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nicol3y

Joined: 6/16/2009
Msg: 250

Men who ?@#*& About Child Support and then go and start a new family??? Posted: 7/30/2009 8:06:08 PM
What did he do? I'm not going to get into detail on here. Long story short, he is not there for her. He is not a father to her.

futureshock

Joined: 5/8/2009
Msg: 251
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Men who ?@#*& About Child Support and then go and start a new family??? Posted: 7/30/2009 8:14:00 PM
I keep telling her I want a Two-fer but she will not go for it. Even offered to pay for AI. What's a Two-fer and what is AI? nicol3y, I agreed with the article also.

OojustmeoO

Joined: 12/23/2007
Msg: 252
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Men who ?@#*& About Child Support and then go and start a new family??? Posted: 7/30/2009 8:27:52 PM
I don't think it is wrong if the father starts another relationship/family good for the a**hole. I think its wrong if he starts another family and dosn't support his other children though which is basically my situation. I hope whoever's situation it is that you are talking about gets better.

blu_eyez81

Joined: 6/25/2009
Msg: 253
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Men who ?@#*& About Child Support and then go and start a new family??? Posted: 7/31/2009 11:34:33 PM
I relate totally this is my exp. and what I got out of it. My ex pays a child support payment once every 6 months just to save his azz from going to jail.... IDK I think it really comes down to CS enforcement office individually cause my ex has 6 kids total 4 diff mommas. His first child lives like 20 mins away in the Denver metro area just diff county. When My ex and I were together she put him in jail like 3 times over child support. When I divorced him I went through the CS office in the county I resided in and still here we are 5 yrs later all my kids have seen is 850.00 dollars. They have done nothing just set for reviews every 6 months. I used to get mad but what for it solves nothing but just gives me a headache. Now he has 2 more children that live with him at last knowledge with 2 women, guess that mormon thing makes him happy . Now yea given he has rights to be happy, the fact that he brings 2 more kids into this world and can sit there and support them but not mine or his other daughter blows my mind, quite disturbing actually. By the time he had the 2nd child my kids were just dust under a carpet to him. I just don't get how anyone can make something so precious so beautiful and treat them in such a manner. I'm not just talking financially either. But its all good I support them 100% in all aspects of life. I grew up with out a dad mom wasn't there much either and I think I've developed into a decent woman. Life's to short, I wouldn't worry about it if it happens it happens when it does be the bigger and better person. Its their life and so be it. Let them worry about the situation. Some people only think subconsciously ! Life aint fair , but karmas a bytch

AngPed

Joined: 7/20/2009
Msg: 254
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Men who ?@#*& About Child Support and then go and start a new family??? Posted: 7/31/2009 11:47:51 PM
People start over because they still have hope...whether it works out or not, at least they are still willing to give it another try. As long as the children are being well taken care of.. all of the children...old, new, whatever. Can you really blame someone that wants a new beginning?

minniminx

Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 255
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Men who ?@#*& About Child Support and then go and start a new family??? Posted: 8/1/2009 8:35:57 AM
in the UK CS would be taken directly from his income or his benefit......i htink this sucks. If no payments can be taken a debt charges on a weekly basis and will be collected until he dies.

minniminx

Joined: 5/9/2006
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Men who ?@#*& About Child Support and then go and start a new family??? Posted: 8/1/2009 8:36:38 AM
i mean your situation sucks....lol!

futureshock

Joined: 5/8/2009
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Men who ?@#*& About Child Support and then go and start a new family??? Posted: 8/1/2009 9:17:50 AM
People start over because they still have hope...whether it works out or not, at least they are still willing to give it another try. As long as the children are being well taken care of.. all of the children...old, new, whatever. Can you really blame someone that wants a new beginning? Obviously no one would blame anyone for wanting a new beginning. This thread is specifically about men who complain about being able to afford child support payments, but then go and make a new family with even more children to support. How can they afford new children if they are barely able to pay for the first child? How would the first child feel if he/she knew that his/her father complained about putting food on their table and a roof over their head, while going on to have more children?

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