| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/16/2008 10:30:44 AM | If you've been together for a while and you can ask him to do something for you and and he hears you, he loves you.... if he does what you asked him to do, he probably really loves you... and if he does it before you ask him to, he adores you | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/16/2008 12:43:15 PM | | Well that's the million-dollar question, isn't it? If I knew I'd tell you. | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/16/2008 2:08:03 PM | | Hearing I love you is not the way to tell if a man loves you or not.Some guys,women too find the three words to easy to say.To me the actions speak far louder than words.The way he touches you with a softness like none you have ever felt.Ladies it takes awhile for most men to fall in love.They can fall in lust on the first date,it is not the same. | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/16/2008 2:11:30 PM | lucilou
You are one lucky woman .These are the actions I spoke of in post 179. Give me someone who shows how he feels any day. | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/16/2008 3:46:15 PM | I am not really that lucky Ladyhawk, he is not scared just dont want to commit, Everytime I ask him if he loves me he wont anwer, then i just presume there's no feeling there. We split because he cheated and no big deal, past is the past, just look forward to the future. A man who is a womanizer will always be a womanizer. I am not bitter, there's always fish in the ocean. I dont think I will have a hard time finding one who will tell me he loves me and meant it . You are right action is louder than words BUT women wants to hear that 3 words " I love you"  | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/16/2008 5:04:09 PM | "You can look for subtle clues, and try to read subliminal messages into ordinary actions, but we are really not that complicated! If you want to know something, just ask. We'll tell ya."
Love it. Seems simple nough...why is execution so difficult? lolol | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/16/2008 5:12:52 PM | | lizzaliscious your whole post reaks of absolute immaturity, you must be very young to really believe what you wrote. | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/16/2008 5:21:13 PM | | Wow Purple, well said now where can I find a man like that! | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/16/2008 5:45:34 PM | I have only been inlove 2x in my life. That is a good question? I had a man tell me one time that I looked at him a certain way and he melted! I had another tell me that he fell inlove with my heart, and what I meant to him. There are so many types of love, and I feel that we all love in different ways, and that when we say we are inlove that it isnt necessarly what someone else may feel when they say they are inlove. In my opinion there is being inlove and loving someone, like there is having sex and makinglove.
Everyone feels different :) | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/16/2008 6:09:13 PM | what about an X-husband who comes back says he loves you wants to save his marriage and then days later changes his mind. My X goes through this off and on. Like he has bi-polar. first he will say he loves me and wants me in his life , then he says he is disappointed from me putting furniture in storage after he cheated. Sure I was a bit of a mess when he cheated. but can somene tell me why he changes like the wind.
Can a man turn his feelings off over night or does he have insecure issues. .
just curious, I do not want to hurt him but if needs a friend I want to be there for him. | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/16/2008 6:31:21 PM | Wow! I wished that every man out there could express himself the way that you did there. It was inspiring to know that a man does hurt the way we do when we loose someone we love with all our heart and soul. I have often wondered if men hurt the way we women do when there is a break up.
You have put some new perspective on things for me.
I wish you well.
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/16/2008 6:50:05 PM | Wow! I wished that every man out there could express himself the way that you did there. It was inspiring to know that a man does hurt the way we do when we loose someone we love with all our heart and soul. I have often wondered if men hurt the way we women do when there is a break up.
no,we do not. | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/17/2008 8:48:24 PM | I wouldn't be able to tell if I was "in love". It'd just be a feeling I'd have.
I've been told that I can be read easily, so I'm sure the woman I'm with will probably know when I'm "in love" far before I will be aware.
Just don't expect me to say those 3 words. I'll show you in far more ways than the words portray. | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/17/2008 9:50:08 PM | Honestly, there are not too many guys who will admit this, but its basically the same feelings that women feel...The excitment of seeing that person...A big smile on thier face when they see its there girl calling on the phone....Being able to just look at your girl in the eyes and just smile without even saying a word....A lot of guys will never admit it because they have to keep thier "Man" mentality...I dont know, maybe its because Im a hopeless romantic, but personally from guys I have seen act when they dont know im paying attention to myself. its basically the same....Love is more action than a feeling...Anyone can buy someone roses, or buy someone jewlery, but when the little things are done, thats when you know thats the "feeling" of love is there | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/18/2008 12:34:04 AM |
what about an X-husband who comes back says he loves you wants to save his marriage and then days later changes his mind
sounds like yours is just trying to keep all his girls | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/18/2008 9:39:13 AM | | nicely said Caskey...it's how you do something...your intentions,are they pure,from love or just to look good for whatever reason...There are however,some people who seemingly just like to do things for people.... | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 6/18/2008 11:15:33 AM | im not a very trusting person.... so when my baby told me he was in love w. me ... i didn't believe him...
