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 LilyLewis

Joined: 2/18/2008
Msg: 51
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Posted: 3/14/2008 6:46:20 PM
Personally speaking, I would like a woman to show daring. For instance, go to a movie and reach into his pants at an opportune moment, maybe even lick him if you can get away with it. Drop popcorn in his shorts and try to get it out with JUST your tongue. Wear a skirt but don't wear any panties and grab his hand and put it up your skirt. Go to a restaurant and reach under the table cloth and engage him. Be very very sexy and provocative when he least expects it. Go for a walk in the woods, and grab him and pull him off the path, lean up against a tree, pull down your pants and shove his face in your crotch. Use your imagination!


Ahhh...the male Taurus...never a better lover there has been.
 starry_night

Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 52
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Posted: 3/14/2008 8:10:59 PM
OP....I have to reach back in my memory for that kind of scenario......but I don't think I'll ever forget what to do! LOL It's an individual experience molded to that particular individual. You do exactly what comes naturally!
 4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007
Msg: 53
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Posted: 3/14/2008 8:13:15 PM
lily

wtf is ur prob idk wut ur deal is why dont u myob, 4real yo LMAO,

no but seriously, me writing has nothing to do with it, he actually thinks the way i write 4real is cute, so thanks again but WRONG.....

holla
C
 krdog

Joined: 6/29/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 3/14/2008 9:40:04 PM
Carly:

If ya want 'im, go get 'im! Get nekkid, get rangy, get whatever, but get to it!

As far as holding his interest.......the sad truth is ya either will or ya won't; no matter what ya do. If ya do...great, I'm happy for ya. If ya don't, it's HIS loss n YER gain cuz ya don't want anything longterm with a bloke who can't keep HIS OWN interest up! Go ahead n have yer fun with 'im and if he loses interest n blows ya off, blow him off as well (not THAT way you deranged idiots; n ya know who ya are!) They don't call this place 'plentyoffish' for nothin now do they!

As far as how ya write - ya could keep down the acronyms. I'm old and putillterate and find that crap very hard to understand. Can't help ya if I can't understanja!

WOOF!
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 55
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Posted: 3/14/2008 11:36:18 PM
I think I would take her on a road trip. There are two widely-separated places I know of that would be perfect. One is a honeymoon suite in a motel on the Oregon coast that I spent a night in long ago. The room has a fireplace in the bedroom and a back door leading out across a meadow to the beach. Just imagine walking barefoot across that meadow together holding hands in the moonlight, a bottle of wine in one hand, the roar of the sea ahead, throwing a blanket down and laying there together sharing the wine and looking at the sea as you talk about your hopes and dreams. Somewhere out on the lonely ocean you can hear the distant clanging of a buoy bell. When you finally lean over and kiss her, the soft sea spray in the air has put a hint of salt in the taste of her warm lips.
The other place I know is a rustic lodge out next to a national wildlife refuge in southeastern Oregon's sagebrush country. We could walk together on the trail in the refuge and watch the sunset turn the arid bluffs above the marsh into flames of red and gold. As the stars come out, the coyotes would begin to sing along with the night birds. We would take our time walking back to the lodge, talking, whispering, laughing. Then have a romantic dinner in the rustic restaurant sitting next to the lodge. The rooms have huge, comfy four-poster beds where we would sit cross-legged, holding hands and looking into one another's eyes as we chat. The lights would be low and the back door open so that we can hear the frogs in the pond out back as we share some red wine and kisses.
 CowboyBT

Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 56
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Posted: 3/15/2008 6:36:45 AM
I think I'd go for the Special Weekend together. Find a rustic place out away from "the paths most traveled by". Perhaps a cabin by a lake, or up in the mountains, perhaps even a secluded spot along a river somewhere. (Afterall, we both have a love for the outdoors and especially water) We'd spend the mornings watching the mist rise off the water and hear nature doing her thing: the birds waking up, critters running through the woods, fish splashing in the water. As you take in the morning air, all of your senses are heightened. The smells saturate your subconsciousness, the pines, the moistness and aeroma given off from the oak leaves, the water body with it's own distinctive aeroma. The touch: the cool morning caressing your faces as the closeness of your bodies keep you both warm and empassioned. Taste: What's that special morning drink that she relishes. As we're huddled together, she can add to the perfection of "Her Moment" with as many little details as possible attended to.

The day continues on with different activities: walking, talking, taking pictures, playing and teasing and just general ... loveing.

The evening meal is light and simple but tasteful and enjoyed.

Before bed; candles, a hot tub or bubble bath with a lot of touching and caressing and a warm transition to the bed for the final consumation.

This is but a brief idea of one possibility. But I'd want to make it special for both of us.

I try to add detail to show that it is to be a complete experience not just a single focused event.
 Steven02151

Joined: 2/17/2008
Msg: 57
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Posted: 3/15/2008 7:18:34 AM
I've found that if it is special, it will be special whether you are under a bridge inside a cardboard box or staying at the Presidential Suite at the Ritz. Don't worry about it. If it's there, it's there, if it isn't, it isn't. The more you act out of worry and anxiety, it will show in whatever you do.
 zippythehippy

Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 58
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Posted: 3/15/2008 7:30:50 AM
I agree with Eazk, you can't even spell....
definitely learn english, some people notice these things.. The Zipp does , you asked for advice lady, if you don't want it don't ask...

