| Why do some men feel the need to make women feel bad?
Posted: 5/4/2008 3:06:51 PM | Hmmmmm...let's see...Europeans are better than North Americans?
Then the rant:
Chris Columbus was an European.
Those invadors(I'm not going to correct the spelling) were Europeans!!!
So your basically comparing apples to apples!!! | |
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| Why do some men feel the need to make women feel bad?
Posted: 5/4/2008 5:45:32 PM | Dude..,ALL Europeans think that North Americans are spineless?
WOW ,I am soo glad you can speak for ALL Europeans and esp. my European friends (and yes I do have many).
Funny really,cause some are planning to come to live here,and exactly for the opposite reasons you suggest.They love the country and our peaceful way of life.
And what Columbus has to do with landing on the Isle of Espanola,has to do with anything ..,
Thinking someone is their own victim of their almighty conspiracy thoughts. | |
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| Why do some men feel the need to make women feel bad?
Posted: 5/5/2008 8:01:07 AM | ^^^ actually the point was to get people to talk outside the box and its working :) haha that was my objective all along.. you just proved my theories on this forum.
Btw.. you should get this book " america the spineless" I think they have a movie as well I will have to find the name.. everyone is entitled to their opinion it just so happens I am with the majority of europeans .. again google is your friend do your research and the burden of proof is on your head to prove me otherwise. ( good luck on that one)
Rant lol more like amusement. | |
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| Why do some men feel the need to make women feel bad?
Posted: 5/10/2008 8:13:18 AM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^ laughs,,, I take no offense to anything.. except maybe ignorance....
america canada whats the diff, I guess being a vancouver native I cant see the diff, maybe if I lived in the maritimes all my life I might see a difference. Having travelled a lot .. I dont see much if any differences
Vancouver to me is nothing more then New York housing prices with San Fransisco landscape. The people in vancouver and the people in seattle are almost identically natured. The New brunswick and maine are very similar lol again... even the people are similar fredericton vs portland not much of a difference got in a cab many times in portland and forgot I was in the usa thought I was in fredericton. In maine you see flags outside many peoples doors which I thought was fairly patriotic. Wouldnt be surprised if it happens on the border towns on the canada side as well.
americans think canadians are pushovers, canadians think americans are spineless in the end each one is fornicating with the other in bed at 2am and making babies.
( btw this has nothing to do with this thread for the ,, o this post has nothing to do with this forum bashers, its a response to the women above) | |
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| Why do some men feel the need to make women feel bad?
Posted: 5/11/2008 3:53:12 PM | Well of course Europeans have more spine than Canadians or North Americans. Look at France (oops folded quickly during the wars, Austria (oops folded quickly befre the war), Italy (oops folded quickly once te Allies landed). Need I go on.
Plus I have to laugh when people/coutries go and say how evil/greedy, the US is, yet as soon as a disaster these same people/countries go straight to the US first for assistance.
And BTW being similar is not being the same. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2008 8:40:30 AM | Hopefully guys like that are few and far between for you,there's a few lady's out there also that throw the red flag up! If they want to IM you with never talking to you before, then want your e-mail, and your MSN all with in 5 minutes.....they really worry me.
Some peoples, worlds , I guess are so small......got to feel sorry for them. Doesn't mean I want to know them.
Ken. | |
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Posted: 8/2/2008 12:57:05 PM | Oh my...I think he contacted me also and after a string of insults because I did not want to meet him or talk about sex with him then he got really pissed off..
Saying that"my typ of wmen never give a gold man a chanse" I just LMAO.
I figured he meant women who could spell....LOL...  | |
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Posted: 8/2/2008 8:17:50 PM | lol, I've read a bunch of posts in here that have made me lol, and a couple that just shocked me. I agree with whoever said that once people get a profile on here they go from being average to extraordinary. I think that all us being fishies, we know what that's like.
Now, the thread kind of takes a little turn due to the whole apparent cultural differences, but having been online for years now, the best thing about this is that we can block anyone who decides they want to contact us to put us down, or because they don't agree with what someone says. Hurrah for individuality.
I like these forum things. Ill have to remember to check them out more often. | |
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| Why do some men feel the need to make women feel bad?
Posted: 8/4/2008 9:45:12 PM |
Just found the forums - only been on PoF a few weeks and decided to poke my head in here (during the wee small hours.....).
True colours is right on!
Haven't been judged on 'favourites' yet - but not been on here long enough to build up a following! 
Hey, but I've been abused for not responding to mail fast enough!!
Is it terribly rude not to respond to emails right away? Seriously, I'm in no frame of mind to answer mail while on my 2nd coffee of the morning - so I leave it until later.
Boy, oh, boy, have I been called on that one - more than once - and even for daring to 'delete' mail after reading it!!
thank goodness for 'Block - Delete'
It would be awful nice if we could have a profile screening tool that barred those with no spelling or punctuation skills too - that, for me, gets an immediate 'delete' - even pre-caffeine!!
