| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/26/2008 3:39:36 PM | | i know theirs at least one. whatever happened to kindness and respect? out the window with chilvary. all i ask for is someone to love unconditionally, through thick and thin. is that still in the world today? i mean i think i have a good heart. when is it my turn. it seems all the women want nowadays is to play. whats the point in that? love unconditionally | |
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LUSTRE
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Joined: 6/6/2007
Msg: 180 | |
| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 4:17:31 AM | | Hi OP,unfortunately until you meet someone special you wont believe that there are some lovely genuine men out there looking for the same as you.There is no easy solution to your dilemma,you just have to keep looking and keep trusting until he comes along,which im sure he will.There are many lovely men and women out there looking for the same thing its just a matter of time,so dont give up and best of luck. | |
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 5:19:48 AM | | I ben saying that for a long time . a good man . honest . some say I tell the woman way too much . a loving man who likes it when a woman shows him her love . oh , and I want you for a long long long time . | |
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Joined: 2/26/2008
Msg: 182 | |
| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 5:32:54 AM | | Sure: try expanding your search. I get replies from women that say "you're too far away" or "distance would be an issue" true love isn't supposed to have boundries, remember?? quit looking for love in your own backyard... that is only love of conveinance!! I have read success stories of couples who, at first, were thousands of miles apart, then all that is left to do is decide who moves to who. (but that decision should be an easy one for "true" love) | |
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 7:44:57 AM | | To answer that question, I would say Yes Yes Yes. It only happens when your are not expecting it. It happen to me. I was on a few different dating sites before this one for a couple of years and had no results and felt the same way as you do. Then a friend told me to join this site but I thought it would be the same as the others. For a while I dated a few guys that didn t panned out and was on a few short relationships that went nowhere. Then I had this email that I didn t answer for more than a month thinking he would be like the rest but out of boredom I did answer and am sure glad I did. This is the guy I had dreamed about and what I really wanted in a guy. Everything I written on my list on what I really want in a guy I got. For the first time no red flags which was strange to me at first. We are so deeply in love now and it is getting stronger as the weeks fly by. The key is always think postive and really believe it with all your heart that you will meet that special guy. It will happen. | |
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 8:34:36 AM | myloves4eve
Msg: 161
Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/25/2008
As always your postings make much sense... Yet I am still having great difficulty in meeting someone who wants something more than a quick booty call? Am I too rigid in that I desire a certain specific kind of man? My tastes are very spcsific in that I choose only to date men of color; surely there must be black men looking for love too. I have been this way a long time; must I change in order to find love? Or is it my disability scaring away the men?
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 11:32:12 AM | I thought i had found a man myself and it turned out all he wanted was a fling. So y am i on this site still? I have hopes that eventually I will meet someone worthwile. The man that I had thought was a good guy wasn't, I ended up pregnant and well circumstances were he didn't want the baby and I couldn't afford to keep it. So no I have the same question. Are there any guys out there who arn't looking for a fling? A one night stand? Or that arn't players? All I see on here is 'not looking for anything serious' or 'hangout'. But being as silly as I am I still hope that one day I will find the right guy.
Has anyone on here had any luck? | |
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 11:42:32 AM | | i don't think so....i believe they are all looking for PERFECT and it's all in the "here and NOW" for them. sorry guys, but, it shouldn't be so difficult. and actually, what percent of people who are on POF actually DO meet their special someone here?? maybe 10%, 15%???????? honestly, i don't even get e-mails....it's discouraging. i'm not so bad...hahahahaha. | |
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 11:44:57 AM | | The real question is there any women out there who are not jaded by love. Any one who still believes in true love, forever and ever. Any woman who dosen't run cause there are problems, or they see that it takes work or patients. Any woman out there that still believes in soul mates????????????? | |
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 11:52:25 AM | | i believe it is possible but there has to be that compatablity between both people.its ok on theinternet to find someone they connect with but on meeting it might not be as good as it was on the pc. most guys think they are different but you wont know till you find the 'one' that does it for you and vice versa.does that make sense | |
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 12:10:58 PM | Well, it looks like she DID give up....when I did a user search it says account was closed 3/16/08.
The odd thing was, her initial post says she joined 2/25 ...the question was written after less than two weeks on this site. It IS frustrating to find the snakes among the fishes, but it's no different than in the "real world".
We all want INSTANT LOVE and want it NOW and want it to last FOREVER. If I can ever come up with that invention....oh baby!!! I'll rule the world!!! 
Good luck to us all! A round of margaritas for my fellow fishies!
