| |
| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 4/5/2008 10:29:36 PM | I cant speak for other guys but If i find a woman attractive and she liked me I dont have an issue with age so long as we are both consenting adults. its not all about sex it more about attraction and how much you get on and enjoy the company of each other. Depends also a lot on the woman or girl becuase some woman behave worse than gurl and some gurls seem much older than their ages.
The other way to look at this of course is older woman who like the idea of younger guys for some strange reson that seems to be much more excepted in society. | |
|
| |
| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 4/6/2008 3:34:57 PM | | im twenty two and have been a decent range in age of women.. i perfer older woman. their mature they have many more things to bring to the table then a 17 year who just lost their virginity last year.. like you said still innocent.. they also bring way to much drama towards you.. older women, no drama. just good times..but at the same time im still in youngen in some peoples eyes so what do i know right.. all i gotta is older women are like fergie "tastie tasie!!!!!" | |
|
| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 4/6/2008 8:06:33 PM | It's biology at work. When women are younger, they are more fertile and capable of bearing healthy offspring, thus our natural hardwiring draws us to them.
As women age, they are no longer considered (by nature, not by the opinion of anyone in particular) to be as capable of producing healthy offspring. Thus, their attraction value diminishes.
All sexual attraction reverts back to biological hardwiring of survival and replication of the species. | |
|
| |
| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 4/7/2008 9:38:47 AM | well, 20 and 17 arent that far apart, especially if the 2 have a lot of common friends. even though there is a barrier the minute one turns 18, they need to really relax that law BTW more to accomodate people within their own age brackets.
but anymore then lets say 21-22 i would be worried about. and even then the 21-22 year old better still be in school instead of already with a kid from previous relationship and divorced or living on his own.
when i was in my early 20s, i would go for the younger girl anytime. in my mid 20s i would go for ANY girl anytime. when i got close to 30 i started to look more at women my age and now i am 35, and it would have to be an extrordinary 20 something to even make me hit on her. currently i prefer women 30-38.
i cant of course speak for other guys. | |
|
| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 4/27/2008 7:39:06 PM | When I was in my teens, men in their mid twenties were "old" to me. Men who leered at me when they knew I was underage made me sick. My friends & I thought they were losers. My opinion hasn't changed. A man in his 40's who actually pursues an 18 year old has issues. An 18 year old girl who prefers men old enough to be her father obviously has psychological issues as well.
I don't know of any women my age who consider underage minors as objects of desire. My son is 14- I don't see an 18 year old as a man. How on earth could I see myself with someone I could have given birth to? Ugh- even Freud would have his brains explode with those dynamics!Men in their late 20's/early 30's seem too young for me now. And if any woman my age attempts to go near my son when he is in high school, I will drag the sick wench through the streets. | |
|
| |
| |
| |
| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 4/30/2008 7:39:21 AM | | i know two guys been in a simaler situation. they go for the phillys because they dont care how mutch you make or not and dont over complicate life ,as we all do as we get older, no relationship polatics too and if a fellas had a rough time in the past then hangin out and some phisical fun with a 19year old could be just what he needs and you dont need to go looking for them either if you look ok. so i belive he he he | |
|
| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 4/30/2008 1:10:31 PM | Being right on the cusp of a whole new generation...I'm currently quite torn between what I like or want...
I dno't want a woman with kids. Sounds horrible but I don't need someone else's children in my life. That being said, it's difficult to find women over 25 without children and/or single.
For that reason, I tend to meet younger women at the bars/clubs which is the only place I can meet women cause I work alone from home.
I would absolutely prefer to meet a woman that was at least 25. I think women younger than that are not likely to stick around for long nor would they be on the same page as me.
I want someone free spirited and free of commitments (ie: Children) so that we travel togather and experience life with just the two of us first and then maybe focus on starting a family in our mid 30's when all excitment has been had.
Younger women tend to have little focus in life and I can't blame them, I was direction-less when I was 18 too...I just wanted to drink and get into trouble. Haha.
