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 Ur Xoxo

Joined: 7/16/2007
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Men are not always strong...
Posted: 4/22/2008 4:24:06 PM
Why is it that when i open my heart to anyone it seems like it gets broken worse each time?


I agree with a previous poster... Unsettled affairs. The emotional heart is a very tricky thing.
Learning from the hardship(s) accrued, or failings of the last relationship, helps the next one.


I'm not saying i like to have my heart broken but i refuse to be jaded, so in the long run does that make me weaker?


Opening your heart strings and being jaded go hand in hand. Once in a while it is totally worth all the pain of being refused ones individuality. But most of the time just releasing what is in ones mind, through their heart, is enough in itself as a positive. We need to express our thoughts, emotions and wants. Only then we can be compensated with what we deserve.


I guess I am really wondering if I should try and hide my heart at first...


Do whatever your heart desires, but IMHO, strong men do not hide whatsoever.

This turtle is...
Hiding in my shell,
Ur.
 gentlegendo

Joined: 12/21/2005
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Posted: 4/22/2008 6:40:35 PM
Being strong is being there for those you care about and need you. Seriously, in these things there really is no greater strength then that, and if you do that regularly and unilaterally, you are probably alot stronger then any "macho" man would ever be.

Keep in mind, this ISNT wearing your heart on your sleeve. This is simply showing strength where those who trully need you can see it and take of it themselves.

THAT is true strength, and if you ask me, TRUE manlyness.
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