008 10:08:08 AM | | I don't think the OP was used at all. I think she just did what she intended to do and is upset because he did not call her the next day. And, is now trying to put the blame on the poor harmless innocent guy that SHE took advantage of. | |
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