Basically, I don't want an 18 or 19 year old woman but thats what I've been running into lately so if you know of any sexy, successful 25 year old women, let me know.  | |
|
PeterC
|
Joined: 3/6/2008
Msg: 189 | |
| |
| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 4/30/2008 2:54:29 PM | | Being a father of a ten year old daughter, I would be horrified to date some one that young. I would not let my daughter date a man that much older, so where would I have the right in doing so myself? At that age they are just starting to experience life and we have already experienced a great deal of the ups and downs. Where do we as humanity draw the line? | |
|
| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 4/30/2008 2:55:25 PM | Man, I just went back and read through this whole thread thoroughly. There are some seriously represssed, confused, and sheltered people here.
I thought about quoting a bunch of stuff and going post by post, but I figured this would just be less time consuming and still communicate the same point.
Many women prefer to speak in a coded language called womanese rather than normal English much of the time. And many guys who are bad with women seem to prefer to speak in this language as well.
Allow me to translate a few things from womanese into English.
When a woman says:
"I don't see how a man of twenty something could be attracted to a teenage girl. They are evil and predatory and should be ashamed of their gender. They should appreciate fully grown women instead. These people are sick."
What she means is this:
"No fair! I can't help it if I'm past my physical prime. Don't ignore me. I need attention, too! Please pay me attention!" *pout*
Older women will deny this under the guise of "maturity," but many of them are just as guilty of petty, childish behavior as the "young girls" they claim to be so much wiser than.
And when a guy says:
"Yes, these guys have serious issues. I don't know what is wrong with them. I couldn't possibly fathom finding such a person to be even remotely appealing. I like my women older."
What he is saying is either:
"You see that, women? I'm different. I'm not like all of those other male pigs. I understand. I'm what you want......... please love me! I'm so lonely!"
Or:
"I better denounce this. I don't want to be perceived as a bad person. Because apparently, if I admit to this, that's how people will see me. Better overcompensate and save face." | |
|
| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/1/2008 12:47:46 AM | | Again, why would the OP or anyone else care if some 20 or 30 year olds want to date late teen to early 20 year olds? Unless, of course, they want to date those men, but those men aren't interested in her? Ahhh, we have a winner. Just another complaint by people who can't attract the ones they want to attract, and so blame the folks they are after. | |
|
| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/1/2008 1:32:42 AM |
Man, I just went back and read through this whole thread thoroughly. There are some seriously represssed, confused, and sheltered people here.
I thought about quoting a bunch of stuff and going post by post, but I figured this would just be less time consuming and still communicate the same point.
Many women prefer to speak in a coded language called womanese rather than normal English much of the time. And many guys who are bad with women seem to prefer to speak in this language as well.
Allow me to translate a few things from womanese into English.
^^^^^^^^^^Awwww....what's with the smartass post dude...lol
When I was in my 20's, it never crossed my mind to date a 17 yr old kid....neither did it cross the minds of some of my friends.
Sooooo tell me how this makes me so confused, repressed and sheltered....I was to busy getting it on with women in their 20's to worry about a 17yr old girl...
Me thinks you are in the mood to turn this into a bashing thread
JMO | |
|
| |
| |
| |
| |
| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/1/2008 10:05:06 PM | | ...altho the opportunity to get a girl who is younger...17 is still sort of a turn off. Age shouldn't matter, I have met some quite responsible and mature 17 yr olds...but I can remember being 17 and I was mature for a 17 yr old but I was no where near mature enough. Normally I limit myself to 5 yrs either way (making it 20-30 currently). I'm not strict on my age range, I will talk to people older and younger (obviously) and can think of them as more than just friends at times, but it hasn't panned out. I've heard a saying once, *my age range is 18-80* notice it says 18 lol, but I don't think I could be seriously involved with someone who couldn't come out to karoke at the bar, or buy their own alcohol and/or smokes if necessary...and I couldn't just use someone for sex (or be used, ie fwb) who wasn't (in my eyes) old enough to be mature about it in the end. | |
|
| do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women?
Posted: 5/2/2008 9:12:48 AM | | first of all for a man to want a 17 year old thats sick .what they really want if there not sick is a women who is not exsperianced and have not been with alot of men thats what they want so go find it i date girls a little younger than me and older that have not been around so can they what comes to mind to me about men like that molester take two go directly to jail. | |
|
| |
Home
login 