But, I'm not in the right age group for the "Yo, wassup, wanna hook up?" type of posters! Sometimes, advanced age has its benefits!!  | |
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| Why do some men feel the need to make women feel bad?
Posted: 1/17/2009 10:19:50 AM | I love full figured women , I think that they are very attractive. As far as people putting a person down just because of the way they look is rude.
May be they are not happy in there own body or with them self.
Keep your head up and walk tall. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2009 2:02:55 PM | anyone who makes him/herself bigger by making someone else smaller says more about whom?
I have met and known some of these types,...
The great thing about being single is,.... I can walk away from such a person,....isn't freedom grant? | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 6:38:30 AM | I like what you say here, marita, you hit the nail on the head. What the guy wrote to OP says more about him than her. He says he's ignorant on so many levels for sure, but I'm a little afraid that he also says he's threatened by women. That scares me, I sense a touch of violence in his attitude. Maybe he's been rejected once too often because of his uneducated ways and attitudes. Sounds like a ticking bomb to me, I'd leave him alone if I were the OP.
You're right about being single being great too, it is and we are. We have the right to make our own choices, and we're independant and able to make our own rules too. One of my rules is if he wants to talk about sex right away, I block him. I haven't got the time or the patience to deal with men who are only interested in what's between my legs, it's what's between my ears that really counts first. | |
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| Why do some men feel the need to make women feel bad?
Posted: 8/4/2009 9:01:27 AM | Heh, I'm a curvy gal, and I'm self-confident as a rule, but when you get messages like this one I just received, your self-esteem takes a hit.
Excuse you? No excuse me! Good Lord... You should not be eating an ice cream cone... it's an insult to cows everywhere!... I mean, aren't you obese enough?
Thanks douchebag! I introduced him to my blocked user list! | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 9:24:08 AM |
Why do some men feel the need to make women feel bad?
You could also ask why women make profiles that make they look like skanky hos, and then expect decent men to be attracted tot them, ot to get correspondence from so called decent men. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 9:31:30 AM | | butterflie: I hope you sent a nasty email along with that block. I don't get the things some people will write or say to other people. I get a kick out of the way some people think just because you're bigger you don't have the right to enjoy yourself. Seriously, ice cream is the best. I'd worry if I was with with someone who didn't like it, no matter what size they were. lol. You have great pics. Very happy looking and attractive. I don't see why someone would be negative towards you for that. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 12:25:29 PM | | Wow. I just read all the posts in this thread and am counting myself lucky I've not come across any guys like that. I've had some great dates and good conversations. Maybe I've not been in the pond long enough. I think those fellas like drama and when you respond to them you feed thier need for it. The fact that you would respond to something says you might also like drama as well. Hopefully it will never happen again but if it does, block them right away without a response. That will peeve them off more because they want you to fight back. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 1:20:44 PM | LOL thanks! I am generally a laid back easy going gal, but this site starts to wear down on your nerves, haha!
And trust me, he got a blasting. Guy supposedly was a teacher too, in Dartmouth. Hope he's not teaching that crap to kids. | |
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| Why do some men feel the need to make women feel bad?
Posted: 8/4/2009 1:28:00 PM | Guy supposedly was a teacher too, in Dartmouth. Hope he's not teaching that crap to kids.
That's the scary part... a**holes like that spewing their crap to children! Grrrrrr!!
I read your profile, butterflie, and it's well-written... with nice pics. That guy just has issues, obviously, and what goes around comes around... I doubt he'll have much luck finding a mate with that attitude, but if he does, let's hope she's super skinny and gains 50 lbs after they marry!!  | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 4:05:39 PM |
Guy supposedly was a teacher too, in Dartmouth. Hope he's not teaching that crap to kids.
That's the scary part... a**holes like that spewing their crap to children! Grrrrrr!!
What makes you think that because someone would send an email to someone saying that, would then go and teach it?
Do you think that every teacher has a moral obligation to the world outside of their profession?
I would say that the photo is fine provide you are not offended by obvious use of phallic symbolism. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 4:21:20 PM | I started to answer your questions in detail, but then I decided I didn't want to get into a "morality fight" with you, James, so... 
As for the phallic symbolism... not everyone sees that, but obviously, SOME do. | |
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| Why do some men feel the need to make women feel bad?
Posted: 8/4/2009 4:28:09 PM |
As for the phallic symbolism... not everyone sees that, but obviously, SOME do.
You would have to be blind not to see that.
Before I clicked on the profile I thought it was something other than ice cream cone she was licking and I will bet my helper money Albert that I am not the only one that saw this the same way.
Just calling a Spade a Spade nothing immoral about it. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 4:39:37 PM | OK, I looked again... maybe it does look a little "phallicky"... I'll give you that. But that's fine... certainly wouldn't be unusual on this site, I'm sure... and like you said, nothing immoral about it.
Back to topic though... there was no need for that guy's insulting message to butterflie... no excuse for that type of behaviour.
OK... I'm done (I think). But then again... I'm a little bored tonight, so if James or Killer what's-his-name push my buttons, I may be FORCED to respond!  | |
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