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Posted: 8/4/2009 6:41:25 PM | OMG... That is the funniest thing yet! She was licking an icecream cone, and it was totally obvious that it was indeed an icecream cone. I have licked an icecream in my time, and when I am licking said cone I am thinking of how refreshing that cold, wet, sweet icecream is on my tongue, period.
Are you being a tad presumptious in thinking she meant it as a phallic symbol?? lmao
But... If she did intend it be thought of as a sexual gesture... does that discount some
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Posted: 8/4/2009 6:54:49 PM | | Who cares what the ice cream cone meant or didn't mean? That's not the point of the guy's comment. He was making fun of her because she's a larger woman DARING to eat an ice cream cone. That's uncalled for. | |
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| Why do some men feel the need to make women feel bad?
Posted: 8/4/2009 8:24:22 PM |
What makes you think that because someone would send an email to someone saying that, would then go and teach it?
I think it's pretty reasonable that if someone in the school system would message a complete stranger and ridicule them for their appearance,that makes them less than fit to teach children about tolerance,which is undoubtedly part of all schools curriculum/ethics.
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Posted: 8/5/2009 2:51:00 AM | ^^^^I think that's a parents job, not the school system. Also all the PC rules in place in society would come into force is this person promoted hatred in his classroom.
OMG... That is the funniest thing yet! She was licking an icecream cone, and it was totally obvious that it was indeed an icecream cone.
Not from the thumbnail, it was just an unrecognizable object she was clutching close to her mouth. Obviously it wasn't a c@ck, but the way the photo was shot it obviously was meant to be somewhat sexually suggestive, and draw interest in the profile. | |
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Posted: 8/5/2009 6:04:32 AM | ^^^It's a parents {i]and the teachers/schools job to teach tolerance towards others.I believe in leading by example and it matters what character a teacher posesses.As for political correctness,it only comes into play if the person is overt about it,you can be subtle and hurtful for quite some time without consequences.
the way the photo was shot it obviously was meant to be somewhat sexually suggestive, and draw interest in the profile.
How dare she try to draw interest to her profile! That ho!
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Posted: 8/5/2009 6:07:45 AM | GRr.. I'm a teacher in HRM. Just like any other job on this planet, there are people with personality problems. The fact that some of you keep bringing up the fact that guy was a teacher is rediculous. His occupation has nothing to do with what he said. I'm sure that you have a professional workplace image and then you are yourself when you go home. That you act a completely different way at work then you would at home or out with your friends. You also have to realize that there is a certain anonymity that comes along with online dating and that many things are said or done online under the guise of a computer mask, if you will ,that one would never say if they were looking straight at you. It's the nature of the game unfortunaly. Yes the guy was a complete ass but the fact he's a teacher should have nothing to do with his behaviour.
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| Why do some men feel the need to make women feel bad?
Posted: 8/31/2009 6:10:40 PM |
I was sent an email this morning from a guy on here and it left me asking the question of why some men feel the need to make other women feel bad about themselves. Thankfully not all men are like this. But he called me down for having a lot of "men" on my favorites list, to which I replied they were both men and women as I have made a lot of friends on here in the year and a half I have been in the pond. I think most people swimming in here are great people. Then you have the rotten ones like the guy who messaged me. Anyway, after my response back to him I get the following email ...
"Any woman thats needs to psot and ad to get a man tob e itnerested in her must have issues. Probably men whop know you know what a untrustworhty person you are and avoid you, hence why you have to come on hewre to find aman cause no man is asking you out women on this site are of a very low quality."
Anyone who wants to know who this winner is, message me and I will gladly share. I find it funny because I am incredibly trustworthy. I have never cheated, nor would I ever, and treat men I date like gold. Apparently that makes me of low quality? Hmmmm... never saw that coming!
This is funny...obviously the whole point of this thread is for "shygal" to make the guy who wrote her ...feel bad.
So...who's worse....the guy who wrote her in private...or her for broadcasting it?
I tend to agree him, even though he can't spell...this thread is of Low Quality, IMHO. | |
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Posted: 8/31/2009 6:38:46 PM | Correct: the "need" to make someone "feel bad" is not gender-specific.
BUT...when reading the subject line...it clearly IS "gender-specific."
Therefore, the answer should remain in keeping with the subject line, 'gender-specific'.
Take another stab at it big fella 
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Posted: 8/31/2009 6:57:16 PM | Well speaking as someone who has seen far too much male-bashing as of late -- I have to chime in here.
I think the vast majority of men have better things to do with their time then go around making anyone else feel bad. much less a woman. The whole premise of this thread does seem somewhat one sided. I can put up with people venting over social ills as much as the next person, but lets keep it in perspective please. Women in this culture get away with far too much by playing the victim or playing the aggressor that need not follow any rule of ethic or decency. How we let things get to that point with out female sub-culture policing itself I don't know.
But honestly -- how much hypocrisy do we as men have to put up and still not be expected to lash or grumble back on occasion?
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Posted: 8/31/2009 7:08:33 PM |
Women in this culture get away with far too much by playing the victim or playing the aggressor that need not follow any rule of ethic or decency.
Yep ... it all started when women were allowed to don sandals, throw down their oven mitts and make their way to the nearest polling station.  | |
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Posted: 8/31/2009 7:28:00 PM |
Yep ... it all started when women were allowed to don sandals, throw down their oven mitts and make their way to the nearest polling station
Wow. Using women's suffrage issues of the 1950's and earlier to justify imbalance that misfavors women's detestable behaviors in our modern society. Yeah thats classy.
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Posted: 9/1/2009 1:40:39 PM | Well I am not trying to make you feel bad, but was calling you on your use of a typical falsehood. Your comment seemed less about humour and more about parading out the same old line that feminists go on about when discussing social imbalance.
Whilel admitting that women were repressed in the past, that is no excuse for justifying the man bashing that we see too much of in these modern days. So if your point is otherwise -- by all means please explain yourself. What was your point? | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 4:30:22 PM | Well I am not trying to make you feel bad, but was calling you on your use of a typical falsehood
First of all you don't possess the power to ever make me feel bad, and secondly I did not lie about anything.. Women did get the right to vote, and a lot later than they should have.
And I said what I did in response to you lumping all women in the same category. You might want to phrase things as... 'some women'. It makes things a lot easier in these forums. And you were attacking women, and I was saying we wouldn't be able to speak up against your spouting off if we didn't get the right to vote. :P But isn't it nice we can?!?
And there is social imbalance, that isn't your so called feminists blowing smoke!
And about male bashing... I can say from my perspective there is a whole hell of a lot more women bashing going on in this local forum than male bashing!
I happen to love men, I don't happen to love everything they say or do. :P | |
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Posted: 9/24/2009 6:06:05 PM | And you were attacking women, and I was saying we wouldn't be able to speak up against your spouting off if we didn't get the right to vote. :P But isn't it nice we can?!? And there is social imbalance, that isn't your so called feminists blowing smoke!
No, you were being unfairly sarcastic towards a comment that I posted. I asked you to clarify your comment and you lashed out again.
Your comments are a typical example of hypocrisy, whether you realize it or not. Goes to show how knee-jerk and programmed your responses are. If a man has an opinion or a comment then he is attacking women, but when a women like you attacks what a man says then that is ok. That has nothing to do with the right to vote incidently. Get over yourself.
I always find it interesting how the pro-feminists never see the imbalance in society that they have caused. It is sad reality that "some" women just don't seem able to acknowledge as they somehow think it removes concepts of equality or fairness.
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