but after reading what these men have said :) I quess it's true...
rearranging his schedule to go do little things w. me that he has no interset in
asking me to hang out while he is w. his buddies
little adorable cards in my mailbox , on my bedside table, truck window
coming to see me when he knows he is dead tired and can barely keep his eyes open, just because i asked
holding my hand and laughing together no matter where we are and whose around
having fun together while doing nothing, yet hours pass so quickly and seem more like minutes
ohh wait it's starting to sound like im the one in love...
hummmm | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 7/5/2008 3:41:37 PM | | Thats a mature answer that everyone (male & female) needs to hear. Anytime you meet someone and they inspire you to change for the better of a relationship, you are right, that is LOVE. | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 7/5/2008 3:59:22 PM |
Anytime you meet someone and they inspire you to change for the better of a relationship, you are right, that is LOVE.
If you have to change to be in a relationship, whether you are forced to or "inspired" to, then you are flatly with the wrong person. If I don't smoke, I need to be with someone else who doesn't smoke, not someone who smokes but I can inspire to quit.
Romantic love actually is when you feel total happiness and satisfaction with everything about a person, without them needing to change a thing. It doesn't bother you when they're late because at least they arrive safely. Them leaving the cap off the toothpaste honestly doesn't bother you at all. They snore, but they are so d@mned cute when they do it that you could just lie there all night and watch them. THAT is love. | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 7/5/2008 4:13:18 PM | | Babe!! if your going out with him ..then you know.. if you dont .. then he is not... meaning a man that makes you feel he is not in love with you !!.. is not in love .. assuming this is not an old relationship.. and the man dose love you but is taking you for granted... in a fairly new one then he is not.... he may love you , but in love! ... NO!!... . And if you two are just dating.. well you have to be wise enough to see through the liers or recognize the real thing..... these things cant be writen as fact but the most likely bet and usually its right... but the problem here is you .. you are in love and cant see through the lier.. also a man cant be all over you all the time chowering you with attention and de-value himself , " IF" a woman is not giving him any attention.. but i dont think this is your case by your question... and like wise give your self some value and demand attention if that is what you want by moving on.. you tell the person that you love them and that you would like to be with them but back it up with selfrespect by m0ving on if he dosent respond... God its so hard to write this cause every sircumstance has its little diferences but it applies to all. men or weman.. REMENBER VALUE YOURSELF... if not you wont have any value to him or her. | |
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| when does a man know, when a woman is in love
Posted: 7/29/2008 9:18:03 PM | | woke her up every morning with a kiss and a cup of coffee and her cigarrettes for 18 yrs. got up at 2 am and went to winn dixie to get her some med's because she was sick. fixed her breakfast, to go, every morning. got the kid's up. fixed their breakfast. day's that she was off and I had to work. where's my coffee and cigs? where's my breakfast? where is my kiss good morning? very attentive to her sexual needs. cold to my needs. screem at the top of her lungs when I put my arm around her shoulder in walmart stoooooop!!! I've been alone for 18 yrs. Now, I have divorced her. cann't take it anymore. don't want to be alone for the rest of my life. her children," my step children", will not let me see my grand children. she's the victim. how do I know when a woman loves me? | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 7/29/2008 11:44:26 PM | | It is quite simple. When a man is in love. You won't have to ask. You'll know. Don't look for signs because love is not something you see. It is something you feel. And don't let him borrow your love. Meaning, don't allow the fact that you love him so much make you feel that some of the love is coming from him. | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 7/30/2008 12:30:52 AM | Honestly love has NO gender, So there is no ONE answer to that question.
You can only ask each individual, when do they feel, that they are in love. Every man has his own beliefs, thoughts, likes, dislikes, and feelings. There isn't a universal code, that we all go by, when it comes to LOVE.
Its genderless.
I feel I am in love, when I can accept the person I am with for who they are!!!! Flaws included. | |
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| when is a man in love?
Posted: 7/30/2008 8:54:46 AM | I feel I am in love, when I can accept the person I am with for who they are!!!! Flaws included.
i think this has more to do with when you choose to act on the love that you feel. | |
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