Rose Mary | |
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Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 192 | |
| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 12:21:47 PM | Yes, yes I do want to find that lasting love.  I have a camera and my camera has a microphone. But I don’t know how to use it. I've used it to take a few still photos like the one on my profile page, as far as text messenger go's I'm not fast enough and spelling I have to use spell checker never the very slow. I don't want to show off my bad spelling, plus when I'm in a hurry it is much worse. I am very self conscious of my spelling I suppose that I will never be a good speller I got a lot better using spell check that’s for sure. Now I have got to copy and past into Word and check my spelling to make sure that you can read my words. I just live in Marana Arizona on DOVE MOUNTAIN by Heritage Highlands. I isolate myself for 28 years. Cause I left Phoenix Arizona to get away from everyone from the friends that I went to grade school and high school with to get out of a unhealthy environment or I would have died , so I came to Tucson to make a new life for myself alone in March of 1988. What I will tell you next you I don't want you to but you and I don't blame you if you too reject... me. But I must tell you. September 26 1980 I was 23 and the man with me was about 31. Well we were at an afterhour’s club in Scottsdale, Arizona. The band took a break at midnight. We left the club, drove to Phoenix drove back parked across Scottsdale Rd. crossing back and a car hit both of us, so you see I don't work. I try to have a good day. I can do whatever I want, try to enjoy life the way God intended. Joe | |
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 2:40:34 PM | Posted By: buhnannie on 3/27/2008 2 32 PM
Subject: Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime
No, you are a real cutey; damn, if you can't find a good man here, I guess I have NO chance whatsoever of finding love! Maybe my luck will improve on a pay site; mayhaps nothing good comes free... I don't even get emails anymore... Or I need to become more aggressive and chase a man down lol...
I have been told I look much better in person; my pix don't do me justice... Aint there a party 2morrow night somewhere??? rotfl
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 2:51:39 PM | I have been looking such a long time. I underatand how futile it all seems. Hang in there.
do not ever give up. There is someone there for you. Just remember, open people often give to much away to soon. Shouldn't be that way but it is. Amoung the undesirable is a gem just waiting to find you. I will keep your success in my thoughts and send to you encouragement. | |
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 2:51:54 PM | we ALL deserve a good mate
and u will NEVA give up cause u r NOT gonna let these men CHANGE who u r
u will keep tryin and SOME DAY God willing u will meet him but NOT til then
so like the rest of us keep trudging on this lil planet called earth til the day comes for u to depart
IS THAT ALL THERE IS U ASK ??
yes thats all there is
sorry
kathi | |
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 2:57:08 PM | | Love at first sight can be the greatest of feelings but don't forget this: Real love takes work and a growth that in the end can be the most wonderful expierence. If love at first sight is the only thing you're waiting for my friend you may be waiting for a very long time and passing up someone that could have proved to be the one real one. | |
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 3:03:21 PM | | Well, Im 31 years old. Growing up, all my friends said that if anyone is going to get married first, it would be me because even at 16 all I thought about was having a family...now low and behold, those same friends are the ones married and still married and I havent even come close. I still think the same way, its just that women in my age bracket for some reason are now not wanting to settle down. I have been looking for an older woman now with very little results. I think Im an average guy, but women between 30 and 40 only want guys with the 6 pack. They say they are looking for romance and what not, but the realization is, ur not going to find that in a guy who walks around with his shirt off all day. Why? Because he thinks or knows hes the shit, so if a woman tries to tie him down, he knows he can drop her and find someone else to "play with" for a while. Women in my age bracket havent opended their eyes to it and because of it, more and more women arer becoming single mothers. I may not be "Brad Pitt", but I challenge ANY woman to find a man who treats a woman as good as I do. But, unfortunently, hopeless romantics, like myself, arnt looked at much anymore and thats why I think I may never find the "One". Woman have become what men have become for years...too shallow. Now its just a never ending war of who can become the hottest couple rather than finding true love. Until a woman comes around and proves me wrong, thats the way I think unfortunently. | |
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 3:04:05 PM | hey girl-i looked at your profile and you GOT IT GOING ON too girlfriend! i don't know what they other women are doing on POF to get the good ones, or long lasting love...hmmm, about your disability....i will try to contact you privately. yes, that may be daunting....but, let me tell you this-the man that steps up to the plate carrying his love for YOU, well, he will come with unconditional love. you laid it all out on the table, no PRETENSE, and he will come loving you no matter what. this man will be strong and kind and caring- his love will make you feel safe, secure and cherished. this i know...don't ask me how, i just FEEL it chelle!!
oh, i looked at the other women's pics and there are SO many beautiful women...i am a bit insecure, really. i'll try to make contact with you. annie | |
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| Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime?
Posted: 3/27/2008 3:15:13 PM | | One more thing about this love at first site thing everyone has been talking about...Look, Im a hopeless romantic, and I still dont believe in Love at fist site. Its impossible. Love is a feeling you have for someone after knowing who they are. They feeling you have when you first see someone is lust, not love. Lust is wanting someone when you first see them. Defining love can be a hard thing to do, but it all comes down to one principle...Your feeling of love is what you get when you know who someone is and who they are as a person, plain and simple. | |
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