| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/6/2008 12:48:37 AM | Well I lost my virginity to a prostitue for $100 in Moscow who was the nicest and most attractive girl I ever seen, found her on this website too xxxxxxxxxxxxx and most look allot better and treated me allot better then any girl I dated to I was 27 years old when I first had sex but am not bad looking but had trouble with girls, I spent $1000s on girls and got nothing but a kiss.
Honesty protituion even if I have to go to Europe to get it is far cheaper than dating, for married couples obviously shouldn't cheat, don't commit adultery that is as were your morality conflicts with legal prostitution but still can cheat with sluts who arn't prostitues.
The MAJOR reason why prostitution should be legal is because if a man can't have sex legally when he wants he will find a way to take it meaning RAPE or Play a Girl to just sleep with him than go after another.
This will allow better relationships because a guy will not be interested in having a girl friend mainly for sex, Girls can earn extra money for anything they want not because they are desperate for money and there are plenty of girls if you look on adult friend finder or fling.com who are just interested in having sex and a good time and not a serious relationship who will have sex for nothing but presents, drinks and parties which is what 70% or more of girls 18-25 are looking for so why not skip the bullsh-- and say I like you and I like to sleep with you is there something you want in return? | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/6/2008 4:09:07 AM |  All sex is barter. It might be for goods or services. It might be short term or a lifetime, but there is barter at its base. It is just not legal in some places to advertise the person's willingness to exchange sexual services for money.
By the by, I am not opposed to the barter system. I just think that it already exists, and I'm perfectly willing to participate.
Fix up your house? Sure Sweetie!
Cook you dinner? Sure Sweetie!
Pick up your mom from the hospital? Sure Sweetie!
Marry you? Sure Sweetie!
Take care,
Brian | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/6/2008 7:38:16 AM | I don't think prostitution would change many relatioships where the parties are not married and free to end it anytime without the deep financial costs involved in a divorce.
I know I am probably going to get all sorts of flack from people out there for saying this but I believe, for married men especially, the cost of sex is artificially high in the U.S.
For single guys:
Typically, for a single guy out dating, especially in the early stages of the relationship, the man has to organize all the dates and pay for everything without any guarantee that he is going to get sex. Imagine if that single guy saw a hot girl and prostitution was legal and the cost was $100.00 per poke. Think of the money and time you'd save. You wouldn't have to go out for 2,3, or 5 dates that you are paying for to find out if she is going to think your groovy enough to put out for plus you don't have to spend hours turning on the charm when sex is not a sure thing. Your time is worth something. Personally, I probably spend a minimum of $100.00 per date. Last thought with single people, once you do get a girl to put out, one could argue that, for a time, you may pay less per sexual episode as often the early stages of a relationship are filled with lots of lets stay home and screw sex where you don't have to go out and put out a lot of money. I don't want to hear all the B.S. from others that dating is not just about sex because, for most guys, it is. While that is generally true, I am not saying that on-going relationships don't happen along the way. They do. Mostly, a guy sees and attractive woman and his first thought is, "boy, I'd like to nail her" and he doesn't say to himself, "boy, I would like to have an on-going relationship with her and then maybe have sex with her if I things work out".
Did you every see animal planet? Most of those programs center around the fact that the male of the species has an innate animal urge to spread his seed and genes as far and as wide as he can. Same is true for the male of the human species, its built in. We poor guys are slaves to our sex drives.
For married men:
With regard to my assertion that the cost of sex for the U.S. male is artificially high, married men often get a worse deal because as the marraige gets longer, usually the sex diminishes. I know guys who are bringing home thousands per month and their wives will screw them maybe 1-2 times per month or less with a lot of begging involved. It often seems as the more you bring home (for a better life style) the less wifey puts out. Money is not the big issue but a guy figures if he is putting out out work, the wife should put out at home, especially when she is not working.
So, to address the question, for guys in the above noted common marital situations, prostitution may serve to generate more sex for those married guys, from their own wives, out there who are not getting enough and it may work the same way for married women where the husband is not putting out. It would take a powerful weapon away from the non-putting out spouse because sex would be more available. I don't advocvate cheating, but many men get married for a steady supply of sex and, if it is cut off and prostitution was legal, it creates a real threat for those that are selfish with the sex to put out or be dumped as your partner heads for greener pastures. Supply and demand - Market forces.
I know what I wrote sounds sexist or clumsy, but I have seen it. I am not saying there are no good sex filled relationships where money is not a huge factor but most of the married people I know are don't have great sex lives, at least not with each other. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/6/2008 8:19:00 AM | If prostitution was legal, there would probably be less frustrated and angry men on the Internet dating sites. We often see women complaining about men that "only want one thing" so we know that there are a lot of men out there that are trying without success to get sex.
This would benefit women since the men that were on the Internet dating sites would more likely be looking for a relationship than to just get casual sex. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/6/2008 8:22:36 AM | If prostitution was legal, women would be looked at as nothing but sex slaves, seeing has to how 95% of prostitues are women.
There would be more STD's out there as well. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/6/2008 9:49:00 AM |
seeing has to how 95% of prostitues are women.
