| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/11/2008 5:30:57 PM | My ex is 19 and now dating a 28 year old I also have a couple of friends whose exes are 20 and 21 both dating 34 year olds. I think that most of the young girls go for the older guys thinking that they are more apt to settle down than a young guy. I think the older guys go for the young girls because they can take advantage of them. The girls are just too stupid to realize that.
lmao .. It's quite funny to see the reverse situation where a boy is made secondary to an older man. Very funny. No most young girls don't go for older men.
It could also mean that younger guys are terribly stupid.. meaning while younger women are not always brilliant they are wise enough to see some disparity.
Edit: here we have a post thats generated mainly out of jealousy .. if not totally fabricated. | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/11/2008 8:10:50 PM | I prefer women between 21-30 but it really depends on
- health and fitness
- looks
- hygiene
- no red flags
- attitude
Unfortunately most women whom I meet over 30 have been divorced at least 1-3 times with kids and have bad attitudes and also bad hygiene and are fat.
Women under 25 usually are fit and have tight bodies. Thats why men like younger women unless the older lady is fit and takes good care of her body and mind. | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/11/2008 8:50:28 PM | | this is the absolute truth that i think a lot you older people dont realize, much as everyone would love to think girls werent like that when you were growing up. Im sure they were but where you people were more concerned what peeople thought and drinking in th bush with your idiot freinds. YOu missed out. Yes there was still people having sex. My girlfreind was telling me first time she was 14 . i was 16 wich was kinda late cuz i was scared and didnt know what the hell i was doing .im 25 and she 18. i wouldnt say its a fantasy, its definatly more of a work in progress, and more headaches you can possibly think of. like every high school meaningless shit thing you can think of. and guy freinds who had crushes on her for years, and blah blah blah. i can honestly say i like girls in the 20-23 more, but it comes down to with who your having fun. i like to go to the bars and dance, and 2step. so why would i want to be with a girl taht wants to watch a movie and where Pj's all weekend and just lie around all night. | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/12/2008 12:17:44 PM |
Peacethx, I beg to differ that a 20 year old girl is better in bed than a 30 year old woman. Maybe some 20 year olds are better to look at in bed than some 30 year olds. But experience is everything when pleasing a man.
So I take it you've been a man?
This still sounds like womanese to me for, "I'm still hot and desirable, dammit!" *pout*
I also like how you referred to the 20 year old as a "girl" and the 30 year old as a "woman." Love it.
Anyway, some 20 year old women have more experience than some 30 year old women. Would that be the best of both worlds then?
I like younger women not because of the obvious reasons. But more along the lines of they are not as jaded.
This is a big thing with me, too. A lot of women around the age of 25 start to get settled into this life rut and lose a lot of their fun feminine energy. They get increasingly bogged down with life, career, responsibility, sometimes kids........ and they're just not as fun to be around. They become dull and boring. | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/12/2008 9:27:59 PM | | women are like cars the older they are, the more they depreciate in value, the more miles they have (sexual partners) the more they depreciate in value, the wear and tear on the body depreciates the value, also foreign womenwill always be more sought after. I dig euro chicks my heart melts for them.......ideally i want to get married in my early 30's to a woman in her mid 20's. | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/13/2008 4:23:25 PM | Quote [But I've seen older women that are worse than they was at a younger age. What I meant though is that they are ambitious vs just giving up. See I'm being ambitious right now going back to school at 31 and that's what I want in a potential mate also.
I want someone just as ambitious as me. ]
Oh ya Nice Catch77, you sure got me. I guess I was too blonde to see that one coming.
You know not all older women give up. Good for you that you are going back to school at your age. I went back to school 2 years ago to get a better education. I was really young when I had my kids so i didn't go to college until a couple years ago. Worked my butt off, achieved high grades and two degrees, and fulltime mom as well. Geez, i'm not ambitious at all. You don't have a clue, do you? Actually you're not alone by the looks of it.
Wmulb, Oh ya baby!! | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/13/2008 4:33:47 PM | [This still sounds like womanese to me for, "I'm still hot and desirable, dammit!" *pout* ]
Hey raphael, so have you been a woman? You seem to know their language. Womanese.
