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Posted: 10/12/2008 9:41:01 AM | Dump him and move on and find someone else who will be worthy of your trust and affection. Life is too short. Good luck!  | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 9:44:21 AM | | A similar thing happened to me with a guy that I had dated for a year. Get out!!! He is waiting to see if something better comes along. | |
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Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 203 | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 11:21:08 AM | | So, does anyone know what the "Maria" did about this guy? She started the post, but I don't see her on here after 3/12/08??? Just curious, since the consensus is that she should get rid of him... | |
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xena46
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Joined: 1/3/2008
Msg: 204 | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 5:23:35 PM | | dump him now....he's a bullshitter..you can do better, you are wasting your time. tic toc | |
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Posted: 1/21/2009 1:10:47 PM | | Throw him under the bus! There is nothing wrong with looking, mailing and dating AS LONG AS EVERYONE KNOWS. He said one thing but did anotherthgis means no integrity, no morals and no ethics. Nobody deserves that. | |
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Posted: 2/26/2009 11:29:30 AM | Hi, sefnga
I think maria should have stayed on here and benefitted from some of the feedback available on this message board. She probably didn't take any of the advice given her since it was for the most part pretty harsh. She probably continued on with this man till the relationship broke off on its own.
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Posted: 2/26/2009 12:15:56 PM | Wow, I can't believe you said:
is it time to love him or is it time to leave him???
and
It seems to me that we should be a bit smarter by now.
Get rid of the "we." first of all. There is "you" and "him"...who is obviously pissing you off. You need to seriously ask yourself if you are willing to put up with his antics, seeing how it's causing you to feel furious. If you are willing to...then quit getting mad. You have choices here. Discuss, listen, figure out if your needs are being met and deal. If you are holding onto this [attractive, sexy] man because you are over 45 and worried that your options are limited. Then I think you need to work on your self-esteem and ask yourself why you are willing to stay with someone that contributes to your angered feelings.
uh huh...gl | |
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Posted: 2/26/2009 12:17:01 PM | Both myself and a friend have had experiences where we meet a guy from pof, or exchange emails, and he admits that he is seeing someone and asks for a discrete relationship.
Of course it ends there, how disgusting. But it happens alot, I wonder how many people stay on pof forever in the hopes of "upgrading"? | |
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Posted: 2/26/2009 12:21:38 PM | OMG......You promised that you would not tell.......  
OT.......Many stay active on POF far after meeting someone that they are dating or enjoying. This site offers much more than just the dating connection, and can be used to maintain friendships, discuss topics, and as always......get some much needed comic relief......  
Just my opinion......   | |
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Posted: 2/26/2009 3:16:26 PM | | How much more evidence do you need? He is a liar and a cheater, and he will never change. You cannot trust him. DUMP HIM | |
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Posted: 2/26/2009 4:13:06 PM | | He's lied twice. How many more times has he or will he lie to you? As long as you give him chances, he'll lie to you. How long you will accept this is entirely up to you. | |
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Posted: 2/26/2009 4:18:50 PM | | I dont want to sound mean here but hes not that into you. I know sounds like the movie but I have talked to men about it and they agree with the movie. If he is still looking he doesn't really want to be with you and doesn't know how to say so to where it wont hurt your feelings. Let him go. yes he seems great when you are with him but if there is no trust how great of a relationship can you have with him? | |
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Posted: 2/26/2009 7:50:39 PM | | Ummm...fishies? She dumped him wayyy back in March '08. I don't think she needs anymore advice. | |
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Posted: 2/26/2009 9:24:04 PM | Call it a day hunny......
I had a guy do that to me after 5mts when he wasn't getting my 24/7 attention...
I knew it inside but couldn't prove it so I finished with him...he admitted it after and said he had been back onto a paying dating site for a month and been mailing other women but had not met anyone out of respect for me....
Lying f..ker
He never had the chance...
Respect my ass he wouldn't have known that word if it bit him on the butt.........selfish,arrogant,juvenile...he would know those....
say goodbye and get back to the sea and fish.......x | |
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Posted: 2/27/2009 1:54:03 AM | Once trust is broken it's not easy to repair a relationship.
Many are here for advice found on the forums. Dating isn't easy. Once the talk about being exclusive is made it's a trust issue.
If you find yourself with one that has "grass is greener syndrome"my advice would be to move on. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2009 4:15:16 AM | | I met my girlfriend on this site quite awhile back. It worked for me. In the last year she was on here for advice about us. I kept my profile on but wasnt active. Now i am giving these forums a shot :<) There may be something to it, at least thats what she told me at the time? | |
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Posted: 2/27/2009 9:14:53 AM | I had a similar thing happpen to me. I was dating a guy from here pretty regularly so I "hid" my profile, changed my status *and* added a message that I wasn't looking. If he was checking on me, he would have known where I stood.
However ... even though he kept assuring me that he liked me, etc. something felt off and I had to follow my gut - in this day and age, there are too many scary diseases around to not be sure. Sure enough, the day after our date he was on POF and even updated his picture (you can tell all this if someone is on your favorite list). I kicked him to the curb and rated his new picture a 2. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2009 4:50:22 PM | | It's happening to me now. He tells me they're just friends and they are only chatting..BS!!! | |
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Posted: 3/6/2009 1:04:33 PM | | If you are snooping then you have trust issues that will continue,break it off and fish again. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2009 5:52:50 PM | It could be any one of a zillion things.
It could be that he is very interested insettling down and marrying and you aren't quite at that level of certainty. In that case it is an hedge against the emotional Armageddon of losing you.
It also could be venting mechanism related to this.
It also could be the case that he is very serious in settling down with someone period.
Or, he could be an untrustworthy jerk.
Every man like every woman is different.
Your heart should know best. Does he say he loves you and wants to be with you forever? Is he a sincere with you? Is he a sincere person? | |
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Posted: 3/6/2009 6:34:19 PM | | Some people do go on POF for chatting and friendship. Yes, those people really do exist. | |
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Posted: 4/4/2009 3:28:14 PM | Yeah, it's a major deal breaker for me, still logging in on a regular basis after the 'exclusive talk' with the ability to chat in various other ways away from the site ~ it just smells bad, I think I've heard every excuse/reason now (and some have been very inventive lol  ) | |
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Posted: 10/20/2009 3:30:29 PM | | I know another woman that this very same thing happened to. I can't believe anyone is dumb enough to get on pof and use the other persons computer to do it with. | |
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