What do men want most in a woman? Free Dating, Singles and Personals

What do men want most in a woman? Posted: 4/23/2009 12:22:46 AM
Men are no different than women-we have the same wants and desires you do. So many women say men are 'dogs', that we can only think with our little head. Quite frequently we do, simply because it's hard-wired into our DNA. It is in our nature to want to procreate, to reproduce as many copies of ourselves as we can. In general, modern society says we should rein in those instincts. Certain religions essentially promote embracing our nature, but within the confines of marriage. Since the sexual revolution of the '60s, and again here in the last decade there has been somewhat of an uprising in women being considerably more vocal about their own sexual appetites. Yet it is still quite the paradox when everyday we hear that women still want their "knight in shining armor", and wonder where chivalry has gone. Women want to be treated as equals in every aspect of life, but somehow want to maintain the "damsel in distress" persona. Which is it ladies? If you continue to potray yourselves as the weaker sex you will always be treated as such. From across a crowded room, if you're perceptive, you can tell a great deal about someone, besides whether or not they're 'hot' . Watch how they interact with people of both sexes. Are they loud or reserved? Are they very physical when they talk, do they touch the other person? Watch their smile, and watch their eyes. If you pay attention, you can see signs of loyalty, honesty and trust, or a lack of. Men want all that just as sure as women do, trust me. And there are plenty of women out there who want nothing more than to end up in a sweaty lump in a pile of tangled sheets. Author Erika Jong called it the "zipperless f**k", where neither party knows the name of the other, nor do they care. And it has no sexual exclusivity; women initiate it as often as men, but so many are afraid to admit it. These online dating sites have the reputation of being for the desperate ones who can't find love elsewhere. As someone who has tried other avenues, I tend to disagree. It opens up greater posssibilities than what are traditionally available. I can "meet" and communicate with a hundred women in one night here. I certainly can't do that in a bar or other venue (and here I don't have to buy drinks!). One can peruse hundreds of profiles, and so long as they are reasonably descriptive and honest can either discount those that don't fit the bill, or respond to those that do. In a bar you have little more to go on than appaearance, unless you become adept at observation, and that takes time that you may not have. Here we can read and evaluate, then move on or send a message. When/if we receive messages, we can respond or delete. While it may be anonymous and impersonal to some, it is much more efficient. How many of you bother reading profiles with no picture? I do it all the time, because there's that chance that my "Ms Right" might be one of them. When we blow off those profiles with no pictures what we're really saying is we're more concerned with what's on the outside than on the inside. Good luck in your searches.