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Posted: 5/29/2008 4:28:50 PM | | I don't mind if you choose to dress as a woman at all - this is a free country - and I wish you luck in finding your perfect partner. What I do mind is men using public female toilets when they are dressed as women. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 5:46:50 PM | Msg 33, for god's sakes..it's been fairly well established at this stage that whoever appears on your your matches is pretty much coincidental. The UK is relatively small in comparison with North America and the rest of the world...it's not like POF are trying to punish you in their attempts to match you with apparently unsuitable people by deliberately zoning in on you and choosing cross-dressers for your perusal and hopefully..approval.
Jesus ..I think I would be massively happy if I imagined the whole world must, should and beyond a shadow of a doubt revolve around me like yourself - I would have so much to complain and moan about I would never have a moment to really reflect upon my own fallabilities and reasons why I remain unloved/unloveable/unremarkable/etcetera...
The world's our oyster...but I doubt extreme expectations of what you imagine constitutes your over-all goal in life is unlimiting and inviting to possible acquaintances let alone prospective beloved's..Being selective is good..practising your right to be choosy is fine but being a person who condemns others and is hypercritical is so big a turn off its not true. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2008 8:38:33 AM | | I definitely think you should be open about it up front. In theory, your profile would then only attract people who accept your 'hobby'. I wouldn't want to invest my valuable time on a person only to find out later that he's a cross-dresser because it's not something I would accept in a relationship. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2008 8:45:32 AM | I think I would wait til the first formal date. Just how much personal info do you give to strangers?
I'm not a woman but I would appreciate knowing something that diverse from the first date, and if I'd got to first proper date then I probably wouldn't be bothered by it. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2008 4:12:51 PM | You wouldnt know who i was Sparkli but others would ive sent normal pics to people on here just prefer to post the dressed up ones. I think since i started this thread ive dressed up 3 times max. So people may feel as its all dressed up pics thats me all the time. Its not its just showing this is part of me, if you get to know me and things happen (POF Members not you lol) then dont sling it in my face years down the line.
Some good posts on this thread thanks. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2008 4:15:08 PM | Preta
I can see what you are saying RE the toilets. I have to say that ive very rarely if ever used a toilet in public dressed but when i have been out dressed up of a night with friends/ex gf etc in clubs i have used the ladies. Wouldnt fancy being headbutted in the gents lol.
But i can see exactly what youre saying. I would try not to go to be hones and wait till got home. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2008 11:33:29 PM | Aslong as your honest and open about it,i wouldnt have thought alot of the women would be put off by it.
Aslong as your,you from the start then it wouldnt be a problem. | |
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Posted: 10/16/2008 12:58:34 AM | Funny, a lot of my posts have been vanishing lately and there was one on this thread.
I was wondering why so many of the posters here seem to have deleted their profiles. Are moral vigilantes targeting them or what?
The other point I made was that there seem to be no F to M cross dressers. Although females clothes now seem to include many garments once thought apt for men, the cut is different, and F to M cross-dressing can (the right clothes on he right person) be very attractive. | |
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Posted: 10/16/2008 1:07:52 AM | | i agree grumpy upstairs i have a grey trouser and waistcoat i wear out ocassionally. I rather like it but it would be I guess originally a man type of clothing. Maybe it's more acceptable for a woman to wear mens clothing than vice versa, how many of us nick dads/byfs jumpers etc I know in the past when caught short staying at a partners iv even wore there boxers!! yet no one would think that was wrong. | |
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Posted: 10/16/2008 4:54:53 AM | | I wouldnt care as long as you didnt dress as a tart! Or if you stole my clothes! | |
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Posted: 10/16/2008 1:45:54 PM | I wish you lived near me. I don't want kids and I love**** in frocks.
You look great. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2008 12:23:23 AM | Well OP cus i live alone i sometimes wonder who wears the trousers in this home !! i tell ya i go work all day and come home and im sat at the pc and nothing gets done ..so in reply to your question ..what was the question? hold on a min !!
ahhh right im afraid if i was a woman id be a lesbian so it wouldnt affect me ! | |
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Posted: 10/17/2008 2:09:53 AM | I wish you lived near me. I don't want kids and I love**** in frocks.
You look great.
I think maybe the "Big Bird from Sesame street" style pose in the main pic could be worked on though !! | |
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Posted: 10/17/2008 2:47:19 AM | PMSL 
it was the first time for ages when i took that pic, concentrate on the legs lol.
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had a few messages off these posts so i will take the rough with the smooth. There are some kinky women about.
Back to the point.. So by being open about it, it is for the best? And i am not being blinkered as the dating profile is basically saying this is me sometimes like it or lump it?
The other way is normal profile with a bit about what i like doing and one pic dressed.?
I just felt it would be less of a shock to some women if it was in the open rather than on the eve of the meet saying ive just bought a new dress and undies espeially for tomorrow lol. | |
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