| Does he really want me as a girlfriends or just a sleeping buddy?
Posted: 3/16/2008 4:06:41 PM | OK, so he wasn't cheating on you and (as far as I can tell) he wasn't cheating on her either. He is going to be a father in about a month... and yes, there are problems associated with that...
As a card-carrying member of the Man Council, I hate to see a fellow man step up to the plate, be honest about his situation, and get axed for it.
To some degree I'm posting to be a Devil's Advocate, but it sounds like you really are into this guy. It sounds like he's trying to be a stand up guy. If he acknowledges you as his girlfriend to his guy friends, then I'd say he's pretty genuine.
Running away wouldn't make you a bad person, but if you bolt... do it for you, not because of him (if you catch the subtle distinction). | |
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| Does he really want me as a girlfriends or just a sleeping buddy?
Posted: 3/17/2008 7:54:21 AM | | Thanks, i really think that his a great guy!!! That had a hell of an experience last summer and i don't want to punish him for doing the right thing. He could be that guy that denise her and the baby!!! I will have to see what happen!! | |
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| Does he really want me as a girlfriends or just a sleeping buddy?
Posted: 3/29/2008 2:11:12 PM | He wants to keep your relationship on the "down low" as you call it, and you just hate starting over...
Here goes....
Keep what you two have on the "down low", stay unhappy, live life on the back burner...
OR
Pull up your socks, get a backbone, stand up for yourself and learn to be happy and kick him to the curb.
...thinking ***girl doesn't wanna start over*** shaking head...sheesh. | |
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| Does he really want me as a girlfriends or just a sleeping buddy?
Posted: 4/22/2008 2:06:50 AM | Yes...he wants you...and as many other women as he can have at one time as well. Oh yeah...don't tell because some of the others don't want to share men.
You obviously don't care or have any personal pride. So...take a number and enjoy him when it's your turn. | |
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| Does he really want me as a girlfriends or just a sleeping buddy?
Posted: 4/24/2008 8:43:32 PM | | I can't say I know you, but I can say that every girl deserves the best. Try to take a step back and think. Is this really the best you can do? Is this what you deserve. Moreover is this what you want. Think about it. Oh and just my own two cents, if a guy is irresponsible enough to get a random girl pregnant, do you think he will be responsible enough to be the father of your children? That is your end game right? A family? Look at people and ask, "Would I want him to be the Father of my children?" | |
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