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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 9/4/2008 1:08:35 PM | | there is nothing wrong with using your toy to help out the situation let your man finish the job with the power tool many women do not orgasm with intercourse alone, it is not uncommon or unusual, | |
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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 9/4/2008 1:31:19 PM | | I know you asked for the ladies - but from this man's perspective - I really enjoy watching her help me get her off .... best way to learn what she really likes... (assuming she's done her self exploration and knows what helps get her off...) | |
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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 2/15/2009 7:24:04 PM | | I just wanted to say something to the effect of doing it for the other parties favor. I myself get more pleasure knowing that I have made my guy feel really good. This doesnt mean that I dont get off myself It i guess is a booster to me being horny, I know what I like, I want to see what makes his toes curl, that is my pleasure all in itself, it doesnt always have to be pleasure only by cumming. Just being close to someone is OOOOOO enough for me. But sexual preferences are like ***holes, everyones got one right? So how is one more wrong then the other. If you don't feel like your getting anything out of sex with your partner, man up as they would say and tell them different things you wanna try, if that dont work I dont think you would ever be fully envolved, Try something/someone new. | |
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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 2/16/2009 8:07:31 AM | | Regardless of whether its oral or pentration, good sex is about making sure both partners are pleasured. This issue isn't just for women, men have issues too... so like any other issue why not talk... play, have fun and if you need a little help, help out... in the end its about being pleasured and having a partner satisfied. Amazing what a little hand here, a little talk here, a few choice hot words... and its better and better. | |
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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 5/1/2009 6:35:56 PM | I grew my clitoris all by myself and I can touch it whenever I want too!
No, thankfully, I've never had a partner who wasn't more than willing to receive assistance with pleasuring me. I don't mind helping out at all. Atleast I know I can get 'er done! | |
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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 5/1/2009 6:47:41 PM | He was selfish, AND an idiot. It's HER orgasm, and there is nobody better than her at getting her there; and we've ALL had moments like this. Whether it's because you are new with each other, and haven't figured each other out yet, or whether, for whatever reason, you can't quite get in sync right now. I've had times where one night I gave her 15 orgasms; and the next night I was having touble getting her off at all. It happens. While it's a turn on to watch a woman taking care of herself; in a case like this it SHOULD have been a great lesson on how to please her, what she likes, what she needs, and what DOESN'T do it for her; because, whatever it was he was doing, WASN'T doing the trick. I had a similar experience one time where a lover was going down on me, and I tried to offer her a bit of advice; and her response was, "Be quiet, I KNOW what I'm doing." I'm thinking, "Hey, that's my d1ck, and I know what you're NOT doing!" It blows me away, when someone can be so selfish, or arrogant, to dismiss advice or help offered by their lover on how to get THEM off.
In a situation like this, he had the options of being grateful, appreciative, and attentive. He could have watched and learned. He could have simply watched and enjoyed. He could have maybe placed his had lightly over hers, and followed along with what she was doing. (This is a turn on in that you are actually feeling her pleasure herself, at the same time you are learning HOW to touch her) Another option would have been to watch how she placed her had and fingers; placed his in exactly the same way, and then placed HER hand over his. This is great in that she is actually pleasuring herself, with HIS fingers! Is this a great country or what? While he HAD all of these positive, wonderful, fun options, he chose what was behind Door Number 3; and my bet is that before too much longer, that was probably the exit. | |
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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 5/1/2009 7:09:54 PM | I think that this is more about HIS confidence and pride. Love making is to pleasure your parner and yourself together. It should flow and neither partner should be inhibiting the other. He seems threatened by your help because I guess to him that is saying your not doing it right so I have to do it. Maybe you should talk to him, (not in the heat of the moment) and tell him that you like to help and that it is not a reflection on him. I personally think it is a turn on to have my partner touch me and himself while love making. I like to do the same. It should be all about freedom and respect. He is not respecting you by pushing your hand away. I would never push my partner away. If I had a problem with what he was doing I would talk to him and find out what works for both of us together.
Good Luck. | |
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