As for the rest, just be yourself, whats the point in acting, he'll only be let down when he sees what you are really like..


The ZIPP
 AdrianEsquire

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 59
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Posted: 3/15/2008 9:57:55 AM
"i would like to thank u for the information and for havin my back on the txt talk....i jus think when u type soooo much and when ur in a comfortable atmosphere why cant u use the lingo or jargin that u use when among friends, MY BAD, its not like i said, wtf idk wut ur talkin about why dont u stfu and myob....LOL"

You really really need to write standard, normal English. I have no idea what you are writing most of the time.
 zippythehippy

Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 60
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Posted: 3/15/2008 1:36:21 PM
yeah exactly well said, I mean you wtite such rubbish and offer no translation?????

stupid or what???
 nocalsingledad

Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 61
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Posted: 3/15/2008 1:39:24 PM
"how would u do it to make sure that your man/woman would be coming back for more?"

The truth is you can't. You can't "make sure" of anything. It is all about taking a risk. There are no sure things when it comes to knowing what someone is going to do in the future.

And I agree with the other posters. Write in plain english, please, not like you are texting on a phone. It looks like something my 9 year old would type. It isn't "cool".
 Blueeyedbaldman

Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 62
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Posted: 3/15/2008 1:45:01 PM
Dont you hate it when you start a post and people rip you apart for spelling or profile information and such? The girl was just looking for opinions. Geez. Good luck 4realgurl. I am sure he will enjoy himself no matter what you decide.
 Kazot

Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 63
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Posted: 3/15/2008 1:47:18 PM
Carly, don't try to love him like you want to be loved. Love him like he wants to be loved. Find out what he likes and do it with enthusiasm and gusto!
 Applette

Joined: 4/13/2007
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Posted: 3/15/2008 1:49:43 PM
Carly Carly Carly ........

I did not mean to be rude ... simply honest and frankly you are not hurting my feelings in the least by commenting on my appearance .. you are as entitled to your opinion as much as I am ... My concern was your honesty in appoarching men and not being forethwith in who you are .... considering people on this site get so bend on people who lie about age and pictures.

When it comes to the first date and what sort of things you plan with that person I find it is best to judge their reaction by asking some questions which may you lead you to what would be enjoyable for both of you .... some surprises tend to end badly ... if you get my drift!!!!!
 zippythehippy

Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 65
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Posted: 3/15/2008 2:15:25 PM
GET OVER YOURSELF AND STOP TRYING TO ACT LIKE YOU ARE SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT BE YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHY ACT??

IF HE DON'T LIKE YOU TELL HIM TO DO ONE


some people
 meteor 54

Joined: 2/10/2008
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Posted: 3/15/2008 3:19:53 PM
Carly,
Once, aGF took the initiative by asking....
"My place or your's?"
At my place, she showed up SHAVED!
Wore VICTORIAS SECRET!!!

Nice touches!!
'Course, I changed the sheets, earlier in the year, so they
were FRESH!!
 XFRITZX

Joined: 11/22/2004
Msg: 67
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Posted: 4/20/2008 3:17:09 PM
if you are interested just act interested, but do it in a non clingy way. thats a huge turn off! the swallowing thing is good but swallowing should be a given its nothing special. If you feel that you really like this person and that it will go to the next level, then it becomes all about compromise. swallowing can be one of these compromises if you dont like it and you know he loves it. and see how much he is willing to compromise. it will determine if he really is a keeper or not. showing him interest and how much he means to you in all you need to make him feel special.
 Arcturo

Joined: 10/18/2007
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Posted: 4/20/2008 5:25:51 PM
take it up your pooper!
 JohnnyHabibi

Joined: 4/13/2007
Msg: 69
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Posted: 4/23/2008 1:14:31 AM
that was a 'boy', don't care how old...you need to find a man...and not somebody that's trying to prove something...I will never understand whay someone would want a one day or night over an affair/ it's so weak...but maybe you are setting your standards too look and both of you are thinking with something other than your mind...don't get me wrong...sex counts...counts a lot, but there ought to be something else....even if you can go all night, there still should be something else...men, normally mature much later than women, so if you want mature you need to do more that whisper sweet nothings...the phernome(pardon my spelling) generally lasts about 7 years if its real...that is what we have so many serial marriages...your problems is one of the costs that comes with so-called civilization, and the problems of knowing if you like, love or lust for another...if it is all three, you have a chance...also, do they keep promises. I would sooner trust someone that will come out and say, I can't promise that, than a liar...don't most unions end in lies...just a little to ponder
 nameunknown

Joined: 4/17/2008
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Posted: 4/23/2008 1:59:30 AM
I agree with Carly optimistic. With an attitude like that it is obvious that you are not getting laid and now feel the need to project your frustrations by criticising others. Just because you are too stupid to be able to decript someone elses short hand does not mean there is something wrong with them. Obviously however there is something seriously wrong with you.

Anyway girl I think you should let him run the show the first time out. Besides what if you create this whole atmosphere that just ends up giving him anxiety worrying about living up to your expectations. Surprise him with the candle light and massage later on. First time out he'll be so happy to be getting some from a pretty girl like you he might not even notice the effort on your part.
 nameunknown

Joined: 4/17/2008
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Posted: 4/23/2008 2:03:27 AM
By the way, all of these people who are picking on you for your spelling and grammar are ugly people who are jealous of the way you look and the fact that you are about to get laid and they are not.
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