If there was a greater demand for male prostitutes by horny women, I'm sure there would be a greater number of gigolos. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/6/2008 11:07:03 AM | | What about men that have physical disabilities or various limitations such as speech or learning disabilities? Currently most of these men have to go without sex because women don't see them as "desireable". If prostitution were legal, these men would find it much easier to satisfy there natural physical needs. I think they would be happier and better able to deal with their frustrations. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/6/2008 11:33:50 AM | "If prostitution was legal, women would be looked at as nothing but sex slaves, seeing has to how 95% of prostitues are women."
slaves don't make hundreds of dollars an hour and any prostitute can say no to any john she does not like. If prostitution was legal Women wouldn't have to be worried about being harassed by sex starved men because they can satisfy their sexual urges elsewhere thus leaving you alone. I'm positive a lot of women are threatened by prostitutes because it takes away alot of the power they have over men. A man isn't going to bother with the jumping through hoops just for the chance to get into a girls pants if he can just buy it legally. Like the other poster said there are no male hookers because there is no demand for them most women don't have to pay for it.
"There would be more STD's out there as well. "
how so? by legalizing it it can be regulated so that STD check-ups and using a condom is mandatory. Most escorts are already very careful with their health anyway. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/6/2008 11:50:40 AM |
If prostitution was legal Women wouldn't have to be worried about being harassed by sex starved men because they can satisfy their sexual urges elsewhere thus leaving you alone.
The women complaining about guys that "only want one thing" and the women complaining about getting "hit on" by men when they go out alone would appreciate it if men could get their needs met through a regular commercial transaction. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/6/2008 12:32:01 PM | | I think you are totally wrong; I would NEVER pay for sex. To think that this is a trump card where if women will not give me sex then I'll go for a hooker is going to happen; not a chance. Nevada still has bad divorce rates and they have legal prostitution. Again, no. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/6/2008 1:03:01 PM |
I think you are totally wrong; I would NEVER pay for sex.
You may not pay for it up front. But trust me, you do pay for it. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/6/2008 1:04:58 PM | Here's whats screwy..if you hire a woman for sex and just sex..thats illegal in the US. But if you videotape and make at least some effort to make money from it..it is not illegal.
So get a video camera and you are good to go. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/6/2008 5:03:12 PM |
I think you are totally wrong; I would NEVER pay for sex.
I'm sure there are a lot of guys that would not pay for it either; but some would. It would be a relief for some of the guys with disabilities that have trouble attracting girl friends. I know several men in this situation and I can tell you that they find it very frustrating to have to endure forced abstinence. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/7/2008 10:00:59 AM |
On a serious note if prostitution was legal, i'd have a date every weekend.
Man! That'll be kinda expensive no? Unless there's a Walmart of Prostitutes. Stack it High Sell it Cheap. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/7/2008 10:09:27 AM | | IMO it should be legal. If a single man is paying a woman for sex, then no one is getting hurt by this. BTW it's not just "ugly" and "socially inept" men who pay for sex. Many prostitutes have clients that are fairly attractive, have good jobs, married in some cases etc. Some men rather just pay for sex rather than investing a lot of time and energy in dating. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/7/2008 2:10:08 PM | I really do not understand why prostitution isnt legal now, except for christian morals in our legislature. With that said I dont thin anything would change. Whats the difference between buying a prostitute for the night or spending $50 on drinks for the easy chic at the bar?
About $1500.00+ as well as dinner and possibly breakfast. You won't get a prostitute for the night for $50.00. You won't even get one for an hour for $50.00. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/7/2008 2:20:44 PM |
I think you are totally wrong; I would NEVER pay for sex.
But, you do pay for sex. You just don't pay in advance and you pay with more than just money. On the other hand, prostitutes don't care if you can pay for anything beyond ``right now.''. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/7/2008 4:03:29 PM | Boy if prostitution was legal and there were good looking girls out there doing the deed for money then I think that mainstream girls would have a hell of a lot to worry about. Can you imagine not having to put up with crap and being able to just go to a place and spend some money to spend some time with a good looking girlm Hell you wouldt put up with the sh** that you put up with from normal woman, nope. Agro and crap would end and woman would suddenly realise that guys will do as they please when they please.
I know if there was legal escorts then I wound utilise this as it would open up the way to having fun times with someone thats good looking and attractive. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/7/2008 4:32:23 PM | | My opinion is I don't understand why it IS illegal and I work in the legal field. What's the harm?? People will have sex regardless....most prostitutes are probably more likely to have safer sex than the rest of those out there. Adult Porn is legal....what is the true difference? | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/7/2008 4:45:08 PM |
BTW it's not just "ugly" and "socially inept" men who pay for sex. Many prostitutes have clients that are fairly attractive, have good jobs, married in some cases etc.
I agree. Even some prostitutes can be somewhat picky because there are a fair amount of decent looking and successful men who would be willing to pay for sex especially if the woman is reasonably attractive. | |
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| What if Prostitution was Legal?
Posted: 6/7/2008 5:08:08 PM | I love Victoria Canada, they post the guys /girls names in the paper and they have to attend John school.....
And some of the prostitutes are also married.
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