[So I take it you've been a man?]
Nope, but I've been a 20 year old woman. I know a lot more about how to please a man now than I did then. Have you been with any 20 year olds? How about 30 year olds? | |
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Posted: 5/13/2008 11:09:16 PM |
You know not all older women give up. Good for you that you are going back to school at your age. I went back to school 2 years ago to get a better education. I was really young when I had my kids so i didn't go to college until a couple years ago. Worked my butt off, achieved high grades and two degrees, and fulltime mom as well. Geez, i'm not ambitious at all. You don't have a clue, do you? Actually you're not alone by the looks of it.
All I've got to say is yes I have a clue. Just because you and me in our thirties are ambitious does speak for SOME of the 30 year old people I know. And just because SOME of the 20 year old people are ambitious does not speak for all of them either. You see prairiechick2 I was speaking in general not me and you and/or the individual.
And hey another thing I really don't care if you think I have a clue or not. Nor should you care if I think you have a clue or not. I will say and post stuff just to point people wrong I am also a devils advocate. If I do agree with the point or I don't agree with the point I always point out the "other" side of the story to remind people of it. If you agree with my point great, if not great. I don't care.
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/14/2008 7:11:44 AM | The Beatles said it well:
Well she was just seventeen
You know what I mean
And the way she looked
Was way beyond compare
So how could I dance with another,
Oh, when I saw her standing there
Yes, mam. That is the look we (mostly) all want. Now if we could just find one that would SHUT UP. | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/14/2008 3:55:16 PM |
Hey raphael, so have you been a woman? You seem to know their language. Womanese.
Yeah, I got a sex change for my 21st birthday. I'm still getting used to the whole pìssing standing up thing.
Nope, but I've been a 20 year old woman. I know a lot more about how to please a man now than I did then. Have you been with any 20 year olds? How about 30 year olds?
Yes, I've been with both. And my original statement still stands. Age and experience are not always intertwined. | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/14/2008 7:01:16 PM | [ If you agree with my point great, if not great. I don't care.]
Duely noted Nice Catch77. I think getting different opinions is great.
It just sounded to me like you were stereotyping all 30 year old women, which didn't seem fair. I, being 32, and who will always stick up for herself and others, wanted to state the facts as I know it to be for me.
Thanks for your replies guys!!  | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/15/2008 1:49:39 AM | prairiechick2
In tone I am just as passionate about sticking up for guys my age too. A lot of posters male and female stating that a male in his 30's is a perv for going after younger women. I don't (not saying individual but general) think its "fair" that it is "fine" for women to be "cougars" but for a guy to say the exact same age was deemed as wrong and we are pervs for thinking the same thing. When it comes to age there is a HUGE double standard. And to reiterate not to you but in general of the population (and these forums too) think this way.
So when it comes to double standards what's "good for the goose is good for the gander" is one of my favorite sayings when it comes to them. So just as your passionate of proving all us "guys" right or wrong about 30ish women I was just doing the same for us guys. Saying that not all of us 30ish guy want younger women just because they have tighter bodies, better looking, etc. For sex and sex only, the men only want sex, sex, sex. Not all of us are that way. I sometimes post a little bit "mean" to get some attention. Because as a society we are trained by the media to only pay "attention" to the bad things.
IE you go to a grocery store. You have the worst service in the world, 1st thing you want to do is complain so that the manager would know how bad "my situation" was. Now take the same trip and everyone was the greatest you had the best service you ever received in your life. If the manager is around then you might give a "thumbs up" or a "good job" but you won't go hunt them down. No time to tell someone a good job.
So with that example you may see why I posted that to get "some attention" vs just ignored. There is a method to my madness lol.
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/15/2008 7:12:54 AM | I'm 18 and almost every message I've gotten has been from men over 35.
Lets think about that for a moment. Now while very flattering and kind, the gap in age is close and sometimes over twenty years. While an age gap doesn't bother me it just got a little out of control. (So I took my photo down. Works for me). | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/15/2008 5:48:48 PM | thedogspajamas;
Thanks for your response. It's cool to get a look at the other side.
