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 sunshine4040

Joined: 7/21/2004
Msg: 26
Re: how would u react by this offer?
Posted: 10/23/2004 10:59:48 PM
I would watch out....especially when you are saying that he left the mother of his child before the baby was born. And then he was meeting you while he was with yet another girlfriend. Also, you have nothing other than his word that his g/f is gone. She could still be there with him and you have no way of knowing what is going on. I would not drop everything and move there until I had a lot more time with him, and talked a lot more. Use some extreme caution in this situation. Hope things work out for you...
 Jammer40351

Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 27
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Re: how would u react by this offer?
Posted: 10/23/2004 11:01:50 PM
I think Sunshine said it best.
 Bcgray

Joined: 8/14/2004
Msg: 28
Re: how would u react by this offer?
Posted: 10/24/2004 2:24:11 AM
I hate to play the devil’s advocate, but here goes; you were raised in the German Culture for the majority of your years, yet your ancestral roots are in the Philippines if I have read correctly. Having spent some time in both countries, I can safely say that there is a vast cultural difference between those countries, and both of you will have to face that problem as well as the others, the rest have eloquently addressed. Could there also be the factor that you have a romantic notion of return to your ancestor homeland, and maybe that is what you are in Love with, not necessarily the package, but the surroundings? I truly wish you good luck, but that is a very large mountain you two are attempting to climb.
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