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| i'm not into night clubs, bars and dancing places - dealbreaker ?
Posted: 4/20/2008 4:13:29 PM | Nighclubs are full of users, losers. Useless townies & faceless nightclub people. Someomne going to watch a good live rock band is totally different to someone going out to get drunk, teased, laid.
I now make it a rule never to date someone met in a bar. | |
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| i'm not into night clubs, bars and dancing places - dealbreaker ?
Posted: 4/20/2008 6:40:53 PM | Join a religious group, lie and say you wholeheartedly beleive in all it's tenents. Meet a woman and just suffer waiting until marriage since were all going to wait for many years anyways. You may as well be sure your going to be with a woman at the very least.
Seriously I don't like clubs either. Stupid thing is girls don't really go to these places much or actually like them. Yet they want to think you go out partying to imagine your some sort of fun escape from boring everyday life.
You seriously can't win.
I mean I don't drink, find clubs to be boring. The most I do drink if I do is two beers. I do like the idea of dancing and think it's romantic and would go somewhere to dance with a girl if she wanted that. Otherwise I see no point in going to places like that. Their boring. Oh wow me and a bunch of guys are doing something we could be doing at home only without the crappy music and people. Yay go us were so cool!
Of course my initial advice there is just humor and I wouldn't do it becaue pretending to be religous goes against my integrity. <- Anti religious. | |
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| i'm not into night clubs, bars and dancing places - dealbreaker ?
Posted: 4/28/2008 2:38:44 PM | Im in the same situation (as the original poster), i think. I hate clubbing, drinking and music about as much as alot of people hate working (for me, work is preferable!). This makes it very difficult for me because almost all girls i meet, that i have the slightest feeling for, are all keen club goers yet if i go along (as i occasionally do for my friends) i quickly get sick (alchol makes me feel ill), bored, deaf (i hate noise and the music is noisy), uncomfortable (because everyone else is having a good time and im not) and also incapable (i cant dance, music just goes in one ear and out the other). Yet, if i say i dont like things like that, everyone says im boring which simply isnt true. Given a chance to open up i can make any girl laugh, yet it admittadly gets me nowhere.
I dont want to change who i am because i like who i am......even though none of the girls seem to.......i cant seem to find girls who are into the things im into largely because the girls on here are almost all into the same things, or theres no attraction to them, or there are no clubs or groups to join because im either too busy, or the interests i have are rather solo things which groups dont form around. | |
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| I'm not into night clubs, bars and dancing places - dealbreaker ?
Posted: 5/16/2008 12:17:43 AM | MSG #19 >>>it seems most are focused on this point and doing so exactly at bars and clubs for exhibitionist side of them i guess or just because they like having lotsa man drool over them.
Oh - give me a break! Since when is dancing exhibitionism? Do you also think women who like to bowl are exhibitionists? Do you also think that men who enjoy dancing are exhibitionists? Your statement is small minded, chauvinistic and judgmental  Going to a bar/club to enjoy a night of good music and dancing is NOT the same as pole dancing at strip clubs and getting dollars slipped into G-strings from "drooling men".
I'm sure you enjoy a lot of social activities that I don't particularly care for but I wouldn't think any less of you or make unfounded assumptions because of it. | |
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| I'm not into night clubs, bars and dancing places - dealbreaker ?
Posted: 5/16/2008 1:04:39 AM |
This makes it very difficult for me because almost all girls i meet, that i have the slightest feeling for, are all keen club goers yet if i go along (as i occasionally do for my friends) i quickly get sick (alchol makes me feel ill), bored, deaf (i hate noise and the music is noisy), uncomfortable (because everyone else is having a good time and im not) and also incapable (i cant dance, music just goes in one ear and out the other).
My god man, do you live under a rock?  | |
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| i'm not into night clubs, bars and dancing places - dealbreaker ?
Posted: 5/16/2008 1:49:25 AM | i know a lot of people who loves going to bars/clubs, but are also interested in LTR if they can find one (not looking at those places specifically).
i find it pretty silly how people would think that just because a person is a clubhead, automatically somehow means they're just all out partier who has no time to be in a relationship. clubbings and what nots, if your partner likes it, it's just a matter of an extra activity you can both share together. if you like playing your game console, does she have to like playing it too??? same idea no?
spiraldrive: Nighclubs are full of users, losers. Useless townies & faceless nightclub people. Someomne going to watch a good live rock band is totally different to someone going out to get drunk, teased, laid.
EXCUSE YOU?! i LOVE going to clubs, but i don't consider myself a loser. i go there to dance. i've never consumed a single drop of alcohol...atleast to my knowledge (aside from it being mixed in my food unknowingly). i've been an honour student all my life. i have a registered business and employed as a site manager full-time. i don't think that's a "loser" quality do you?
my bf also enjoys clubbing and he's a straight A student... no no...sorry...that's a lie. he got ONE b+ last year and he just got accepted for a leadership 4-yr degree and is planning to be a lawyer. he's currently the banquet captian at his work...for someone who's only been there for 3 yrs...he climbed his way up...even though he's still a student. i don't think that's a loser.
another pathetic stereotyping at its best! | |
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