Would you ever date a man in his 30's? Are you attracted to older men?
I remember when I was in highschool. The older guys would hit on me and my friends. I thought at that time it was gross. But not all my friends did. One of my friends actually preferred the older guys and did date a couple. | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/15/2008 5:56:16 PM | im 21 girls that are 17 are not on a level, BUT one thing i've learned in the dating game is that the real predators come in mini skirts and heels. Whats wrong with a man in his 30's getting some uncomplicated loving? Who wants to carry all the baggage for every relasionship you've ever entered? Why because you can discuss life topics with the beauty of hindsight and regret and still display the same patteres in thinking as the 17 year old in a more rigid manner? Nah no need, women spend their teens and eary twenties "experimenting" with peoples feelings and when that "force" which allowed them (aka beauty) to do starts to fade its on to the blame game. I remember when i was 14 and the girls in my grade only dated 16 years old and up, i heard it was because i wasnt mature enough, i accepted that fact,and true say up until im about 25 my prefferences on the dating scene will go largely unnoticed, but when i reach those ages i become some golden ticket to be fought over between those left on the shelf and those looking for prince charming, well if thats the game consider men dating the younger girls the revenge for every young men you hurt until you finally realized the impact of your actions, and then breathe relax keep waiting for prince charming and let them live their dream its about time they got it.
Now if you are dating someone under 18 and your not thats not a good look but 18 and over do your thing play boy, imma be there soon enough enjoying it reminiscing on when i wasn't mature enough.
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/16/2008 1:16:54 AM | Don't stop at 20's and 30's. Many a man has gone after a woman to get at their daughters.
Single moms should be very aware that man they brought home isn't the real dad even if they marry him.
You may be horrified to think a man would hit on your daughter, but you only need to see the hundreds of men they catch on "to catch a predator" to know there are Minisers, teachers, police officers etc. that would do it in a heartbeat given the chance. | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/16/2008 1:20:54 AM | I think the oldest I could see myself being comfortable with is around 32. It also depends upon the guy. I knew a guy from work who came after myself and all the other girls in my age range (he just turned 32) but he was so immature (yes...worse than an 18 year-old girl. Shocking! lol) and it was more than slightly creepy that he was chatting up only girls my age. The fact that women closer to his own age wouldn't have something to do with him says something I think. And because he had no ambition, no goals beyond clubbing and acting 20 something I really found him to be off-putting.
I think the reason I'm comfortable with a larger age gap is because my parents have a 15 year age gap between them, my dad of course being the older one.
So to sum it up. I would date a man in his 30's, but it depends upon the man himself, and I am attracted to older guys, and again it depends upon the man.  | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/24/2008 8:39:17 PM | When women are open and curious about sex, it is a lot more fun. Older women may have more experience, but often they have far worse attitude.
Aside from all that, young women are too stupid to be worth wasting time on them. They don't understand themselves, freak out over all sort of silly things--who needs it? Older women still do these things but not as often. Most men appreciate a good woman that is experienced, sensible, but also, more importantly, one who has a good attitude. These don't stay on the market long--they get scooped up, so many of the ones left over sometimes have serious personality flaws. | |
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| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/28/2008 2:19:20 PM | I think it's more about sexuality. A girl at 17 is still learning about herself and her body, and everything is kind of like a new experience. Not to mention that a girl at 17 is much firmer and tighter physically than a woman at 45. but it also goes both ways. Women also exploit young boys the same way.
But thats not to say that all men are looking for the baby faced girls and all women are looking for the young boys. I am 24 and even tho my profile says I'm willing to talk to men ages 18-30, the truth is, most 18 year old boys are just boys who think they are men. but i'm willing to accept that not all 18 year olds are. I was pretty mature at 18, and I'm still mature at 24. My mom and I often joke that she should have been my kid, since I'm so mature for my age, and she's so young for hers. But you have to expect that each person is different. like some 30 year olds could be just way too old for me. so sexually speaking, something new is always interesting. But then again LEARNING something new is also great. | |
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